I dont know what to do right now. I love my boyfriend more than life itself, and i would love nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him. But i keep hurting him. I really dont mean to. My parents have been married and divorced so many times. and my mom has hurt my dad way too much. and they really are better off without each other. My bf has asked me to marry him. But i dont understand why... I moved across country for him, and then i left him after about 2months. I really wish i hadnt. But i think my problem is that im terrified that im gonna do him like my mom did my dad. and he really doesnt deserve that. So i told him that maybe hes better off without me. ive never cheated on him or anything like that. But ive hurt him in other ways. and hes told me that. But hes begged me not to leave him. but he deserves to be with someone who isnt going to hurt him. He strongly believes that im the one for him, and i do to. Should i try it? or end it, so i dont leave him again...
2007-02-26 22:32:43 · 6 answers · asked by So Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be with him because despite of whatever you did and hurt him he still loves you and wants to marry you. Just because you think you are going to repeat your parents mistakes doesn't mean you can't get a chance at this. Be smart and don't repeat their mistakes. Don't make it as a cycle. Set a new example for yourself and your future children if you want any. Try to make your relationship a healthier one and LEARN from your parents mistakes not just give up and think that you r the same. Good luck and say YES to his proposal if you are too really into him. Congrats in the future.
2007-02-26 22:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Legant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know he is the one for you and he knows you are the one for him then you better not pass this opportunity up. Mutual feelings like that don't come along every day. In most relationships only one person is certain and the other one goes along with it hoping to be happy and hoping they are making the right decision. Your marriage will be what you make of it. Don't ruin your chance at happiness because of fear of what might happen. If your man loves you he will stick by you through your times of doubt. I think the question you should ask yourself is if he really is "the one" for you and if you are willing to make this relationship work because it sounds like he has already made his decision.
2007-02-27 06:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you love him very much and that is why you are afraid to hurt him but bcoz you are always thinking of what your mom did to your dad you are unable to concentrate on your own relationship. I think that you should just forget about the past and be with your boyfriend otherwise you will regret this for the rest of your life.
2007-02-27 10:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by rocker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how he feels, listen to me; Don't EVER make a mistake like giving up. Unless you wanna spend the rest of your life regretting leaving him and never finding someone like him again...
You say it yourself, he loves you the way you are!
Giving up will not make him happier.
2007-02-27 06:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a different person than your mom and you can make that difference too. Your mom shouldn't ruin your relationship just because she had marital problems.
2007-02-27 06:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it for your future
2007-02-27 06:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋