does this make me immature and irrational because i cant keep the sittuation chill?

Question

i'm 15 and most of my life i have had major problems with my stepmother;she pretty much raised me from 4, but even then i couldn't stand her, i learned young that if i wanted to survive i would have to play it smart,(2 emotional sisters w/problems who adored her made it an obligation) do as she said and not openly question irrational things she said and did,but when i turned 12,i like other teens, i started questioning things, and she and i have been at war ever since;she takes things out on me and i grin and bare it...she kicked me out and so now i live w/ a step sister of mine and rarely see her... i love it here and am in a lot better living sittuation but when i do see her i have a hard time keeping it cool.. i really dont care she kicked me out because i'm ok with it but i cant seem to stop from getting her angry, if i talk she questions anything i say, if i dont she thinks i'm showing attitude, i smile, laugh and just go along with what she says but i dont like her,immature of me

Answer 1

sounds like your handling the whole situation better than most teens would. Turning the other cheek is not a bad thing. But it doesn't seem to make anything any better...not that your step mother would want to...I think play it cool when she is around, don't allow her to press any of your buttons because she just might want others to think your doing badly without her...and yet she didn't care enough to support you when she was responsible to...keep a cool head and you will come out of this a better person...good luck.

Answer 2

I have had a step mother for 34 years. she was horrible to me. I know what your feeling and what your going through. My best advise to you is Dont give her the satisfaction she wants. She sounds like she likes hurting you. Dont give her that much power. She dont deserve it. Let it go.......Tell yourself that nothing she says or does can hurt you. Your not going to play her games.....Remember only you can allow her to make you crazy! ...stop!!!! dont let her do it...She enjoys doing that to you......Do the things and surround yourself with people that make you happy.....good luck

Answer 3

So you don't like her imature of you? Interesting. Focus on you vocabulary and life and let the witch go. It is about you not her, get on with it girl, you are only 15. Get educated and be better than her. Go and do it !!!!

Answer 4

just say your not my biological mother, u kicked me out of your house and i dont want anything 2 do with u. and then ask her to act civil in public like she was talking to anyone else. also what about ur dad, what d9d he think about u gettin kicked out?

Answer 5

You know the answer. Now, finish high school, go to college, get a major career and then see if it was worth it....