Have you, would you or have you nearly cheated on your parter. If any of these, why did you do it? How far into your relationship with your partner did it happen and do you regret it?
2006-10-01 09:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by confusedjane1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never have, never will. Why would I want to ruin a perfect thing?
2006-10-01 10:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I would have to say yes I did cheat on my signifigant other. I was lacking love and closeness with my b/f. We have been together for 7+ years and I no longer felt special.We fought all the time. I turned to a old friend who was there for me. He listened and was there to help. Keep in mind he was in a bad relationship and we were there for each other. I trusted him and respected him as well has him doing to same for me. I was always one of those people who said I would never cheat but then it happened. I have adsolutly NO regrets. It still goes on sometimes and I will never regret it. I am in the process of leaving my b/f because we will never work out. I can not tell him about my unfaithfullness but I can not continue to lie pretending it never happened. He deserves better. And I deserve to be in a relationship where I feel loved.
2006-10-01 10:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by chick29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my partner because he cheated on me...We were 2 years into the relationship when he cheated..I was so hurt I confided in a friend a few weeks later and one thing led to another. I regret it sometimes, when me and my bf are all snuggly and cute..But revenge was sweet at the time and its in the past now anyway! I know I shouldnt have done it....meh.
2006-10-01 09:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my then boyfriend less than a year into our relationship. I did it because he pissed me off and I was being spiteful. I only did it once and regretted it as soon as he started to screw me. About a year later, we decided to get married and I hadn't told him. I came clean and reminded him of what was going on in our relationship and the other obstacles we had gotten over them. He was very hurt and upset but he CHOSE to marry me anyway. He didn't trust me for a while and I deserved that. We got married on September 25th and just celebrated our 7th year anniversary. We've still go through our ups and downs but I now understand that it takes a real man to forgive and go on. We made a commitment to each other and we have stuck by our vows. But the most important thing that I have learned is that it is very easy to get a divorce, but it takes a lot of work to stay married.
2006-10-01 10:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by fergiferg99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are an honest person you will not cheat. You would want to keep the promise you made at marriage to not do that. I don't think love has as much to do with it as one might think. I was in a bad marriage for many years and I did not love the man I was with, but I loved myself and I did not want to be a liar, or to break a promise, no matter who it was too. If you are inclined to cheat then you should not be making promises to anyone not to.
2006-10-01 10:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in cheating, its morally wrong. Yet my spouse cheated on me several times, which is 'his' moral problem.
Now I dont trust him or love him, and because I dont love him he continuously asks me to move out. Where, the street? So I'm living with someone I dont love. Maybe this is how women get to the point of cheating on their spouse. I think waiting for the divorce is the best choice, whenever that will be. Could be years, and me being sad forever, just to be morally good..?
2006-10-01 09:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by *zz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I have never cheated and dont want too. I have nothing to regret because I havent, but I have been cheated on and i know how bad it hurts.
2006-10-01 09:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by cherokee83pride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated....I had already kicked him out, but we're still married....and it don't matter, my affair started as emotional, now it's physical as well. We were married 9 years. I have been miseralby unhappy for more than two years now...lack of attention, lack of love, he didn't work much, I just wanted out, and on top of all that I had fallen in love with another man. Do I regret it? No, live is too short to spend it unhappy.........
2006-10-01 09:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was drunk and kissed another guy. I told him about it right after it happened. I was stupid. We were together a long time before this happened. He was very understanding about it and he knows that I would never do that again. It was the worst day of my life. I don't get drunk without him again!
2006-10-01 16:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never ever cheated on anyone i think its horrible it was done to me once and its just such a horrible feeling id never make my partner feel like that
2006-10-01 11:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by kiol2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋