do all women become lazy after they get married?

Question

or just my wife?

Answer 1

just yours.

Answer 2

All people get "comfortable" after a while of being married.

This includes men and women. We forget that we used to make sure that we looked and smelled nice before our spouse came home, we took better care of ourselves physically and we were more thoughtful of the other person.

Do you still have the "rock hard abs" you did when you two met, do you work out together? Could it be that she is a stay at home mom with many small children that just is tired at the end of a long day? Could it be that you are not as sweet and thoughtful as you once were?

Communication is key and if this is truly a problem then maybe you can approach it with her by asking her what it is that you can do to help her out or what you used to do when you first met and married that you no longer do that she loved? That way when you let her know the things that you miss about her when you were courting and first married she will be more responsive and less defensive.

Good Luck!

p.s. what ever you do don't start out the conversation the way you did this question or it will be WW III for quite some time as it was a thoughtless and rude way to ask a question.

Answer 3

Probably just her, but I doubt your point of view is all that accurate. You don't need to be calling your wife lazy, at the very least it makes you look like an a.ss. People don't just become lazy after they get "married". You were either not prepared yourself, or not paying attention to her before you married her and has little to do with her. She is who she is, it's your fault for not recognizing that this would be a problem for you. It's not her fault. Get some counseling, or get a divorce.

Answer 4

Some do and some don't. I was not the type that became lazy after I got married...and even when I divorced. I am always on the go, doing this or that..and have goals and am going towards them. I keep in shape, too, even though I have had two children (one of which was quite large at birth).

Answer 5

Just yours.
I have so much **** to do now than I EVER did before I got married.
The kids, housework, more laundry, cooking, cleaning, organizing, reading papers, gardening, I could go on and on.
If I have a minute to be lazy, I usually fall asleep b/c I'm so damn worn out from doing everything!!!

Answer 6

women that tend to become lazy after marriage were lazy from the start.

Answer 7

Yes, because we get tired of being the maid, your financial consultant, your baby maker, your cook, your dry cleaners, your psychologist, your escape goat, and deliver mind blowing sex to you after we have put in an 8 hour (12 hr for stay at home mom) day at work!

Whew!.....Women's work is never done!

Answer 8

Thats not very nice. Maybe your wife is a little like me. Stuck at home all day with 2 kids, cleaning up there messes constantly, feeding them, doing laundry....and when hubby comes home there isn't even a "thank you honey, I know you worked hard today" even though the house is messy. Try showing appreciation for what she does do. It will motivate her to do more.

Answer 9

I sure hope your wife doesn't read that question! No I think marriage makes life more fun, that is what I have seen in my friends that have gotten married!

Answer 10

Just your heffer wife! Something tells me you aren't exactly a "prize" either so just be happy you were able to trick any woman into marrying you!

Answer 11

Actually, you've become lazy.

Give your wife a break. Why don't you talk to her & find out what's going on before you jump to such a dumb conclusion.