I don't want a big wedding i am marring him because i love him with all my heart and I believe that it should be small and intimate. Our children and maybe a few select family members.IS this wrong and unfair to other family members and freinds? Isn't it supposed to be about us?
2006-10-01 11:38:40 · 12 answers · asked by R C 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is our 1st time getting married we have 3 children tigether but felt we would wait ti get married we always knew we would
2006-10-01 11:44:39 · update #1
Your wedding is all about you. Remember you only get married once and you should do whatever you have dreamed of...it's your day make it what you want it to be....
2006-10-01 11:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do the others want to go to your wedding? How old are you? Your avatar made me thing you are young. Some family and friends will probably pitch a fit over not being invited. They should realize that you want a small wedding. However, family can be the biggest pain in the butt anyway. Good luck !
2006-10-01 11:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already have been married. My view is that the first time you have a big wedding and let everyone come, but after that, It's just about what the two of you want and are comfortable with. The older you get the less you worry about what everybody thinks anyway. Just tell them what you have decided, and enjoy each other.
2006-10-01 12:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by David AKA Dr Reason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is supposed to be about you; you and your future husband should decide how to get married. Most people getting married for the second time? maybe since you have children--don't have big elaborate weddings and friends and family don't expect them. If someone wants you to have a big wedding, ask them to foot the bill and you will oblige.
2006-10-01 11:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are not paying for it, they don't have a say so. It is all about you and your husband. They will be mad, but they will get over it. My husband's aunt got mad because we didn't send her an invitation to our wedding. We told her that close family members will be told about the wedding. She didn't talk to us for the first few weeks, but within a month, she was back to her old self. Do what you feel is right honey! ! !
2006-10-01 11:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your wedding do what you want... My wife wanted a huge wedding and we had one... Now she says she would have been just as happy with a small one... The less you spend on the ceremony, the more you will have for your honeymoon.
2006-10-01 11:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree with you. It's about MARRIAGE not the WEDDING. You do it however you feel fit. It doesn't need to be a big elaborate thing that just creates more stress for you to plan.
2006-10-01 11:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by CourtneyMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady enjoy the life, how you want. Ask from you hubby what he says. Spend as much as you can, keeping in view the affordability. Call those people who are really happy and having good relations with you. All our best wishes are for you and pray for a happy life.
2006-10-01 13:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting married seals the deal!
Getting married leads to a successful life.
Congratulations on just getting married period!
It's not about the extras, it's about the becoming of one flesh.
2006-10-01 12:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your wedding, do what you feel is right. My wife and I had a small wedding and we don't regret it. I believe your relatives will understand, if not, oh well it is their problem not yours. Good luck and congrats.
2006-10-01 11:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋