2006-10-01 09:12:02 · 13 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, i would marry a man with a mean daughter, because i am getting married to him and not to his daughter, as far as his daughter not being nice to my son, that will pass because they are teens and are going through a phase that requires both mother and father's attention.
2006-10-01 09:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not without a whole lot of family counselling.... Blended families are tough, even when they seem to get along. Starting out with a mean, resentful kid, is almost a deal breaker without an attitude adjustment on the offending kid. And that kid is resentful because you are taking the place of the spouse who is gone. And that kid will make your plans evaporate unless that kid changes, even if nothing else than to just shut up...... good luck
2006-10-01 16:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is NO. You need to put your son before anyone else including yourself. He didn't ask to be brought into this world. Between the both of them, they are figuring out who rules the roost, so to speak. She is asserting her dominance over him should all of you live together. She's making it clear that she's the alpha, not him. I don't think it will get any better. She needs some counseling-she's jealous of your son.
2006-10-01 16:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not until they are getting along. and you should discuss it with your son.
if you just go ahead and get married, that would be incredibly selfish. your son was there before this other guy and he should have first priority. he will resent it if he's shoved into the back seat.
how about arranging it for the four of you to go do something? the beach? a ball game?
2006-10-01 16:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes siblings don't get along even when they are blood related, sit down and have a talk with her and ask her why she isn't nice to your son, Is it something he is doing? Or is she jealous of him? She was the one and only child before he came into the picture, she feels threatened by him!
2006-10-01 16:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of the problem is him and the other part is her's. I would marry him but talk before hand of about his daughter and her issues.
2006-10-01 16:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry him but before you do, maybe your bf should talk to his daughter about the little sibbling rivalry or ask your son and her to talk about their problems:)
2006-10-01 16:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly in love with this guy than yeah. maybe things will change between the kids because they are teenagers and teenagers change all the time.
2006-10-01 16:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teenage hormones dont worry about it just marry him after all they will probably only be there for about 5 years then bugger off to college or something
2006-10-01 16:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Edward B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out WHY she is acting like such a little biotch.
2006-10-01 16:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋