I have been with the same guy for little over 3 years and lately he has acted funny. Yesterday we got into this argument, and he said that he hated me and he never liked me, and he only acted happy...then maybe the next day he would be like i love you. Onto the next problem, i sort of have feelings for another guy, this guy hasnt talked to me before its really just the staring. He trains with my little brother at football..He lives near me as well, but what should i do?
2007-02-28 12:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by xCupidsEnemyx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-02-28 12:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to the guy that trains your little brother and see where that goes. As for the other guy if you guys have been together for that long then it is natural to have someone act like that, althought if it is happening constantly maybe you should try to give it a little break and see what that does.
2007-02-28 20:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Purple Moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years is a long time...but sound like he is immature....leave him if you are not happy with him. No point continuing the relationships and get even deeper hurt in the future. But first have a talk with him if you want...ask him why he behave like that way. When a guy feel insure , not confident about himself sometimes he will behave funny, as he do not know other way of expressing his emotions. Is he aware that you likes the other guy? Is he angry ?
2007-02-28 20:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by blue_sea07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sound sort of young...so you really dont need to be in any serious relationships...... your bf sounds sort of depressed and like an asshole, break up with him(yes break ups suck, but your not happy , hes not happy..... get out of the sittuation)... and play it up being single for a while..... three years is a long time to be in a relationship, have fun without a boyfreind......................... and make a freindship w/ this other guy.. if it develops then good.. if it doesn't then ya just made youself a freind.......................... seriousely though dont rush into a new relationship, being single rocks may as well have fun with it
2007-02-28 20:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say drop the boyfriend. Yall have been together for 3 years and there is no committment and now he's acting funny....try the new guy
2007-02-28 20:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move, leave the dumbass before he breaks ur heart, wen a guy says sumthin like that than he should get cut off. plus if ur in a relationship and u like sum1 else than that means that ur Bf isnt doin his job in keeping ur interst, so save tha time and heart pain and leave him first. Good luck wit the guy on tha side
2007-02-28 20:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the guy that is playing with your mind. I had a guy like that, and the only thing that will make you happy and sane is to dump him and find a nice guy that isn't crazy.
2007-02-28 20:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that your boyfriend might not be right for you. but it depends on how you feel when he says he never really liked you in the first place. then all of a suuden i love you. if you think that you would be better off with the next guy, go for it.
2007-02-28 20:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by pinkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick you guts up girl, you should be actually want to talk to him wats up, or text him "whats the roblem?" or "can I just ask you something?"
You should be acting like you are his best girlfriend.. dont get to argues , and if you do, just say "I don't want to argue or go through this again."
2007-02-28 20:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the B/F. He sounds like nothing but trouble if you stay with him. See if you can get things going with this other guy.
2007-02-28 20:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Blondiee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "other guy" u have just met.get to no him better.if u like what he's made of,and he likes u,dump ur strange-acting bf for the "other guy".
i would do it.completely.
2007-02-28 20:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by i.Nεεd.Yεw.Bσσ* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋