and he is serving time on this and is in love with her and says the HELL with his wife of 17 yrs. and they have 2 teenage boys with!!!!!!SHE still loves her husband very much and does anything for? What should she do about this issue that she is dealing with and they live in a small town!!! Please help she needs so reponce on this!!! Thank you
2006-10-01 11:09:46 · 29 answers · asked by mom of jeff sean sammy gayle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-01 11:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Letsee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to convince your friend that her marriage to him is over.Its his fault and not hers and once he gets out he will never have anything to do with her or the boys. She needs to divorce him and sue him for everything she is legally entitkled to and make his life once he gets out a living hell for what hes done. Tell her that if she stays with him she might lose the boys because he will be labeled a sexual offender and cannot be around kids under 18 so maybe thatll scare her into action. Women dont need guys like this and neither does society, but its an on going problem thats getting worse everyday. Good luck
2006-10-01 11:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in simple terms tell your dad flat out. there is not any elementary thanks to assert it or brace him for it, even with the indisputable fact that you'll be able to attempt to describe it, he will be mad and wanna kill your boyfriend no doubt. And no your boyfriend received't bypass to detention middle that's unlawful even as the guy is eighteen and also you're a minor. so that you almost messed that up too, yet nevertheless be particular that boy is going to be there! adult males have a tendency to assert "oh i'd be there" and then bypass once the toddler is born, no longer all adult males are like that yet plenty are. and ultimately, you should have waited to lose your virginity a minimum of till you've been 18 even then i do not imagine that's perfect, (and no i'm no longer a virgin so i'm no longer attempting to sound extra suitable) yet once you detect "the only" and if this boy seems to no longer be the only you're meant to be with, you're going to sense poor you probably did not wait, and the guy you marry is going to sense terrible.... I discovered it the confusing way, and now you'll too. All you may do is have this newborn and raise it, in case your father wont aid you've the newborn to augment positioned it up for adoption and be particular that if the newborn needs to locate you even as he/she is older that you signal the papers in case you want to!
2016-12-04 02:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have the answer in the question. ". . . the HELL with his wife . . ." If the husband already has made up his mind to not care, love, adore, support, his wife why is the wife trying to stay by his side???? She need to get out before there is more heartache than there is to this point. I'm sorry, but if I loved a woman beyond lfe itself, and she just turns her back to me and goes and does her own thing? I'm a get out. It's not me giving up, because guess what, she already did by doing these heartbreaking things.
2006-10-01 11:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by a1b2c3d4bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant believe she is even still talking to the piece of trash...
if my hubby did that.. he would be under the jail and he would not be welcomed to speak to me.. and i'm sure my son would agree..
that is so wrong on some many levels and i'm shocked you'd even have to ask peoples advice on this matter...
the right thing to do is very plain and clear cut...
has no just cheated but has had sex with a child....
what if that had been his 15 yr old daughter so old man slept with..
it doesnt matter if the girl wanted it or not.. she was the child and he was to adult and he should have known better!!!!!
this is one of the nastiest things i have ever heard of... and how could she lay in bed next to him knowing what he had done.. and then what to do with his father son relationship is a whole nother ordeal!!!
2006-10-01 11:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy30753 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell the wife to have some self respect for herself. Her husband has a big problem and he is NOT the man she thought she loved. With that said, she should move on with her life and forget about this sick excuse of a husband she has.
2006-10-01 11:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARTHUR, DELTIC, AND Chrissy said it!
he deserves the worst!...how can men be soooo selfish & horrible and cruel?
are there any men out there that are not perverted molesters..do all men want under 18...?
my friends bro was the same and is now serving 8-10
I say all child predators and rapists, molestors should get the death penalty
2006-10-01 11:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by raindrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke question, right? No one is this stupid, right???? She files for divorce. Why would she even wish to stay associated with this guy/????????????????? She ought to move, spend some buckos on herself, get a killer smile from the best cosmetic dentist in her area, loose some weight, and start dating again. She doesn't love this guy, she loves the IMAGE she has of him, and they aren't the same.
2006-10-01 11:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he already told you what he intends to do . why do you refuse to see what is happening. He is not in love with you, and doesn't want you . he wants a 15 year old girl. Divorce his ***.
2006-10-01 19:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up the trailer and go on Jerry Springer?
2006-10-01 11:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋