I m 25yrs working as a Software Project Faculty, A girl which comes to our project centre for doing her project. I had expressed my feelings after 2 weeks, with blabber like “never forgot you”. “I will sucide if you are not accept me” like this. But her answer is “I had already engaged with my cousin, he is for me”, and also said “I am doing my MBA now so please understand, I am not interested this type of matter, my parants are not accept you because you are a Muslim, I am a Brahmin”, I saw you only for my guide for my project. Till now I feeling lot and my heart always think about her, her name and her face is shown all the place where I go. So dos’t forgot her, so I am become an unconsious manner. In past few months, my confusion is she is whether try to ignore me or she is told the truth. Her feelings are giving more pain to me. . . and not yet forgot her .. .
2007-02-26 18:10:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi my friend.I am 22 years.I am as a software profession.I too loved a person.He proposed to me last 7months before.I dragged my answer till 3months and finally decided that I am really in need of his love and tried expose my love.But unfortunately when I went and told him he was engaged to another girl due to his mom's completion.The mistake I did is I exposed my love to him.Even After this long period of months I cant forget his Lovable words,his face,his action and behaviour.Love Pains but gives us a confident to sight the fact and live.When I heard that person who I loved calling me and saying that His wife is great doing this that and all to him.I am happy one end but dying the other end.Thank God that atleast you stand away from that girl and is safe from these kinds and pains.When you miss a person it hurts.When they go with someone leaving us it pains.But if they live with someone else infront of you it Kills.So life has its own beauty.Try to avoid seeing her.Try to avoid using her names somewhere.Try to be with friend and close one.Try to avoid loneliness.Try to make new friends rather than Love.If you want you can even chat with me at this mail id sindhu_ja_2007@yahoo.com(or).co.in
2007-02-26 19:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you have scared her off by saying things "I never forget you" and "I will suicide if you don't accept me". You haven't allow her to get to know you. If I was her I would makeup a story to get as far away from you as possible. You came off as to obsessive and psycho.
If you see someone that you're interest in you have to get to know the young lady. First find out through intelligent conversation if she's serious about someone and then you'll know where you stand. Getting to know her and developing a bond doesn't happen overnight. Of course instanst attraction happens but there's more to a person than the physical desire.
Please re-elevate yourself, ask questions to more experience friends, family, co-workers, or better yet get professional counseling of how to deal with your emotions. Good Luck!
2007-02-26 19:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Let her live peacefully.
She has clearly told you that, you are not her type, in every respect. You are not at all in her priority list. Don't try to be behind her. That will 'NOT' help you in any way.
Move on. Life is like that. Enjoy it as it comes.
2007-02-26 20:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by mobile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the time what will help You. I know that You don't like this answer now, but belive me it's true. Now, You must try to concentrate on something or someone else...
2007-02-26 18:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by monika s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u may need to see a counselor for why you cannot be fulfilled on your own. you got a straight answer and you are obsessing with someone you have never had a chance to have and is promised to another. you're totally in fantasy world. why are you punishing yourself?
2007-02-26 18:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by tryinthis2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look yaar if she is already engaged this doesnt mean u will force her to be urs.There many gals in world & there will 1 who will love u
2007-02-26 18:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your nickname doesnt help you a lot XD once you've sex with a woman with out her concent its rape there is not any loophole there is not any walking round it . so i guidance you to imagine before you do somthing youll remorseful about
2016-10-17 09:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by lubin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she respected u for being her guide, nothing more. after u asked her, she clearly told her reason for not accepting and family background also. if u take it more further, u will get disrespect from the girl herself. please leave it at that. convince urself saying that 'the grapes r sour'. ok, get going ahead, dont waste time brooding over spilt milk! take care.
2007-02-26 21:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by purna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man... time will heal any thing... moreover keep your mind busy in your fav activities - Games, music etc... and get to me after two months! You will be normal again, simply dont just constantly think about her like a mad! please - gud-luck
2007-02-26 18:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Romps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her!
2007-02-26 18:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋