List the ways and detailed personal stories are optional, yet a plus.
2007-03-01
23:39:38
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Please note the question was left vague and NOT AT ALL mentioned I wanted to know how to destroy someone. I did not ask this and nor do I want to do this to anyone The question was asked as part of a psychology experiment to see how people would respond to it. In several minutes, I had 20 responses that attack my sanity instead of be willing to face their own negative behavior, which was the the point of the question. Have you ever thought such negative responses can and possibly be the reason some one's life is destroyed? Think careful of how you words can affect someone's life before you throw stones.
2007-03-02
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update #1
Thanks to those who responded in a positive manner. Realizing how you were hurt or how you can hurt others is the first step in preventing such behavior towards you or others.
2007-03-02
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update #2
There's a saying: "It would not be consistent with the public good to divulge this information at this time..."
BINGO!
2007-03-01 23:42:39
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answered by Flubbadub 2
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Actually, you won't win by destroying someone. You might end up ruining your own life, depending how far you take it. Obviously someone has seriously hurt you and your first reaction is to lash back at them with all your might. But harboring the hurt and resentment will only hurt you. Your best course of action is to decide within yourself that you are the better person. You won't stoop so low as to bring yourself to their level by retaliating. I'm not sure what this person did but you have the power to show them they can't ruin your life. You have the power to show them that you are so strong that their actions seemed insignificant. This doesn't mean that you have to just take whatever they did. Stand up for yourself and refuse to be treated that way. The best revenge is to move on with your life and be a happy person. Show them that their plot to destroy you by hurting you so bad has failed.
2007-03-02 07:51:15
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answered by cakekweeny 2
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If it's a girl, I keep asking if she's gaining weight. Really messes with their heads.
I had a friend tell me that she was going to downplay her birthday. Suddenly I hear from another friend that she's hanging out of a car window inviting everyone to her birthday party. The next time I saw her I asked if she had put on a few pounds. She cried the rest of the day.
Guys are harder. You have to find what they are specifically sensitive about and go for it.
2007-03-02 07:51:23
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answered by Anonymous
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No details, just some advice:
Don't kill your nemesis too soon. You'll want time to gloat.
Try to be low-profile about your business. Your enemy will know it's you, and you'll avoid unwanted attention from Higher Authorities.
Revenge gives one something to look forward to when things aren't going well. Properly done revenge takes time. Year in, year out, in good seasons and bad, one can find satisfaction in the moving into place of the pieces, the subtle arrangement of the elements that one day will cause your hated enemy to lurch forward in pain and cry: 'What, why, is this all due to that time I -- aww, F*CK!”
2007-03-02 07:43:56
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answered by Superdog 7
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If this is a genuine question with the intention of literally destroying someone, then I suggest you get over it. the deep seated hate you feel will burn away and in the end destroy you.
2007-03-02 07:43:18
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answered by lynn a 3
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The same way you will be destroyed by them if they find out what you want to do. Destroying other people is destroying yourself. They'll be able to recover, somehow, but you'll never be able to forgive yourself for doing that, no matter how crazy you are.
2007-03-02 07:43:46
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answered by mrquestion 6
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I think your mentally disturbed and SICK IN THE HEAD?? how can u ask how to destroy someone, more over u even asking for details, what are u a hitman or sumthgn???, i think u should be ashamed of urself, Just because your destroyed, you cnt go destroying other people
2007-03-02 07:44:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Destroy them with kindness.... if you take the higher road and act like that person doesn't concern you in the slightest, that hurts them because they realize that they are the scum.
Trying to actively destroy their life, however, will only destroy you. It's not good to have all that hate inside. ...
2007-03-02 07:44:07
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answered by Nasubi 7
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becomes a case in the courts...and that would be to defame ones character with the intent to discredit. Not a good idea
2007-03-02 07:42:45
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answered by Anonymous
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destroy is a harsh word you sound bitter if you have been hurt be the better person and move on ,revenge will consume you
2007-03-02 07:45:28
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answered by matty60 4
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will for me well let me tell astory all of my depression all started in elemantry school and i kissed a middler schooler well he broke my heart and i got all depressed and stuff then at then end of 8th gade i i choked my self 2 times then i silced up my arms.then i had to go to a hostpiatal just to get help.there u go there is your story.
2007-03-02 07:45:56
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answered by sara 19 2
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