i think my boyfriend have changed. before he can wait for me for until 10minutes,he's not mad. but now i think he only have waited for 1-2minutes he's mad at me. i always tell him that im sorry.
im not always late but sometimes its the environment that's keeping me late (i.e traffic) i told him to be more patient but he still insist that its his attitude and i can't change it.
but when im the one who's waiting eventhough he's 30mins late its ok for me. i understand him. i don't quarrel with him.
that's why everytime we are having little fights the reason is always me, cause even a single wrong move, he's mad.
2007-02-26 21:30:54 · 6 answers · asked by jhen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He was nice to you before because he wanted you and to impress you. That is why it is advisable for people to take a dating further because it longer it is the more you will notice some things that you may not like but will make a choice if you can live with. In your case most guys do not have Tender care and they hide behind their nature. Tender care to a woman means that you leave your habits to accomodate a woman. It is of common cause that women take time to prepare themselves and if a man loves her will wait for her. and sometimes men start changing their behaviour once they sleep with a lady so it is advisable not to give him the apple untill you are married. That may not be the case in your relationship but that guy needs to have some TC.
2007-02-26 21:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Yahoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need basic problem solving and conflict resolution skills. The manner in which you guys address issues is childish-- grow up! Take off 10-20 minutes ahead of schedule from now on to avoid traffic or other problems.
2007-02-27 05:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny it sounds like ur man is a control freak and i would be getting out of this relationship as soon as possible.... if it is good enough for u to wait for him then he can wait for u.. dont let him walk over u and make u feel worthless... maybe u should abuse him a few times wen he is late and see how that makes him feel.. but if he is like this now can u imagine what ur life would be like if u stayed with and god forbid married him
2007-02-27 05:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be a selfish, controlling SOB. But there is a chance that he is not even aware of how unfair he is being. Discuss it with him when neither of you are mad. Do it in a non-judgemental way.
2007-02-27 05:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Babe, well i must tell you this is something you wounldn't like to take for ever...
All you have to do is call him up and talk to himabout it, if he doesn't change, then i must tell you that he's not right guy for you, you understand his insticts but doesn't understand yours, so what kind of guy is that, is not reliable, he could do worst more if you don't talk to him about..
At least to know where you stand?
Hope this helps...
2007-02-27 05:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has anger management issues and needs to get help... dump him until he gets help...
2007-02-27 05:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋