Marriage & Divorce - 1 October 2006

i have a daughter who is 22 and married to a guy in the army, they have a beautiful little girl who i love to death, and love to spend time with, the problem is my husband gets upset when i go visit them, even if its only for an hour or so. he gets mad if i babysit at our house, he even got mad when i took the day off to go to her birthday party. he is my daughters biological father, not a stepdad or anything like that. he accuses me of not really going to see my daughter and grandaughter, but having an affair,which im not. how can a person be jealous of there own child? i love having a good relationship with my daughter and tell him he cant keep me from them. if i dont do what he wants he will litteraly pout for weeks and threaten to leave me. i always ask him if he wants to go with me, so i dont leave him out. i just recently stopped letting him control every move i made, and maybe he cant deal with it. also, no matter what mean things he does to me dosent hurt anymore. help

2006-10-01 11:59:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 11:54:50 · 2 answers · asked by sweet pea 3

How many of you agree that marriage license should be renewed just like drivers license every 5 years? If you don't renew then they are no longer vailed.It would save a lot of money on lawyer fees!!!!LOL:)

2006-10-01 11:53:04 · 20 answers · asked by Regina 2

I have been divorced for 2 yrs now, I have 3 wonderful children ages 11,7 and 5. I have tried to tell them that things between their father and me didn't work but he is still their father. I have a hard time when it comes to his weekend because they don't want to go. My daughter will not go. My boys well they are 7 and 5 yrs old tell me that they don't like to go with him because all he does is talk bad about me. I have talked to him about it and all he says is "you and I have nothing to talk about". He tells the boys that I was the one who caused the divorce. In reality he raped me and cheated on me that was the real reason but he won't speak the truth. How can I tell my children what really happened? Please help singlemomintx.

2006-10-01 11:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by singlemomintx 1

if so.why? or if no...why not?

2006-10-01 11:42:12 · 29 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2

I don't want a big wedding i am marring him because i love him with all my heart and I believe that it should be small and intimate. Our children and maybe a few select family members.IS this wrong and unfair to other family members and freinds? Isn't it supposed to be about us?

2006-10-01 11:38:40 · 12 answers · asked by R C 5

When you examine the marriage contract you quickly see that marriage has all of the benefits for the woman and no benefit for the man. In the event of a divorce the man gives up half of his income, personal property and estate. The woman gives up nothing! A man could be force to pay alimony for the rest of the woman's life if he goes before the wrong judge...

What are the benefits of marriage to a man?

2006-10-01 11:28:20 · 10 answers · asked by GobleyGook 3

in the state of california

2006-10-01 11:22:49 · 8 answers · asked by CoRis84 1

2006-10-01 11:18:12 · 12 answers · asked by speakthetruth 3

beside divorce or separatation.

2006-10-01 11:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me, my wife likes for me to get her dressed in the mornings, and dress her after showers, it is just us, no she does not need it, but that is our forte, It makes our marriage more interesting, and not so boring. So what is yours?

2006-10-01 11:10:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he is serving time on this and is in love with her and says the HELL with his wife of 17 yrs. and they have 2 teenage boys with!!!!!!SHE still loves her husband very much and does anything for? What should she do about this issue that she is dealing with and they live in a small town!!! Please help she needs so reponce on this!!! Thank you

2006-10-01 11:09:46 · 29 answers · asked by mom of jeff sean sammy gayle 1

that women run the households and thier men. Of course I have friends who have wonderful equal marriages . . .

2006-10-01 10:44:42 · 15 answers · asked by Yitka 2

2006-10-01 10:40:04 · 30 answers · asked by Angela H 1

My wife went out last night and came home late and a little drunk.She was quiet when she came in kissed me and went to sleep.I was doing laundry today and her panties that she wore last night had a lot of dry white substance in them,I asked her about it and she said she didn't know what it was and quicky cahnged the subject.I am concerned that she cheated on me , but she won't talk about it.What do you think,should I be concerned?

2006-10-01 10:35:14 · 25 answers · asked by Tom S 6

Ok, I have been married for 8 years. We have three kids together (7,5,2). Hubby doesn't play with them very often, and when he gets home from work he yells at them to get things cleaned up. He has told our son that he will play with him when his room is cleaned and when he listens to him. Well his room has been cleaned and still doesn't play with him. He favors the girls a little bit more but still doesn't really do anything with them. And my side, he mentally abuse's me. Calls me names, and I am a stay at home mom, The house isn't always spotless like he wants but not in a dangerously situation for the kids. He says that since that I am home all day that the house needs to be spotless everyday. I am sick a lot and can't always keep the house clean. He says that I do nothing all day long. I watch three kids all day.

If there is something that I want, he will say, "whats in it for me"? He even has me get his *** dressed for me to be able to go do something...HELP!!

2006-10-01 10:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Helpmeinid 1

Yesterday I wrote a post about getting upset and having anxiety when I do not hear from my bf after a certain time during the day. this issue is really getting to be bad because sometimes i think i havent heard from him because he might just be fed up finally (we have a lot of issues) and then i think he just might be busy and i know i'm overreacting. it got so bad one night because his cell phone cut out in the middle of the conversation and when i called back i got no answer. so i was SO worried because i thought he had an accident or something happened, until he could finally call back. Anyway I am thinking moving in with him so i wont have to deal with the anxiety of always worrying about him. I guess my question is what is the etiquette of living together? it would be his apartment i'd be moving to, so would it be proper for me to offer to split the bills with him? I know him and he won't ask me to. Also do you think living together is a good idea? At least then I wont worry

2006-10-01 10:12:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need experienced opinions...
And by open, I mean sexually open...

2006-10-01 10:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2

mid life crisis in men what is the cause and the remedy to cure it.

2006-10-01 09:56:51 · 3 answers · asked by Journey 1

im 20 years old man,want to know how can i please a mature women sexually?

2006-10-01 09:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who has been your best partner in bed? Your current or a previous partner and you wish you could have them back just for the sex.

2006-10-01 09:33:54 · 9 answers · asked by confusedjane1980 1

Have you, would you or have you nearly cheated on your parter. If any of these, why did you do it? How far into your relationship with your partner did it happen and do you regret it?

2006-10-01 09:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by confusedjane1980 1

what is real marry?

2006-10-01 09:22:06 · 7 answers · asked by AVA g 1

2006-10-01 09:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by candycane1082 1

i have depression, ever since i got help i have felt a lot better, but lately i have been thinking negative again and that starting to scare me. because i don't want to feel the sickness of depression. i'm on prozac 20mg, I am 25 and weigh 200 lbs. do u think i should talk to my docor about uping it? If u are on prozac how much do u take for it to work for u?

2006-10-01 09:13:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 09:12:02 · 13 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4

1. Do you love your spouse more today than the day you married?
2. If you could go back in time would you marry again and..
3. would you marry the same person

Mine is yes to all three

2006-10-01 09:10:54 · 17 answers · asked by Lesleann 6

I'm El Greco's wife. He was quite honest with me about our sex problems. He let me read his question and your answers. to be honest coz of my hormones,coz of the baby i don't feel like making love. It's not that i don't love him or stoped wanting him sexualy. i just cannot do it at this time. I don't want to loose him and i completly understand his problem and frustration. So since he has been honest and it's just sex with no other feelings, what should i do?

2006-10-01 09:07:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know lots of women do, how do you do it without him finding out about it?

2006-10-01 09:05:39 · 18 answers · asked by goddess1 2

how do you show off your legs,,stockings\nylons or bare??? skirts or shorts??

2006-10-01 09:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by Rooster 3