Am I the only wife who has to begg for sex?

Question

I think that sums it up good. I want sex like all the time but I only get it like 1 a week maybe.

Answer 1

Huh?? Thats terrible. LOL, I have to hide from my husband. Maybe things just got a little too everyday? Is that possible? Maybe come out in a new outfit or send him out for ketchup,motrin,whatever and when he returns have candles,music and you in a skimpy outfit waiting. Maybe all thats missing is some spice.

Answer 2

I can totally understand how you are feeling. When I was married to my husband, we did it at least 4 times a week. And that was after 14 years of marriage. After talking to several friends, they all said that that was too much that my husband was a nimph. Nimph or not, I just loved it. I am now divorced, his choosing, cheating on me. Why, I have no idea. We surely had enough sex. Now I have been dating a man 10 years older than I am. I am 50 and he is 60 years old. I have to pull teeth to get sex from him. His libido is so different from my ex-husband. I could virtually do it at least 3 times a week now. I am lucky if I get it twice a month. And when we have sex, it is very satisfying. This man is just not as affectionate as I am. But all his other qualities are great. He is not a cheater. He is loyal, loves me unconditionally, honest, treats me very well. I have learned to accept this and there are times that I will initiate it. But I was so spoiled with all the sex with my ex that I thought every guy was like that. I guess not. If I were you, when your husband gets home from work, and if you have no children around that night, I suggest you greet him at the door with just a raincoat on and nothing underneath. That may spark something for him. Good luck.

Answer 3

I stopped begging! But to answer your question, No you are not the only one. But our sex life did get better when he lost 40lbs!. Then he gained it back and we are now back to me not getting any. My husband is not the most suave guy anyway. His idea of romance is having sex during game half time. There have been times when I wanted to leave him but he is a great father & husband and I can't leave him because he isn't giving it up like I want. Maybe your husband has a medical problem or if his job is stressful that could have something to do with it. And with my hubby, the more pressure I put on him about sex the less he is able to get it up. They can't handle pressure like we can. I can have an argument and an hour later i want to do it. I think it's a great way to make up but he doesn't . Try talking to him about it to see what he is thinking

Answer 4

Girl I dont know how yu do it because i got to have it 2 times a day 5 to 6 days a week, we never get tierd of it we been married for 2yrs and been knowing eachother for 11yrs. So if you have to begg then show him you can do it yourself, play with yourself infront of him,dont let him know what you are about to do just do it. Trust me it will trun him on and you will get what you wont. Try to always look sexy even if you are just staying in da house,see i look good for my man all the time even when we go to bed so when he wake up he wont to make love,or just be like damn look at what I got, just try it and let me know if I am right or wrong. Good luck!

Answer 5

I know exactly how you feel. When my husband & I got married, we couldn't keep out hands off each other. It was great. I thought we'd be the perfect fit. We both loved making love. However the 2nd year it slowed down to once a week. This last year was our sixth & final year. Sex dwindled down to once every 3 or 4 months, then 3 days before our sixth anniversary he told me he wants a divorce. At this point i would have been happy with the once a week. But its his loss....

Good luck

Answer 6

he's a control freak and a manipulator - I had this problem with a guy I saw, the only thing I can think to do about huis teasing - is to stop begging for sex, get a dildo/rabbit, and some ky jelly - experiment with different sizes, go into the bathromm and lock the door - put a lock on if there isnt one already, and make sure you moan loudly when having an orgasm either and by using the dildo and using your fingers to do gentle circular movements on your cliterous - keep going and speed up until you get there, making this a nightly thing/daily thing, and NOT letting him watch or join in should soon alter his attitude, have an anne summers party - or go to the ann summers high street shops - you get the picture, make sure you tell him your dildo(s) give them a name are satisfying and that really you can make do with them, ans you understand that he's too 'tired' (controlling)- and not up to it (manipulative) and lock your dildos away - so he cant throw them away play with them, tell him that youre playng with 8 inch dildo - 'keanu reeves' and he can weatch the telly, and as yioure getting there - shout yes, yes keanu/neo oh you do my matrix - you get the picture.

Expect him to be jealous, call you nasty names and try tio humiliate you - andleave him to stew and lick his woulds!!!- Enjoy - Id really liek to know how this ones turns out

Answer 7

Once a week, huh…
Have you ever considered how ‘lucky’ you are ???

You have been married for five years, and have three kids…
Your husband works a 60 hour week, and you feel that you just don’t have time for ‘sex’ anymore.

The only suggestion I can offer to you is that your husband perhaps needs to cut about twenty hours per week off his work time, in order for you to get back to the ‘wild sex life’ that you had prior to the kids being born !!!

Answer 8

well i can say it is the same here sometimes,if your husband works alot you of course suffer in that department but i would say that you could always try the obvious,get some lingerie and drink some wine and get him into the mood,or just flat out masterbate in front of him and show him u an't playing.lol. just kidding,even though im sure maybe people have tried this and maybe even succeeded.all i can say is let him know you are desireable,it is easy to forget sometimes when u look at eachother everyday,you have to be the one to do it,men dont really think that way,they want you to be the seductive one sometimes.

Answer 9

I wish I had your problem, just be patient and understanding, some people dont have the same sex drive as others, lifes daily routines can get in the way of your sex life. I have the opposite problem, I have lost alot of my sex drive, and its not that my husband doesnt cut it, cause he does, and I miss it, but i think its a medical problem for me Iam in my mid 40's. So just be patient.

Answer 10

i know how u feel im a man, i love sex and i drive an 18 wheeler and when i get home from a 3 week road trip, my g/f will give me sex but referrs to it as doing what i require and that it is part of her job description. it could be that your husband gave it to u at first to hook a good looking, fine woman like u then after u said i do he figured that why bother, i know thats what my g/f did. i wish i coudl find a woman like u but they always seem to be taken