Marriage & Divorce - 20 July 2007

we've been married 6 yrs. he's staying @ his parents because of problems between us.He's never let me work and we have a 4 yr old son. can they just put me out?

2007-07-20 10:16:53 · 23 answers · asked by dina197520022000 2

I cant stand her. She doesnt do anything but upset me. She doesnt cook and all she does is complain. I havent been able to finish a sentence in years. My wife brings me to the point of infuriation till I just explode. Is it better to stay or go for the kids. What should I do.?

2007-07-20 10:11:52 · 40 answers · asked by roguetrader12002 4

My girlfriend and I have been living together for a few years. She is not from the US and she required a work visa to stay & work in the US. The work visa is now expired & we need to marry to continue our relationship. I want to be able to commit myself 100 percent to her by getting married, but I struggle with why I didn't ask her before, etc. I try to determine if it is b/c of a fear of commitment on my part or b/c I am not completely satisfied in the relationship. I have a hard time assessing my true feelings. My fear of losing her and my fear of marriage are both pretty equal. Some parts of the relationship are not satisfying to me. But I am also a perfectionist & I am vulnerable to magnifying small things, so I don't exactly trust my judgement with this. The basics are there for us, I am still attracted to her, she treats me well & appreciates me, & I appreciate her. Part of me looked forward to being single again though.

2007-07-20 10:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 10:10:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a wife doesnt work and a husband does..Is it their money or just his..My mom says its both of their money..Sometimes hubby says "my money" and i will say something and he said he is only joking..My mom said if my dad had said that to her she would have smacked him lol.

2007-07-20 10:05:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 09:56:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

really happy.

2007-07-20 09:55:43 · 15 answers · asked by LYNDA M 5

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now, and no matter how much I tell him, show him, even ask him to watch a special on HBO about making love is it so hard for him to actually slow down and make love to me?? I know he loves me and that is not the issue, its just that I would love for him to appreciate me and my body through touching rather then through just sex. I feel that it has no meaning when I ask him to make love to me, and then he does it at that moment. Why can't he just do it on his own accord?

2007-07-20 09:51:21 · 20 answers · asked by Advice25 1

2007-07-20 09:43:42 · 13 answers · asked by notyochic 6

Im 35 weeks along and my husband and I have been on and off. We are both young but have admitted that we are in love with each other and do love each other despite our back and forth relationship. Just last week when we got back together for the 1300th time..he was going to get a tatoo with the babies name and my name and telling me how much he loves me and wants things to work out. we had a fight and now we are broken up again and it seems to me like hes so distant...like he doesnt even care about me like that anymore...he acts like it doesnt bother him that we are broken up and that hes fine with it..hes acted like this the last time we broke up then wanted me back 3 weeks after. how can you be in love and then completely act like ur not? even though we broke up he still wants to be there for the baby but its weird to me how u can say and feel one way one week then the next week act like u dont even care about the person. I dont understand. Im trying to move on.just curious..

2007-07-20 09:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by REGINA p 1

If I leave and leave the bills unpaid, my credit would get bad.
I need credit to get a new place to leave after everything is over. I can't afford to pay the bills and pay for a new place to live. If the house would sell, then it would be easier financially. He says that he is sorry, but is not making big enough effort to show me that he is sorry.

2007-07-20 09:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Aunt, who has been married for about 25-30 years, recently discovered that her husband, my uncle, was having an affair. I don't see them too often, but i do love my aunt and want her to know I support her. we don't talk frequently and i only really see her on the holidays.

What i want to know if it's appropriate that i say (or email) something, and what should I say? DO you think she would even welcome me discussing it?

2007-07-20 09:32:24 · 15 answers · asked by mjhelme 2

He's been divorced 4 years and she reeks all the havoc she can. We've been together since January and he wants to get married. His only child is 13 years old. I have never received child support but I know it can be a bear. What would you suggest? Last Friday, he was upset because $900 came out of his check. He says he pays $685.00 each month for one child.

2007-07-20 09:26:28 · 23 answers · asked by Steffie Love 1

i know a friend her husband has be gone for over 4 months in another state and he says he coming back then he says he wants her to go where he is. mind you he doesn't have a job or a place to stay and she won't either. then he says he is coming back and then he says he isn't. she finally told him that if he dosn't come back soon that is its over. after 4 months of back and forth not making up his mind at the very last moment he says he got a call for an interveiw . his wife has had a job for the last 6 months where he hasn't had one for almost a year.

2007-07-20 09:24:28 · 7 answers · asked by KAT 3

in his car along with cds with a girls name on them. He stayed out late and sometimes did return at all. He refused to go to counseling and denied everything. ( I wanted to leave but our finances are too tied up and our house won't sell. can't ruin my credit because I need it to help get a place when I leave.) He wanted to be intimate with me after aobut 8 months, I said not without protection and explained why, he just said ok and rolled over! It has been 11/2 years since we have been intimate. He is now comming home and says that he wants to work things out. Even when he is being nice, I hate to be around him. He has cheated in the past. I forgave him. He swears that he didn't cheat this time.
I am so sad, that it is hard to go on. I don't believe him. I can't leave, cause our house won't sell. I don't have concrete evidence like i did the first time. I would hate to leave on just circumstantial evidence. We have 4 kids.I am so sad and so angry. How can I feel better?

2007-07-20 09:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

it is clear to me that i am so unhappy with my marriage he puts me down all the time tells me how stupid i am he's working at walmart i'm an engineerhe never wants to have sex he is agreesive towards me when he makes me cry he yells at me more and i'm tired of him trying to controlling me and my kids watching me cry every night and see him do this to me, he has been violent before what do i do?

2007-07-20 09:18:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just found out that my boyfriend uses porn, while I can appreciate that most normal guys look at porn, it is a little upsetting to discover it whilst 7 months pregnant. Has anyone else had this happen to them and how did you cope?

2007-07-20 09:18:02 · 38 answers · asked by natflip 1

does it mean u do?

2007-07-20 09:16:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-20 09:12:17 · 13 answers · asked by medra 1

hello members,

good day:-).. i got a bf in UK but everytime i ask him about his thai wife he refused to talk about it..do u think did she still
love his separated wife in thailand? please i got confused. i need your answer to keep me comfort.

thank you:-)

2007-07-20 09:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

we just chat and sometimes flirt..sometimes it contains adult content.

2007-07-20 08:52:25 · 41 answers · asked by neicygreeneyes2 3

I am a 23 year old male and I fell in love with my sister-in-law's cousin who is also my cousin by marriage becasue her cousin is my sister-in-law, so she and I are already cousins by marriage, and she is 35 and I am 23 and I wan't to marry her. She looks younger than she is. W have been going out and magicly I feel in love and now I wan't to purpose to her. Is this wrong. I'm the groom and I'm 23 and she is 35. Is this wrong?

2007-07-20 08:37:46 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just incredibly curious, and I was wondering this so I know how messed up our world today is. (Honestly. I thought people were allowed to be who they wanted to be!)
Thanks!

2007-07-20 08:36:09 · 11 answers · asked by Lyssa 2

After divorce the courts always lean towards the women. It's fine that the woman has the kids but its now "her" kids and the father needs permission from her and/or the courts when to see and if he can see the kids......everyother weekend, once a week, etc. Why is it so important for them to be with the mother and not the father. Why is it such a womens court when (in some cases) it can be their fault on why the marriage ended.

2007-07-20 08:34:14 · 28 answers · asked by Unknown, CA 2

Male, just turned 30 - reckon is probably the right thing to do now( mum wants grandchildren)!!, non EU citizens welcome to apply just for UK Visa, let me know

2007-07-20 08:33:05 · 39 answers · asked by professorgriff321 2

2007-07-20 08:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am looking for a semi romantic gift and we have placed a spending limit of $20 for the gift. Please help

2007-07-20 08:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by tiggernck 3

Today I was in a minor accident. There was some crap on the I-95 and about 5 cars hit it. No real damage, just two new tires. I posted a question before about "Why does my wife bit** so much"?
Here I am on I-95 @5am. And she is hollering at me as if it's my fault!!
I really think it's time to get outta this crap before we kill each other!! I just can't keep this up anymore. I don't smile anymore and I just out and out hate her....but still love her....it's crazy!!!

Please I need all the help I can get. She tries to insult me and when I go back at her she goes balistic. She tries to get me infront of her friends and family and figures that Iw ill not say anything.....but she is sooooooooooo wrong. And then gets mad that I said something!!!!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-20 08:13:37 · 23 answers · asked by IRSTAS 4

I am married and just found out that I am pregnant (only about 7 weeks), so no one besides my husband even knows yet. I love my husband more than life, but I feel guilty becasue I do not know how I can love a child nearly as much as my husband. I don't even want to love anyone else as much as I love my husband. Am I a crappy person? What's wrong with me?

2007-07-20 08:04:36 · 38 answers · asked by jrhod263 3

2007-07-20 08:01:47 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous