O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again? please let me know!....UPDATE: Last night she sent me a text out of the blue, saying how guilty she felt & nevr meant to hurt me&hates herself! NOW WHAT!!
2007-02-28 00:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THATS GOOD NEWS! Go and see her, you're probably meant for each other.
2007-02-28 00:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by eyentmd8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and fix my problems and see what it is about myself that I can better.Every relationship teaches us something about ourselves that we can learn from so that some day when the right one comes along we will have learned enough about ourselves to sustain a real relationship.Every thing in between is testing grounds for the real thing.Move on and remember all that went on in this relationship and see your contributions as they really are and don't blame anyone for the break up not even your self for what's meant to be will be regardless.Good luck and I hope you find joy on your new journey towards love and life and don't be afraid to love again no matter how long it last or how short it lasts.
2007-02-28 00:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CRAZY Why do people play with other peoples minds? Don't put up with such mind games.
2007-02-28 00:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Brown Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋