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Hi Iam bit confused in what iam doing.Iam in love with a girl for past 5 years, she also loves me a lot. The problem in between us is her boy friends. She knows very well that cos of her friends only problem arises in between us. Many times problem has arised cos of her pals. That guys are really problem riser. She is not listening to my words. In this problem, my family members are not accepting to our marriage. Everyone started talking bad about us. Please help me my friends, what to do in this type of suitation. My family members started searching another girl for me to get married. One thing is she is a north indian and myself, south indian. She loves me a lot and lot.

2006-10-01 18:40:15 · 9 answers · asked by Ruby 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

9 answers

boyfriends problem....parents problem...her friends problems....north side problems...south side also problem....so when u have so many problems in this situation....why take all this humbug....afterall you marry to stay happy...and in these kind of relationships after the intial honeymoon periods...all problems...will raise their head....then you will feel unhappy and maybe even repent....all this is good in novels and films....world will love lovers....but will not be lovers.....be pratical...if parents support then go for it...otherwise....see a good south indian iyer girl....who will be soft and sweet to you...as you are such a nice boy.......

2006-10-01 19:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by sandeep k 5 · 0 0

dude, if a woman loves a man..the woman should take the man's word..trust and obey in some way the man's advise..take me for example..i'm a 'straight' person (morally) and just do what i think is right but since i love my husband i follow whatever he says because i know this is for the welfare of our relationship..if there's something wrong or someone is trying to ruin our relationship, we talk aout it...communication is one of the best way to keep the relatioship longer..you just need to discuss with your gf what you feel towards her pal, what you're parents feel for your relatioship with her..open communication dude.....goodluck dude

2006-10-01 18:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by harukashin 2 · 0 0

Did you tell her that it bothers you that she talks to these guy friends? If so, and she continues to see them anyways even though it causes the two of you to fight.... you need to break up with her. The problems will only get worse. Good luck to you

2006-10-01 18:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0 0

Dear Ruby,
Hello!
It is my sincere advise to you to get married with her as soon as possible without further delay otherwise you can loose ur love.So go ahead if u really love her.
Yours
Ravi

2006-10-01 18:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 0 0

Sell your Seven Eleven before the wedding or she may take it in the divorce.

Or just leave her and find someone else.

2006-10-01 18:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

what's her dating with the different men in her existence? in the event that they're only friends you may would desire to settle for them and help your kinfolk to be certain that they are purely friends and not the rest. i think of it is a super situation in case you tell her that she has to end being friends with those different men. considering marriage would desire to between 2 people who quite love one yet another, i think of that the alternative would desire to be between you and her--not your loved ones. bear in strategies you would be with this woman for something of your existence and if it is somebody which you do not probable like it would be destructive. tell your loved ones this. possibly you may desire to nicely tell them that they'd desire to strategies their own corporation. stable luck to you!

2016-10-18 08:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

se there is no problem because she also loves u.ok convinece her take her to ur home.ask ur parents to accept for ur marriage.if they dont agree.pls leave her

2006-10-01 18:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by chaithu 2 · 0 0

YOU are fake. get a life sicko.

2006-10-01 20:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

cant help.......... if u have job and can lead ur own life. go for it..... else go in ur father footsteps......

2006-10-01 22:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by pavan k 2 · 0 0

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