Today, our 5 year anniversary, he signed the card "Luv, Rich."
This makes me realize what I've been suspecting...he does not LOVE me. He LUVS me. But LOVE is what you need for marriage to work.
I want a divorce right now, but I'm nervous to tell him. How do I?
2006-10-01 16:27:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Luv 2 divorce U
2006-10-01 16:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways that I can think of. One is to sit him down and tell him that you have made a very serious decision involving the two of you and that you want to discuss it with him. Make sure he understands why you have made this decision. Ask him how he feels about it. Who knows, maybe he has been thinking the same thing and just did not to start an ugly divorce. Men or always worried about what they are going to lose in a divorce. Be up front what you are wanting or expecting from the divorce like kids, money, house, furnishings...etc. If you do not think this will go well. Then I would advice seeing a divorce lawyer and have the papers delivered to him when you are gone for the weekend so that he can let it all settle in.
2006-10-01 16:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mark67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully there is more wrong with the marriage besides signing a card Luv. I went to high school in the 70's so if my husband signed a card Luv you, I would think he was referring to those fun days in our past. If this is the only reason you want a divorce then you never should have gotten married in the first place.
2006-10-01 16:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the Hell? I just answered your other question about this....and now you are wanting a divorce? How old are you? this is a joke right? He actually made it 5 years with you? Gezz this man should get a medal! If....and I say IF...this is a real question....then Grow up and Suck it up princess! If this is your biggest B itch about this man Thank your stars he even sent you a card!
Hmmm....I was just looking at other questions you have asked. Why are you playing games with people on here? I mean yes we can use the points...but its nice to think that MAYBE you are actually helping someone.
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HI i'm 20 and dating a 27 year old
big huge age difference
would it be better if we broke up and continued dating when I was older, like when i turn 30 and he's 37?
or when I'm like, 48 and he's 55?
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So how can it be your 5 year anniversary?
any reply will do....have a nice day
2006-10-01 16:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not married, but this goes for ending any kind of relationship. A lot of times people that want to end a relationship have a hard time because there's a birthday coming up, a vacation in 3 weeks, or whatever the case may be. Just know that there will always be something that the two of you are supposed to do together.
If that's how you feel, then that's how you feel. There's no right or wrong time to express how you feel. you just need to come out and say it. Be mature about it. Tell him why you have come to this conclusion.
Good luck.
2006-10-01 16:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Me. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen honey, does he put you above all else? Does he occasionally bring something home for you? Does he still pinch your butt or want you in bed often? Does he let you be right sometimes or hold the remote? If yes, the "luv" thing is not the issue. Look deeper inside, my dear, to find the answer.
2006-10-01 16:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, sounds like you are using the luv thing for an excuse,,,, it must be something deeper than that ,, for a reason to divorce him,,,
Just tell him out right,,, and go on with your life,,,,, especially if you dont have kids.....
good luck
2006-10-01 16:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh please. Stop with the semantics, will ya? What, he wont follow your commands or you dont have the fairy tale life and fairy tale feelings you thought you were suppose to have?
You both made the commitment. Follow it through. You know, you cant keep that in love feeling all the time. If you did, your body would explode. That is the feeling that gets us together, then the real everyday work starts and it usually isnt that oh my god, I am in love with you junk that disney portrays. If it was, disney would go out of business cause we would have the fairy tale and not need it on video.
2006-10-01 22:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a little stupid to want a divorce for that open your eyes thiers obviously another reason why you want a divorce if you dont have any kids than just tell him how you feel and dont mention the "LUV" part or he'll thing you an idiot if you do have kids try to work it out for them.
good luck hope every thing turns out alright for you..
2006-10-01 16:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by motorheadss84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A women who would request a divorce over something this stupid and shallow, would be doing her husband a favor by leaving him. Then he could find someone with a little depth, and some concern for someone other than herself.
No need to tell him anything. Just do the guy a favor and pack your crap-get out.
2006-10-01 16:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋