Marriage & Divorce - 16 May 2007

or just my wife?

2007-05-16 03:03:03 · 20 answers · asked by titanman33 1

I've been married for almost 12 years. I've never really been content or complete in my marriage. Here's the scenerio. I've always questioned if this was the right place for me, the right man for me. I have made things work because I didnt want to make the wrong choices-didnt want too hurt him because he's a good man.

Sometimes Im content w/ my marriage and life and other times, Im thinking of what it would or could be like single. I find, most times, I think the latter (what it would be like to be seperated or divorced). Is this normal in marriage? I've done this for a long time-probably since the beginning.

I've tried talking to him about how I feel but it gets me nowhere. He usually takes everything internally and then deny's my feelings of wanting to try a trial separation. He always tells me, "you dont want to separate" or "you're just hormonal again!" Is it me?? Can anyone else relate? Have you or are u going thru this too? Please help! I cant take it anymore

2007-05-16 02:58:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jen 2

She lives with her mother and they are well off. She does not get good grades in school and has no respect for her mom and she still gets channel earings, name brand clothing and $300 coach purses. She also gets her toes done every two weeks. What do my husband and I do when she comes down this summer? We are financially tight at this moment and we can't do all tha t stuff. Any advice?

2007-05-16 02:41:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been to jail that didnt work, rehab takes money or insurance which we have neither, so any suggestions out there that would really work. please help our family

2007-05-16 02:31:47 · 25 answers · asked by violet b 2

at the moment i'm living with my ex boyfriend of 5 years. he is an abusive , compulsive lying creep but i have no choice but to live here with him . while we were together he wouldn't let me have friends . now i know no-one except myself ( and no i have no family either ) i cant afford to live by myself and i cant live in a unit or flat because they wont allow pets ( i have a dog ) the guy i live with sickens me to the point where i feel like suffocating the loser in his sleep , lol i would never actually do it, but its a nice thought . there are no words to explain how fkd up this guy really is so i wont even try . what can i do to get away from him when i cant live on my own ?
and i dont work at the moment because im agoraphobic, but, even if i had a full time job it wouldnt be even close to enough to support myself . i am looking for a full time job anyway though .
any ideas would be greatly appreciated . thanks
xx

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11 minutes ago
just looking for ideas cos i have no idea where to start , please DONT suggest shelters i dont even think they exist in Australia, and if they do , i doubt they would allow pets, and i would never go to one of those places anyway . i just want some real ideas please . thanks for your help

1 minute ago
i love my dog, more than anything or anyone on earth, shes all i have and she is the only thing that has kept me sane through all this. and i do have more respect for animals than i will ever have for the human race. i will never leave her behind with a guy that could hurt her when hes in a bad mood

2007-05-16 02:26:21 · 18 answers · asked by Me 7

he will make a comment about some chicks boobs, or they way they walk,,, and even makes up questions on 'answers' as "jokes" that,,, to me,,, are flirty and crossing the sexual line,,, am i too uptight or is it not ok

2007-05-16 02:18:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

eg: if i'm talkin with her and the phone disconnects unintentionaly she got angry and never talk to me till i convince her that the disconnection was not my fault.what shall i do to change her from that?.. thanx

2007-05-16 02:15:56 · 21 answers · asked by Open_Minded 2

I am suffering because of my problem I want to tell our relationship between me and her (my Girl) to our parent because she is one our relative .
(Not first cousin my Grandmother & her mother is sister) but she is not agree with my decision she afraid of her parent to face.
But I think our family is only can help us about our relation am I right or wrong please help me if I tell to our parent without her company.

2007-05-16 02:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by Nayan Sinha 1

she has to be involved in everything or else

2007-05-16 02:04:26 · 25 answers · asked by princess 1

ppl typically wanna check their future husband and wife to see if they r healthy before they get married. do they do x-ray from head to toes?

2007-05-16 02:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an appointment with an attorney at 11:00 this morning to discuss my options and talk about drawing up a separation agreement. I feel sick to my stomach. Why am I so scared about what other people will think? All of the parents we are friends in our community think he is wonderful. He coaches sports teams for my son. They don't know all the details. I will be the one who dumped him. I am not happy and I need to do something about it. Please look at my past questions, I don't want to have to type it all again.

2007-05-16 01:58:32 · 10 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 2

I was talking to a friend of mine recently. He was telling me about his ex-girlfriend who he broke up with about 8 months ago. She immediately got serious with another guy who she knew before they broke up and within 4-6 weeks was already engaged to the guy. The wedding is late June. Although it's been 8 months, the ex-girlfriend still calls my friend to see how he's doing and occasionally will tell him she still misses him and loves him. Last week she called him her soulmate!

Has anyone heard about a similar situation? If so, did the marriage last long? My thinking is that she hasn't gotten over my friend and is probably more in love with him than her fiance. My friend wouldn't take their relationship to the level she wanted 8 months ago and that's the main reason she went looking for someone else.

2007-05-16 01:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by Tiger 1

I have a parent who engages in emotional extortion or character assination to other family members if you don't comply with their demands. This parent displays a great deal of mysoginistic expectations. This parent has often sloughed off responsibility to other parties, namely daughters, in an effort to get out of it themselves. As a child of someone like this, how do you deal with the power a parent has over you? Also, I need to add that by pulling back from them, they in turn engage in character assasination about you to anyone who will listen. Do I just cut off from the parts of my family this parent has duped. There are several people on to this person and their methods, so I would not be isolated. I would add their health is not great. They use this to create an "oh woe is me" image much like the wife in the book Ethan Fromme. Meanwhile they are not nearly as helpless as they project, but are using this as a ploy to gain power through sympathy.

2007-05-16 01:54:00 · 8 answers · asked by DMG 5

If your husband doesn't want to have sex with you and is hanging out with guy friends and calling other guys a lot, do you think your husband is gay?

2007-05-16 01:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by gorgeous_tine23ph 1

She is not from my people group or colour . My family opposes this so much...we love each so much..

2007-05-16 01:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife only has sex when it is on her terms. Any form of forwardness is rejected. I think she likes the power. I show affection but I can't even get a massage when i have a sore back. I really think that this is eating my self esteem, amongst other things!

2007-05-16 00:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was with my partner for 25 years the last 7 of them i was married to her but even though i treated her well and never once did i use any form of violence towards her she left me and got a divorce,so where did i go wrong

2007-05-16 00:45:03 · 23 answers · asked by johnwynne33@btinternet.com 1

How do you feel when after a hard day's work you come back and he asks you that when you are paying most from the 1993-2007.

2007-05-16 00:34:29 · 15 answers · asked by cool_honeybabe 4

I am 9 months pregnant, very close to labor. No savings, £20,000 debt. My husband has CCJ and £5000 debt. We have lived in my brother's house out of charity for 6 months now. My husband couldn't find a job, until just recently which is in another city. We have to move to the other city. Tried to get a flat from an agency. Saved about £250 to pay the admin fee for the agency. My brother agreed to lend us some £1000 for rent and deposit. Now agency refused us for credit and refuses to pay out £250 back. I have extra £100 saved up to buy some stuff for the baby and hospital bag. We have to move in 2 weeks and everything is just so crap.

I am from overseas, so I'm not entitled to any benefits here in UK, and my life overseas is even worse than here, so can't go back. God what should I do????????????? What would you do if you were in my shoes?

2007-05-16 00:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous