lately i really dont know who i am anymore.
things are so confusing
2007-02-28 01:38:21 · 13 answers · asked by Raccch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetie, I was you a couple of months ago! I was lost, confused, angry for an unknown reason, whatever you could think of! Now a days, you feel so pressured to fit in with everyone, that you get lost in yourself. You can't be everyone all the time. And you shouldn't have to be. You need to take time to find yourself. Find out what it is that you like to do, who you are. Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself," today I am going to find one thing about me that makes me happy". I did it! I did it everyday for a long time. And before you know it, you just kind of fall into yourself. Don't do things that you normally wouldn't do, just because your "friends" are doing it, or think you should. If they respect you and are truley friends withyou becuase they care for you, them they wiil respect you, and your decisions. If you used to wear pink polka dotted socks, because that's what everyone elsa was doing, but you hate the color pink, then don't wear them anymore! I hope you understand what I am trying to say. Do what makes you feel comfortable, and soon you won't even remember what it means to feel lost or confused! Good Luck!!!!!
2007-02-28 02:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by cim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far you are rach w on yahoo answers.
I presume you are a nice girl with a good life that have just gone out of whack. You have a nice job/studying at uni/attending school.
You must think abstractly, apply logic, make opinions, have aims and long term goals. Your thoughts make you who you are. You do not have a catergory; people do not belong in catergories. You are unique in who you are and what you do with your life.
If you have problems knowing who you are, stare at yourself in the mirror. It's a clue.
2007-02-28 01:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rach
You don't give much to go on so difficult to understand why you are feeling this way & to give good advice
e-mail me in confidence anytime if you feel like you need to talk about things
take care
2007-03-03 21:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well take a holiday get some rest,or go to aborad and do some soul searching that's helps that's waht i did two yeras ago i went to Greece then on to North Dakota it was great.
good luck.
2007-03-03 00:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by tacha w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a hobby, make more friends, volunteer, go back to school, find a better or just a job in general. read some books on spirituality. know your sexual orientation, and what you like in yourself and others, and you will be as far off as most of us are. no one really knows who they are until they die.
2007-02-28 02:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something has happened to you ; jugging by what you say. that could mean many thing.s .take a few days off; and chill.have a think about ever thing.
2007-02-28 01:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check yourself into a mental ward and quit smokin so much dope.
2007-02-28 02:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by dcam47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What things?If you give some more info,then we could make some suggestions.Good luck
2007-02-28 01:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u really are confused!! just look at your typing!!! poor thing! hope you get over it and remember how to type properly
2007-02-28 01:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by yummy_mummy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'll pray for you, but if your not one of God's elect i do not think it will help!
2007-02-28 01:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by godelectedme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋