2007-02-26 19:29:26 · 7 answers · asked by SOJLO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when we was growing up my brother was in prison, and i remember being in the doctors when they called my name to see the doctor, two people starting saying "that's her brother who is in side" (we had a unusual surname)
So i polity turned round and said "yes he maybe, but I'm not and we are two very different people" i left with my head held up high, they had very red faces.
But i did find people would treat me differently before i got married and my surname changed.
I would also write to him on most day's, just telling him about the things that i had done, even though it was probably a load of rubbish, he said that he looked forward to the letters, and it helped him get through.
So try and write to the person a lot, it does help.
2007-02-26 19:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't necessarily "treat" you differently unless you are the one in prison. As for how you cope, one day at a time. You keep on loving them and stay in contact as best as you can.
2007-02-26 19:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by RAMIE R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOUR LOVED ONE GOES TO PRISON IT MAKES YOU CHANGE FOR THE BEST. IT SHOWS YOU HOW TO PRAY. AS FAR AS FOR PEOPLE TREATING YOU ANY DIFFERENTLY I DON'T SEE IT. YOU DIDN'T DO THE CRIME SO WHY WORRY. YOUR FAMILY MEMBER HAS DONE THE CRIME AND IT IS HARD ON THE FAMILY TO BE WITHOUT THE LOVE OF THAT LOVED ONE, BUT YOU GET OVER IT AND YOU FIND COMFORT IN THE LORD. YOU DON'T EVEN RECONIZE THE OTHER PEOPLE. IF SOMEONE TREAT YOU ANY DIFFERENTLY THEY ARE IGNORANT TO LIFE. SO TO COPE WITH IT IS TO PRAY, AND COPING WITH IGNORANCY IS A DIFFERENT THING IN ONE. YOU SEE THOSE PEOPLE AND YOU DON'T SEE THEM AND YOU HEAR THEM AND YOU DON'T HEAR THEM. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND BELIEVE THAT THINGS WILL WORK OUT. AND IT WILL AS LONG AS YOU GOT THE LORD IN YOUR LIFE.
2007-02-26 20:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by shareron 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 21:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my case I had a brother in jail I hardly talked about him been in jail because I didn't want to feel the rejection of people but I then decide to start expressing my self with friends about him and the way I felt and how it hurt me to have him there. I received comfort and prayers also friends help me get trough the sadness that all that brings and thanks to the lord he is out and out for good. good luck and have confidence that everything will be OK
2007-02-26 19:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by chinitaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people will trest you differant but dont let them bother you keep ya head held high its not you who has done the crime
2007-02-26 19:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
f his wife or girlfriend untill he gets out
2007-02-26 19:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋