My wife only has sex when it is on her terms. Any form of forwardness is rejected. I think she likes the power. I show affection but I can't even get a massage when i have a sore back. I really think that this is eating my self esteem, amongst other things!
2007-05-16 00:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Welcome to the club Jeff, pull up a seat!
2007-05-16 09:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you in that department but the roles in my house are reversed.i want to make love to my husband and/or i go and try to touch him or hug him or flat out give him a big kiss and he pushes ...literally pushes me away and says okay okay thats enough u pest get off of me. yes he calls me a lil pest or a lost puppy dog. i get that a lot. i am lucky if we makelove...ooops not make love...uh have quick sex 1 x a week! i want to know what i can do on that end too. it hurts to be rejected. i am to the point of just ignoring him and turning the tables...and go on about my business. i am not ugly or fat and when he gets home i have a clean home and i am all fixed up...yes literally fixed up and clean house and still rejected. i make dinner every night and i even serve him his beer and wait on him and still no sex or even a kiss makes him go eww. i feel for you big time. see if u were my hubby and u were making moves on me i would tear you up...in a good way that is...but see u and me are with selfish cold people.
2007-05-16 01:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right here is the fast and curlies of it. a). once you're hassling him for intercourse, and he nonetheless does not choose it, then settle for that he does not choose intercourse b). quite of attempting to toss the blame in his path, ask your self whether there is something you're doing to make contributions to his low sexpersistent c). Ever puzzled that he does not locate you appealing any further? d). He must be fearful you will get pregnant returned and is applying a one hundred% valuable beginning administration technique e). If he works lots, he ought to truly BE drained. have you ever and he considered happening a trip? f). in case you have have been given somewhat one, danger is, the two your sleep varieties have been disturbed and if he's working not elementary, he would be drained g). adult males do unlike being hassled for something. purely pass into opposite and supply it time. it isn't the tip of the international in case you are able to desire to attend a whilst for intercourse h). have you ever tried being "sexually appealing?" Or is all you choose is a 5 minute pounding consultation? according to danger he's bored with you.
2016-11-04 02:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does a massage for a sore back have to do with sex? It sounds like your problem isn't merely sexual, it has to do with touch and any type of intimacy at all. I don't understand why you're focusing on sex when that's apparently just one symptom of much larger issues.
2007-05-16 01:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow no back rubs...thats just mean. May I suggest tying her down and having yor way with her LOL. I am sorry, I have no idea why some women are like that.
2007-05-16 00:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude I feel for you,read your other post,maybe time apart isnt such a bad idea if your not happy.
2007-05-16 00:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you married her.
Think of why you did that, and remind yourself (and her) of those reasons. Perhaps you'll bring the old sparks back.
2007-05-16 00:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like she is attracted to you
it might be Her problem... ask her to see the doctor about the lack of affection from her
2007-05-16 00:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe... she's shy or something or afraid to show you something or afraid to let you know something. Maybe she's not feeling well?
2007-05-16 01:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋