hello members,
good day:-).. i got a bf in UK but everytime i ask him about his thai wife he refused to talk about it..do u think did she still
love his separated wife in thailand? please i got confused. i need your answer to keep me comfort.
thank you:-)
2007-07-20 09:08:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you may be beyond help. If he's separated, HE'S STILL MARRIED. What are you doing? Can you really not find someone else?
2007-07-20 09:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men are thoughtful ! and by not bragging about previous relationships shows some respect for you. Its not nice if they keep going on about them, or comparing you to them.
He may have been hurt, and doesnt want to remember what he suffered or is embarrassed about the fact it was a Thai bride. It may come across as he was desperate at the time.
Take time in building the relationship you have, as you might find out a bit about why things went wrong within that relationship. Good Luck
2007-07-20 11:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's either a player or a good bloke. A man that refuses to discuss past wives or girlfriends is a sensible man. Why would you want to know about his past relationship... what business is it of yours anyway??
You should have a deep respect for such a man, it means if he breaks up with you, he won't be slagging you off to any future women.
2007-07-20 12:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something men are smart not to talk about their past love life to the current girlfriend.
Honestly do you really want to know about his past with another woman? For experience I am telling you that you are better of now knowing details. Eventually this will create some kind of problem..
I always say the less details you know about the past women the better your relationship will be. Stop focusing on the past women, concentrate on your relationship now!
Good luck
2007-07-20 09:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal, men have a way of compartmentizing (if thats a word) their relationships. Men have the ability to move from one relationship to another and once they know its over, they move on. Woman can't do this becuase they are always trying to fix someone and they feel that they put alot of energy in the relationship. Its just a male vs female thing... Just leave it be and accept him with open arms.
2007-07-20 09:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't be open about his past then he has something to hide.
And Uhhhh...."separated" means they are still married, which truly and honestly, you shouldn't be considering him a boyfriend. And if you can't keep that in mind and your heart separate from the affair then you shouldn't be running around with a married man.
2007-07-20 09:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I should think he doesn't want to talk about it as he is still technically married and wouldn't want to draw attention to the fact. I don't think he still loves her but I wouldn't be rushing into a relationship with him at the moment anyway. He sounds odd.
2007-07-20 10:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on the nature of the guy. Some guys want their partners to know everything so they don't hear about it from someone else. Other guys don't want their partners to know about their past. I was lucky enough to have someone who told me about his past relationships, because it puts my mind at ease.
2007-07-20 09:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by soniye88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to know?
Are you Thai? little more info may help in giving you an answer.
2007-07-23 21:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Drunvalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's in the past is in the past and has nothing to do with the hear and now. Do you want to know about all his past lovers, why?. Did he ask you about all the men in your past. Leave it alone and by glad that he is with you and not her.
2007-07-20 09:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋