Marriage & Divorce - 1 October 2006

We take trips to hike, scuba dive, bike tours, etc.. we love it! Is this convenient for my marriage?

2006-10-01 19:08:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Aftera failing bus & losing loads of money my husband and i both got good jobs. I couldn't believe our luck - I thought finally we could make up for lost time. Then back in April after my husband told me all the money that had been disappearing from out accout (about $1200/month) he'd been spending on booze & drugs & lately a counsellor he'd found in town (at $80/time-he'd told me it was bus. expenses & would be paid back) Said he didn't know if he loved me or what he wanted. I put it down to depression after losing the bus etc. Things seemed to settle for a while, but he could see his job was finishing then I realised in the last 2 months he's "spent" $3300. Obviously I'd asked, & once again he promised it was work related. Well, he fessed up when I told him I wasn't stupid - drugs, booze & I don't know what else. I'm sure there's more to it. He says he feels like a failure, cant provide etc but he WILL NOT talk to me about it. We have 2 kids (11 & 15) I'm gutted by the lies

2006-10-01 19:00:19 · 16 answers · asked by ali 1

i am separated for 2 years now. recently i was contacted with my bestfriend who was also my old lover... at that time i ddint gave him chance because we ahve been friends since grade 5 and i find it awkward,
now he is aware of the situation and he keeps on saying taht he still loves me and is serious about it.. he is married adn he says the only reason he courted his wife is when the time we lost communication.
i am now feeling someting special though i know its wrong. i started receiving text messages from his wife.. and i knwo they are ahve misunderstanding.. BUT we only exchange text messages and have not done anything..
i dont feel guilty becasue i am fully aware that it is not possible. but am missing now my bestfriend. i have decided not to text him nor to avoid further misunderstanding with his wife. what will i do?

2006-10-01 18:50:48 · 10 answers · asked by crystalink 2

First, let me say that I am a heterosexual woman and I am married to a heterosexual man. I realize that we live in a predominantly Christian nation but we are also a democracy which allows all race and religions to be accepted so I don't understand why same sex marriage has to be a problem. There are religions in the U.S. that have no problem with same sex couples and allowing them to be married. Why force Christian beliefs on a nation of many beliefs? It really has no effect on us if they are allowed to be married except for our own personal and religious morals and ethics; but they are ours and not theirs.

Think about the fact the devout Mormons don't drink caffeinated drinks...if Mormonism was the predominant religion; would we ban all caffeinated drinks? Yes this is a little different but the same in some way. We would be banning something that one religion didn't agree with, when society as a whole is more diverse than that.

Why disallow it when it only hinders your morals?

2006-10-01 18:48:51 · 14 answers · asked by chrissy757 5

ok, my husband and i got back together after being seperated for 7, months 8 months ago. we seperated because of his drinking. he moved back here from another state with no money so we had to move in with my mother and pay rent. things were not going well, he started to drink again..i started talking to another guy and he found out. i stopped talking to other guy, he kept drinking. he decided he had to go back to other state because he couldn't stand to live at my mothers any more and he wants me to follow in a few months. i don't know if i should go or not. he said he will stop drinking. i don't trust it and he said he doesn't trust i won't start to talk to another guy again. i stopped talking to that guy but he kept drinking. what would you do?

2006-10-01 18:47:35 · 18 answers · asked by sweet serinity 2

2006-10-01 18:43:26 · 13 answers · asked by Ruby 3

2006-10-01 18:42:50 · 28 answers · asked by Ruby 3

2006-10-01 18:42:15 · 11 answers · asked by Ruby 3

my g f is behaving like a psycho....she always talking with boys....but i dont like it...she is more int in boys....plz help me....and also she dont like joking..... but i was always in the mode of joking...she always scolds me wenever i m joking...u onle tell wy we have 2 be serious always....

2006-10-01 18:41:06 · 8 answers · asked by Ruby 3

Hi Iam bit confused in what iam doing.Iam in love with a girl for past 5 years, she also loves me a lot. The problem in between us is her boy friends. She knows very well that cos of her friends only problem arises in between us. Many times problem has arised cos of her pals. That guys are really problem riser. She is not listening to my words. In this problem, my family members are not accepting to our marriage. Everyone started talking bad about us. Please help me my friends, what to do in this type of suitation. My family members started searching another girl for me to get married. One thing is she is a north indian and myself, south indian. She loves me a lot and lot.

2006-10-01 18:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by Ruby 3

2006-10-01 18:39:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-01 18:32:17 · 19 answers · asked by The False Prophet 2

a taurus from chicago his picture is a 1966 chevy truck i would love to catch him cheating so i can divorce him ive checked out his blog it shows he has one friend but he is a sneeky bastard he has passwords for everything. any advice someone can offer i would appreciate it thankyou in advance!!!

2006-10-01 17:56:12 · 34 answers · asked by corvairchick 2

I have cought her red handed on several lies about different things so I dont trust her, she admitted to haveing a sex relation with a guy friend of hers when she told me she was going to have a father-daughter day with her dad. She now lives seperate from me saying its just untill she saves the money to buy us a house. she lives rent free in her ex-husbands house and says he dont live there yet my daughter at age 5 says he does because i have her with me she spends the week-ends with her. I have to call first before ever going over there. I been there once and didnt see any proof a guy living there but I didnt look behind closet doors or in any pantries such as bedroom droors. This is really bugging me because I do think I love her but I dont want to stick around if its going to lead to another time her having sex behind my back.

2006-10-01 17:47:42 · 29 answers · asked by mike_ray0471 1

Poor Daddy.....she acts like it is all my fault. He was not the perfect Dad by no means....in fact, he didn't even want her when I told him I was pregnant with her. Why? She doesn't even want to live with me after the divorce is final because she doesn't want Daddy to be alone and sad. Why is this happening? It really hurts me. I have been a good mother and been there for her for ll yrs. now....I feel second fiddle and second best.

2006-10-01 17:33:59 · 27 answers · asked by lucy p 2

My ex-gf just got together with another guy and now she's happy, which makes me kind of depressed but still happy that she's happy, and I was wondering if anyone knew of a song that relates to this kind of situation.

2006-10-01 17:22:22 · 15 answers · asked by Brendan S 1

I saw the divorce coming for about 5 years, since i was 17. My brother, who is 12, only found out 2 days before my father moved out three weeks ago. My parents are still on good terms, my father just moved down the street, so he sees my bro every day almost, but apparently my bro is withdrawing and has quit his extracurriculars and just secludes himself in his room. I am not living in the same state anymore so I can't be there for him in person. It's driving me nuts. My mom took him to therapy, but he didn't want to go back after the first time, and the doctor said not to force him.

Is there anything else I can do to help him through this? I've told him its something that happens all the time, and that he's lucky that our dad is still nearby and on good terms with our mom. I told him it was normal to be sad, but not to let it overwhelm him because it could be worse. Is there anything else I can do to help him through this?

2006-10-01 17:19:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for only a few months, but i see stability in our future together. We both are looking for a long term relationship, and I think he is the one that I want to be with. I just found out that he needs to update his status as an immigrant, but he doesnt have a green card yet. I want to marry him so that he wont worry about it, but i am not sure if that will hurt our beautifully blossming relationship, or make us even closer. So should I marry him?

2006-10-01 17:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by cocokutie 3

2006-10-01 17:11:12 · 17 answers · asked by megh 2

2006-10-01 17:04:32 · 17 answers · asked by Hobby 5

if any man or woman divorced by his/her partner before marriage is worst?

2006-10-01 17:01:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently got married in May and my husband is an easy going and benevolent guy. He's been really irascible lately. Two weeks ago after work he was really horny but I was tired. He pushed me against the wall and shoved his hands up my shirt. I pushed him and he backed off saying "what the f**k is wrong with you?!". Yesterday I was complaining about him leaving his clothes everywhere and he blatantly ignored me b/c he was so immersed in a football game. I got the remote and turned off the tv and he was furious. He pried the remote out of my hand and raised his hand up to hit me but he put it back down. I told my mom but I dont want to listen to her obsolete ways of thinking (men are dominant etc.) Im not afraid of him but things can escalate. What do you think I should do? Genuine answers plz.

2006-10-01 16:59:20 · 30 answers · asked by amina 1

if i recently found out that my ex that has custody has been heavily drinking and fighting with his gf in front of my kids, do I have the right to keep kids as long as needed? we do not have a set visitation schedule...please help

2006-10-01 16:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

for me and my 2 grandchildren in forsyth ga i am raising them and had them since their birth i am abused by the man i married 29 yrs ago and im 56 hes 48 he spit all over my face 8 to 10 times last night and then he poured a bottle of ice cold beer all over me i just had a minor surgery on my chest and the beer got into my cut where i had a mole removed and it is a open hole hes has been abusive in the past i know i should have left but i got the girls 14 and 16 yrs old and they want to stay they get along with him and he plays them and they play him i need a shelter and i need to know all about it ill call a care cottage in the morning but i just need help so so bad hes asleep now and will be leaving for work soon so im ok now but i fear for my life now and i have never feared it like this need a shelter in forsyth ga if anyone knows of one and how are they ran

2006-10-01 16:51:19 · 8 answers · asked by sassygal 1

i recently got seperated from my wife. we havent gone through any legal stuff yet. she is not willing to divorce me at the same time she doesnt let me talk to my son on the phone nor let him call me. is there any way that i can get a court order before we take a divorce in order to talk to my son? i am living in a different state than her. she and my son are citizens but i am still a dependent with v-visa which is going to expire by this feb 2007. need advice.

2006-10-01 16:48:06 · 5 answers · asked by dave 1

My wife filled up an EPO does it mean I'll be charged with a domestic violence crime? There is a case number on this paper

2006-10-01 16:42:09 · 4 answers · asked by beauty 777 1

Honest answers only please!Are there any men who don't look at that **** I mean what the hell!

2006-10-01 16:36:30 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

I have been married for the last 12 years and have a child too...over the last 6-7 yrs my partner and I have grown apart...no we don't hate each other but have stopped loving the other too.we respect each other and now live together for our childs sake...we don't seem to connect to one another in any way physically or mentally...we are very civil to each other ....but somehow love is lacking in our lives....we have treid counselling etc etc..but to no avail...are we heading anywhere?? Is this normal? I definately don't want my child to think this is what a marriage is suppose to be! Advice....and people who cannot be sensitive to my issue please refrain from answering...Iam asking for wise counsel not critisism.

2006-10-01 16:34:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today, our 5 year anniversary, he signed the card "Luv, Rich."

This makes me realize what I've been suspecting...he does not LOVE me. He LUVS me. But LOVE is what you need for marriage to work.

I want a divorce right now, but I'm nervous to tell him. How do I?

2006-10-01 16:27:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I just got married about 9 months ago legally, but we didn't have our hindu marriage. Essentially, I got married so my fiance could get her paperwork in and get her life started in America. She is from New Zealand. Things went terribly south in the last few months, with her disrespecting me and my family and deciding to run away from my house because it seems as if she was looking more for a lifestyle than for love. She didn't want to live in the situation we were in at that time, and not willing to understand. So the whole time, I tried to get her back, and she was stubborn. She really cast me in a bad light--I am not perfect, but I also did not treat her badly enough to warrant this behaviour. Her father, got involved and did not hear both sides of the story. Things went south fast. So she's gone back to NZ, and her father is preparing to send the papers. She sends me hate emails, but then says she loves me. I am tired of the instability. I never told her to leave...

2006-10-01 16:26:52 · 14 answers · asked by Funkadelik HomoSapien 1