Marriage & Divorce - 1 October 2006

Me and my hubby have been together for 8 yrs and married for 2. He never wants to spend time together when we are together all we do is yell at each other we have 3 kids together is it worth staying or should i just say forgit it and move on ? He is 28 and i am 23 he could care less about working or providing for us he rather hang out at his brother in laws house or play ball and huntting so do i just deal with it or say bye?????????

2006-10-01 16:22:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know how to deal with it
i love him, but he does not love me,
and he only comes to see our son
and now i think my 1 y.o. son loves him more than he does me

2006-10-01 16:21:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today was our 5 year anniversary.

The card was signed "Luv, Rich."

WTF?

2006-10-01 16:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with the same guy for about 3years now. Hes never cheated (that I know of) but he has told me small white lies about a couple other things. He does tell me he loves me alot, mentioned getting engaged when he gets enough money for the ring, etc. But for some reason, I just don't trust him completely. Hes a very friendly guy, once in awhile he calls the women he works with sweetheart & flirts a little bit but hes also friendly to guys, he seems to know everyone & there are over 100 people employed there! Im used to dating the shy, quiet guys. I just would like to know if these thoughts that I have of him possibly one day being unfaithful are my own issues or if this is what's called womens intution warning me in advance. Any opinions?

2006-10-01 16:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley 4

I joined the military and had clean health records before and after basic. About 6 months into my first base i get tested and have Chlamydia. I havent cheated on my wife but we were both sexually active while single. We married 1 month before i left for basic. Could I have caught something from her or another girl and it not shown up on the first test but did on the second, or did she mess around on me while I was gone? She also got pregnant around the time I left. Thats then, this is now. Recently, she has lost all interest in the bedroom and has been going out with girlfriends alot. Coming home extremely late and extremely drunk. She admits that guys buy her drinks at the clubs but she says she tells them she is married and has kids. I also found a guy on her myspace profile that is from the local city. We don't kiss anymore, rarely hug, and she hates when i touch her. If i rub her, grab her butt, anything. Our lives have been pretty stressful lately also. Is she ??

2006-10-01 16:15:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 16:07:50 · 12 answers · asked by mstngsally26 1

my husband and i have been married for a little less than two years and we fight all the time, we also have a blended family and we also fight about my oldest son...who he claims and raises, but we fight about discipline, ideas on great discipline and perfect child rearing would be much appreciated, any advice on making a yound marriage work

2006-10-01 16:06:08 · 9 answers · asked by jes 3

My husband passed away May 31st and the ex-wife moved back into the house because the mortgage is in her name which left myself and my 6 yr old soon to move back in with my parents. Now she called to tell me that she found out three weeks ago that there was a quit claim deed that she signed and she wants me to sign a quit claim deed over to her. I spoke with a lawyer and he told me not to do that because my son and I are entitled to the equity in the house. The only problem is that my three step children live in that house and I do not think that the ex would buy the house for the fair market value. Is it wrong of me to tell her to either buy the house at the fair market value or get out? I have not spoke to my three stepchildren in over two months and the ex-wife left the children with my husband and was never a real mother until recently.

2006-10-01 16:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by Dee 3

2006-10-01 15:57:41 · 9 answers · asked by a1b2c3d4bj 1

2006-10-01 15:47:46 · 58 answers · asked by lilnell_12 2

my dad has been dating this girl for about a year and a half and hes never been happier. lately, though, shes changed the house to a girly-girl house (angels, candles, etc.) like she owns the place. my parents divorce papers say she can't move in 'til they're married, and my dad can barely afford dinner let alone a ring! he'd listen to rock and roll kind of music, but now he listens to love songs and old 70's music just like her! and worst of all, they fight all the time! my dads got a huge temper, and his girlfriend's a little (too much) sensitive. i cant tell them how i feel, because it'd ruin my dads 'best' relationship since my mom. plus, his girlfriends pretty nice and my sister is close to her daughter. what should i do about this?

2006-10-01 15:46:52 · 9 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5

hi..
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU ARE WITH YOUR MAN FOR 2 YEARS AND HES WORKING WITH YOUR PARENT AND THEY PAY YOU A LITTLE BIT OF MONEY BUT YOUR ALSO LIVING WITH THEM AND NOT PAYING RENT OR FOOD AND SUDDENLY YOUR MAN WANTS TO LEAVE BY HIMSELF AND LOOK FOR A JOB HE TELL YOU WAIT FOR ME FOR TWO WEEKS SO WE CAN MOVE OUT . IS THAT RIGHT OR WRONG OR WHAT WOULD YA DO... HELP I TELL HIM TO WAIT AND LOOK FOR A JOB HERE WITH ME BECAUSE I WORK TOO AND TELL HIM TO STAY BUT HE DONT WANT TO

2006-10-01 15:38:31 · 6 answers · asked by marisa_roman21 1

if you were givin a chance to view your life again.. or choose the your partner... will you settle for the one you have today or will you rather skip it and look for another one... why?

2006-10-01 15:35:51 · 16 answers · asked by crystalink 2

2006-10-01 15:33:17 · 8 answers · asked by FattyAssi 1

I know that he was doing it but now they are send 15 to 20 messages a day. He says it is on one word stuff but what do I do?

2006-10-01 15:31:32 · 38 answers · asked by thats me 4

I love my husband very much and we have always have a great, un-complicated marriage. Lately I have been getting to know a girl from work better, purely as friends, but I am finding myself incredibly attracted to her. I dream about her, and find myself anxiously awaiting her calls. I have never been attracted to another woman before, and don't know how to process this. Is this really weird? Or is this common? Does it mean anything?

2006-10-01 15:27:07 · 37 answers · asked by Crystal B 1

My husband's behavior has totally changed - he's always angry at me, picks fights, says i should be more sexy, is buying new clothes, and as we are long distance we usually chat on internet but for a long time now he doesn't come to the net until very late everyday. I asked him many times and he says no he has no woman but today when i asked him he answered by asking me Why would i think this about him ? he is also obsessed with kinky sex and asked if we could have a threesome a few months ago. This made me a total paranoid.

2006-10-01 15:24:29 · 35 answers · asked by kathy 1

I thought marriage was about honesty, commitment, love, and understanding....was I wrong? I didnt realize that it was just sex and money....My husband says to me that all I am concerned about is sex and money...I dont really get where he is getting that from because I dont beg for sex if we do anything he always initiates it so where he got that from i dont know.. as far as the money thing goes if i was penniless as long as he was with me I wouldnt care. The thing is that about 4 years ago my husband started having an affair with a co-worker and I found out about it a year and a half ago. Now my husband swears that they are just friends and she still works with him. I have asked him to get rid of her because I dont like the fact that they are so close together all the time. I cant even email or message him because she knows all his passwords. He has really put himself in a jam because everything he has he has put her name on it like cell phone bank account his store stuff.

2006-10-01 15:24:02 · 25 answers · asked by mla_forver 1

"Honey you don't have to work, I make enough money for the both of us." Do you work anyway, or take him up on his offer? Do you think it's smarter to work and save up your own money, just in case the relationship doesn't work out? I mean ideally, the relationship with the person you're with would last forever and you would live happily ever after, but realistically, it doesn't always work out that way. I've heard of women being left with no money, and no job skills....so what do you do? Work anyway, even if you would love to take him up on the offer to not work, or happily quit and enjoy taking care of hubby and home? How do you keep the trust in your relationship, while at the same time, maintaining your self preservation?

2006-10-01 15:22:45 · 15 answers · asked by LibraT 4

I met a girl in 6th grade i was head over heels for, we split up before 7th grade, then got back together in 9th, lost our virginity to each other then she moved away after 9th grade we saw each other a few times she got a new boyfriend there and as well as i got new girlfriends off and on until about 3 years ago i got one pregnant we got married we fought our daughter is 2 we are divorcing now im 24 yrs old, the other day on myspace i found her, i made contact with her for the first time in 6 years it was unbeleivable i was so happy, i find out she's engaged to the same guy she's been with for 8 years but they are having issues, they have a long distance thing.
we planned to meet we even set a date, we couldnt wait that long to see each other i drove 700 miles the next day to see her...we had sex that night we had an amazing time over the week it was like a dream come true. well i had to drive back to my home town yesterday, idk wtf im asking i guess it's this...should i write a book

2006-10-01 15:13:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 15:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by same here 2

2006-10-01 15:00:50 · 28 answers · asked by steve b 5

or you dont know?LOL

2006-10-01 14:54:43 · 13 answers · asked by super girl 3

i have read lots of questions from women who want their men to communicate more in the relationship. i listen to anything that my g/f has to say and trust me she is quick to point out my faults. however if i say anything to her im putting words in her mouth, etc.... also why is it that if a man talks about sex with thier g/f this also makes them mad

2006-10-01 14:53:44 · 5 answers · asked by keithy 3

I think that sums it up good. I want sex like all the time but I only get it like 1 a week maybe.

2006-10-01 14:48:53 · 26 answers · asked by cc 4

My sons sick so my wife was taking his temperature and all that boring stuff she does. Then he started puking all over the carpet and my wife didn’t care but I jus laughed at him and told him he was gross.. My wife overheard that and flipped out at me. The he said he had to go to the bathroom so , he had diarrhea and then I was like cracking up because my wife was like hugging him on the toilet.. It was hilarious. And yea now she’s bringing him to the hospital for some reason. But anyways, she wants to divorce me. She says im a lazy bum that has no job.. Which I really don’t so she’s not lying.. But is that a good reason to divorce someone? Like she totally hates me now. What should I do?

2006-10-01 14:48:39 · 18 answers · asked by WhatUpWitDat 1

anybody else do this?

2006-10-01 14:33:50 · 20 answers · asked by Justme 2

Last week I mistakenly placed the cat in the deep freeze (its a long story).I was afraid to tell my wife so I tied a string around his little tail(clear string) and I will tug on it sometimes and when she isn"t looking I place him in other places (so she thinks hes getting up and walking. the room air freshner works good,but his little body is withering away and shes going to catch on.

2006-10-01 14:32:23 · 23 answers · asked by steve b 5

My hubby and I have been married for 5 years we have 3 kids my hubby works 60 hrs a week and I'm a stay at home mom. We never seem to have time for sex. We used to have a wild sex life before our kids were born. Now we go weeks before we can hook up. what can I do to get it back?

2006-10-01 14:27:24 · 18 answers · asked by cc 4

Peggy started coming around and hanging out for no reason. She didn't talk to me she would go to the garage. My husband works as a mechanic and tow truck driver. He spends at least 15 hours a day in there. He usually works for about 2 weeks like this and then gets burned out and then sleeps for 2 days. One night about 12:30 p.m. his cell phone was ringing I picked it up and looked at the log and text messages they were from Peggy. They were talking dirty and many times she would ask him to pick her up and he would. I beat her up and he was chasing me trying to make me quit. Recently he has been texting Denice-Peggys sister. He would say I can't sleep, I am still working I can't quit thinking about you at 5:00 a.m. I feel dazed and confused. 5:45 am I got this feeling all over that something is going on that I don't know about and started crying! My husband came in afterand asked me what was wrong, he didn't know what to do? He tried to hold me and it felt so wrong and ugly.

2006-10-01 14:19:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous