Other - Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

If you give someone life-changing relationship advice and they act upon it, are you responsible if there is a negative outcome?

2007-02-28 15:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by ozzman 2

2007-02-28 15:00:49 · 7 answers · asked by girl 1

I've been hving a long distance relationship with my bf for a yr n a half. He had never been with someone for so long coz he is kinda the freedom-loving guy. Im the first girl whom he has spent so much time with. It was his first time to be so in love n we even thought of having a commitment. Even we were separated, we were very in love. We lived together for a few months last year n travelled around.

However, he has been very busy since he changed his job last October. Since then he has no time for me, he has been confused about his feelings. Then, we saw each other again in Xmas and this new yr. His confusion was gone when we met. We had very great moments.

Few weeks after this trip finished, he was confused again. Last week he finally decided to break up. He said that he feels guilty coz i treat him so nice, and that he has lost his love feelings even he still cares about me so much.

2007-02-28 14:59:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 15 and most of my life i have had major problems with my stepmother;she pretty much raised me from 4, but even then i couldn't stand her, i learned young that if i wanted to survive i would have to play it smart,(2 emotional sisters w/problems who adored her made it an obligation) do as she said and not openly question irrational things she said and did,but when i turned 12,i like other teens, i started questioning things, and she and i have been at war ever since;she takes things out on me and i grin and bare it...she kicked me out and so now i live w/ a step sister of mine and rarely see her... i love it here and am in a lot better living sittuation but when i do see her i have a hard time keeping it cool.. i really dont care she kicked me out because i'm ok with it but i cant seem to stop from getting her angry, if i talk she questions anything i say, if i dont she thinks i'm showing attitude, i smile, laugh and just go along with what she says but i dont like her,immature of me

2007-02-28 14:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by may 2

i've been doin it with this girl i met at a center i community serive at. she's 23 so shes of legal age right? and i'm not her first. problem is, she got pregnant and now i dont know what to do. any advice?

2007-02-28 14:38:02 · 14 answers · asked by Pimp Daddy 1

My girlfriend's ex calls and texts her all the time. She only answers his calls maybe twice a week and talks for only 5 minutes or so, but i just wish she'd write him off and he'd be out of her life. She says she has a hard time kicking people out of her life and thats the reason she wants to be friends with him. Am i being unreasonable? The only reason i have a problem with it is because he still wants to date her.

2007-02-28 14:21:55 · 21 answers · asked by kingjustinpants 2

we have dated for allmost year never met parents they live 8 hours away well long story short 5 years ago i had one night stand with her mom she does remember me my ? should i tell my girl i slept with her mom or just shut my mouth her mom is still hott

2007-02-28 14:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by shitsueu 1

He used to call 30 times a day and now he hardly calls at all. He gave me a cell phone and i told him to take it back but he won't let me return it. I love him but I don't understand why now he can't stay in touch like he use to. Does he not love me anymore or has he met someone, or is this just a man thing. What do you think?

2007-02-28 14:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by BC 1

2007-02-28 13:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by regina h 1

im so angry at her

ps. im a girl too...she used to be my best friend.

2007-02-28 13:54:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok well it seems to me that everything that I do doesn't seem to matter. I told my boyfriend tonight that I am going to school to get my masters in education. He said you won't make any money. I said thanks for being so supportive. So then he hung up on me. He always puts my ideas down, and so does his family. He never even got a high school diploma. He wants me to make more money so he doesn't have to worry. Does it sound like I am making any sense? I don't know what to do about this. I need some advice.

2007-02-28 13:52:50 · 4 answers · asked by KAB128 1

My sister is 11 years old. She is so annoying!!!She is "popular" at her school.She thinks she is the best person alive and she talks everyone like a total brat. She thinks she is so old and mature being in 6th grade in "middle school."She already has an annoying boyfriend. Her friends are always over bugging me my boyfriend and my friends. She always want to go to parties and stay out late.She has a cellphone (we share and plan and she takes all the txt messages up) and an ipod which I didn't get until I was older. She also always has to have the brand name , expensive stuff and she will whine if she doesn't get it. She can't wear makeup but I know she does because when she comes home she washes it off. I have to drive her and her friends places. I got my drivers lisence a year ago and the last thing I want to do is drive them. She always is saying how shes like going through puberty when she is not. I hate how she acts older than she is. How do I deal with such an annoying brat?

2007-02-28 13:49:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-28 13:42:56 · 3 answers · asked by sexy girl 1

2007-02-28 13:41:08 · 5 answers · asked by Blondie1328 1

2007-02-28 13:21:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

to sort all those promises out!!!!!!

2007-02-28 13:20:45 · 1 answers · asked by nendlin 6

For at least the 20th time or so my English teacher told me to shut up. I have had non stop problems with this woman and she is disrupting my education. She has a rage control problem, is a bully and is a mediocre teacher. I have no issues with telling her how I feel about her, except after the last episode she banned me from class until I got reinstated yesterday after nearly two weeks. Today, I just said don't you dare tell me to shut up ever again or I'll sue. She just glared at me and told me she is going to call my dad. He is still at work, so who knows what happened.

2007-02-28 13:14:47 · 32 answers · asked by Lori 5

2007-02-28 13:01:06 · 15 answers · asked by MaBoss 1

okay ive been friends with this guy 4 a while & i hav always had a lil crush on him but where just friends...we'd flirt somtimes & give each other hugs somtimes but like since dah begin of the week we hav been talkin late at nite & weve been flirtin alot & talkin bout gettin wit each other & doin stuff wit each other & ill tell him 2 prove it at skol & we dont c each other alot but when we do he just seams like distant & he barely talks 2 me but at home & when where talkin & txtin hes all different & flirtin wit me alot..wats up wit him y is he ackin so differnt a skol??????

2007-02-28 12:49:10 · 9 answers · asked by ~13Chula13~ 1

Okay so, two years ago my Dad quit smoking...and we thought he'd actually quit, because he didn't smell bad or anything and his breath didn't stink anymore. But then a couple weeks ago my sister found cigarettes in his car. My mom confronted him about it and he admitted he had been smoking. My mom and sister didn't tell me until yesterday because I'm really sensitive about the subject(It was because of me he quit in the first place, I suddenly burst into tears, and he told me he'll quit). So anyways my mom and sister told me that he's a grown man and he can make his own decisions, but I still feel really bad. I was always "Daddy's Girl" and now I'm ignoring him and calling him "that man" but I still feel really sad that he's smoking again. He also doesn't admit smoking is bad for you and thinks that it's a bunch of lies and propaganda. How do I try to cheer myself up or try to convince him about smoking? At this point I'm really confused...

2007-02-28 12:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by charlotte 4

In life in order to stay alive one must throw out and leave his heart .
They must leave their compassion behind, their only motivation for living is rage built from suffering, so i say to you save your compassion for the weak, for showing me any is just a waste

2007-02-28 12:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who's in charge. Who gets their way most of the time.

2007-02-28 12:35:58 · 25 answers · asked by Katie 4

I have recently became aware that I am unable to stay stable enough for someone to love me and trust me. From 4-12 I was molested, at 14 I was forcefully raped by a stranger, in addition to being raised by a psycho abusive alcoholic father and a mother who knew I was being abused and didn't stop it, but admitted when I asked her 26 years later. Know I realize I can not handle love for real. I have this man who loves me, but I keep having these wild outburst after we've had a great time together. I've been through therapy, anti-anxiety drugs, self help books and groups, blaa, blaa, blaa. I keep destroying what I want by stupid behaviors based on insecurities and fear. I've went in and out of horrible relationships...can ANYONE relate? I want it to stop!

2007-02-28 12:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by peacegypsy@sbcglobal.net 2

I have been with the same guy for little over 3 years and lately he has acted funny. Yesterday we got into this argument, and he said that he hated me and he never liked me, and he only acted happy...then maybe the next day he would be like i love you. Onto the next problem, i sort of have feelings for another guy, this guy hasnt talked to me before its really just the staring. He trains with my little brother at football..He lives near me as well, but what should i do?

2007-02-28 12:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by xCupidsEnemyx 1

if a men has an child and becuase him and the mom dont get along ,is it fair that he stops all contact with the child.even though he is in jail that is when he needs to stay in contact with his child.not pick and choose whichchild to love.i think that he is in the pocketbook and wig statas.{itch} am i wrong to think that?

2007-02-28 12:10:18 · 6 answers · asked by baby mom 1

2007-02-28 11:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by Mo0Mo0124 2

Recently my friend told me that he didn't want to have kids cause everytime a girl gets preggy that he is with around teh 6 or 7th month the she miscarries cause the baby heart rates speeds up too fast. He told me it was because of a certain drug that he use to take and it got into his blood and sperm. It was almost like a steroid to give you energy the way he explained it. It is not legal and I think the name was maxima or maximo can anyone tell me info on the drug and does it really effect the sperm and the baby! Thanks in advance

2007-02-28 11:55:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I had the weirdest breakup ever. We talked the night of it and made plans for him to come over after he was done hangin out with his brother. He asked me if I wanted him to come over and I said yes. Then he called me later and said I'm too tired it's too late. So I got kind of mad. Then after trying to sleep and not being able to I called him back but only let it ring once cuz I decided that I didn't want to wake him up. Then he called me back like 20 times. I didn't answer because I was feeling kind of mad still.. and I wanted to show him that by not answering..which is wrong of me I know. But he needed me to come get him cuz he was locked out his car. And I didn't know that so he got mad at me. THen we had like a 2 hour fight on the phone and he's telling me his is going to call the cops if i don't bring his stuff to him. (It's like 4am!!!) So then we hung up and now we haven't talked in a couple days. We have talked everyday for 1 1/2 years! WTF? How petty. I'm so worried.

2007-02-28 11:50:40 · 1 answers · asked by katalina 2

I hit her last night and today we discovered she's pregnant! Should I father the child or force her to get an abortion?

2007-02-28 11:43:08 · 2 answers · asked by Ready J 1

2007-02-28 11:40:47 · 22 answers · asked by BD M 2