Other - Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

Has anyone ever had experience being the third wheel in a polyamourous relationship? And if so, how did you handle issues, problems, time, ect? I am falling in love with him, him with me but his other girlfriend (who's idea it was to begin with!!!) now wants to pull the reigns in on him and make it hard on us. It's all very confusing!

2007-02-28 02:57:29 · 20 answers · asked by blackwidow13 1

Okay, so it might not be during sex particually, but she finds pain arousing. I know this is not a super uncommon fetish, but it worries me. Should I be worried by it? She has expressed gulit over having the fetish, but what should I do? Is it a sign of a larger problem? And if it's not really an issue after all, how can I please her in that way with out doing anything expressly violent?

2007-02-28 02:44:38 · 10 answers · asked by Wolf Jackson 1

LIST THEM FROM 5 DOWN TO 1.
It makes you feel realy good when you think about it and put it down in front of you.

2007-02-28 02:38:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Details please... look's, act, anything...

2007-02-28 02:24:37 · 6 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1

he always callsme fat ,gets my sister to hit me he never helps her whene she needs it and she allways helps him he promises to get stuff for ther kids (my sisters) and never does

2007-02-28 02:16:22 · 2 answers · asked by holly-eloise w 1

If you knew what you know now would you want it back?

2007-02-28 02:08:54 · 8 answers · asked by Bee 3

My Sons Teacher wants to test him for ADHD
I have had 3 family members children who she has also wanted to test for it ,And the teacher is known for having several kids a year tested ,We read the pamplet she gave us and he did not fit any of the signs ,I think that it very misdiagnosed and that he is just bored,he is a very laid back child .But she says that he is being angry towards her,I asked him and he told me it is cause he thinks she hates him and that she picks on him all day and that he can't take it anymore ,sad coming from a 7 year old.I am going to let him be tested but i refuse to have him drugged like a zombie ,And last year his teacher made no complaints,he was student of the day once a week and she was always praising him when i went to field trips and helped out in the classroom,Am i doing the right thing?

2007-02-28 02:04:52 · 8 answers · asked by Tara 5

please help me.. i know this guy since one crazy year. we have been having a long affair. i am still in love. he was too. but long ago started looking for other girls & going out. having fun. he also has got 2 kids (which he did hide from me quite some time - when things cleared then.. it had been too late - me in love - he probably a little bit too.. BUT FROM THIS DAY ON HE COOLED DOWN this affair step by step.. like he was trying not to get into love too much)

he lately told me i was the best thing, that happened to him in 2006.

he is too, for me, no doubt.

but he seems to avoid contact. why? any guesses from you, guys, why :-) we are still there for each other, sending messages. and trying to fix a date. but we don't get that far!! we both have too complicated lifes at the moment :-(

i am sad and angry. what to do. i can't get him out of my head. trust me, i TRIED ;-)

2007-02-28 01:49:56 · 6 answers · asked by india18 2

what are some romantic ideas a boyfriend/husband can do for a girlfriend/wife? all ideas welcome :) (creative are the best ones)

2007-02-28 01:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by coy5coy 1

lately i really dont know who i am anymore.
things are so confusing

2007-02-28 01:38:21 · 13 answers · asked by Raccch 1

What do you feel your role in their lives would be? Do you feel there would be no role at all and they are not your responsibility? If so, why date or end up in a relationship with someone who has children to begin with?

2007-02-28 01:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-02-28 01:27:16 · 23 answers · asked by SOJLO 3

I’m really concerned about one of my mates. She has been suffering from depression for years, she takes the anti depressants but she says they make no difference. The other day she was going to cut her wrist and today she was going to call an ambulance and tell them to pick her up. Obviously she is scared to do it but one of these days she is going to do it. She hardly opens up and tells me what her problems are. What can I do people to help her.

2007-02-28 01:14:57 · 23 answers · asked by Mr. 4

2007-02-28 01:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by balwinder s 2

i think every boy lies cuz they're dumb. my boyfriend lies to me about the stupidest things...tell me why c'mon now like today i asked him are u baked? n he sed no i sed r u lying he sed yep.. why wud u seriously lie about that? little things add up

2007-02-28 01:00:59 · 5 answers · asked by angel1566789 1

well he use to tell me all this stuff on the phone about not liking this girl. well then i started to like him. but on valentines day he asked her out. they hang with us so when she is not looking he mouths out he likes me. im so confused

2007-02-28 00:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by Alasken Girl 1

He was diagnosed with oesophagus cancer last year but recently we have been told that there is nothing more the doctors can do except make him comfortable.

Obviously, we would like to make this birthday special but we are stuck for ideas!

A party is out of the question as he tires easily and he struggles to keep down even liquidized food and he already has a star named after him!

I would be extremely grateful for any suggestions as to how we can show him how proud we are of him and how much he is loved by us all!

2007-02-28 00:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by thesrhlz 2

Sometimes I have a difficult time forgiving someone that's hurt me, but I know it's the right thing to do. Do you all find it easy to forgive? I'm just wondering, I figure most people would answer no, but I'm interested in your opinion.

2007-02-28 00:53:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which would you prefer to use? Or is there something else?

2007-02-28 00:29:56 · 33 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2

get up to go do your business and find the gun you were going to use was stolen...(the gun was there 8 hrs ago).

This was years ago after the death of a child, but it makes me wonder if it were a sign.

What do you think?

2007-02-28 00:17:24 · 11 answers · asked by Grogan 5

after she killed your child and claimed she had a miscarriage?

2007-02-28 00:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2

O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again? please let me know!....UPDATE: Last night she sent me a text out of the blue, saying how guilty she felt & nevr meant to hurt me&hates herself! NOW WHAT!!

2007-02-28 00:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1