if you were givin a chance to view your life again.. or choose the your partner... will you settle for the one you have today or will you rather skip it and look for another one... why?
2006-10-01 15:35:51 · 16 answers · asked by crystalink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I honestly don't think i'd change a thing. I've had great adventures, and great heartbreaks, both things that made me whom I am today. And I like me.... without the bad, you can't appreciate the good. Don't select your moments, relish your moments :)
2006-10-01 15:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by michele_gff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely choose the husband I have now. He has helped me to become the person I am today. We have had our share of problems, and we have some equally good memories as well. He has been willing to ride the storm each and every time. In the end you want someone who will remain committed to the relationship.There are many people who marry with the best of intentions, but when the storms of life begin banging on the door--they choose to give up on each other, and give in to the problem that they are facing. I am strong alone, but I am STRONGER with my husband---the one I would choose all over again.
2006-10-01 23:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id keep him.... my husband is a great guy when he & I met I already had a daughter from a previous relationship & he & I have been married for 7 years next Monday & we dated for 2 years b4 we married but he has taken my daughter for his own he loves her just like she was his child & she loves him too.... we have had our ups & downs & at times it looked like it would be the end of us but he is not a quitter he refused to give up & so did I & I think we are a perfect match ... not a perfect couple or perfect people but we're good together... most important we have a love that I cant even begin to describe ... I hope everyone has or one day finds what Im talking about because if you have it you'll never wanna give it up...
2006-10-01 22:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are MANY MANY things that maybe I would change in my life.
However being with my first wife even though she cheated on me and caused me a great deal of hurt and pain I would not change as I got two GREAT kids out of that deal....and my new wife of 15 years I would not change for ANYTHING!
My look on life is Everything happens for a reason....all the bad things included. They make you the person you are. So maybe I wouldn't change a thing *S*
2006-10-01 22:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say, but I would chose someone else. I had the biggest crush on this guy in high school. I think he had a crush on me too. He was always looking at me if I happened to look his way. I would have loved to let him know how I felt. Maybe we would be together now.
But two things I wouldn't change are my kids. So then I guess I would have to say no.
2006-10-01 22:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of things I would have done differently. And maybe if I had hooked up with my husband when I first had the chance we wouldn't be having the troubles we are having now.
2006-10-01 22:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if another partner will make that much diferece. we all are in a certian catagory ,i mean my next partner inst going to be a whole hotter than the one i have now. i have a lousy job and i look average so its all about additude and how hard you try with the one your with ,of course there are exception to every rule.
2006-10-01 22:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by dpjrocheleau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could do everything again I would absolutely choose my husband again. I have been married 10.5 years and I would choose him all over again. We aren't always this lucky. I would do some things over again, but not my choice in a husband.
2006-10-01 22:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were to do it again, I would choose to be with the same person I'm with right now as he is everything the rest aren't. Above all else, he's my best friend.
2006-10-01 22:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would change a lot of things, but I would have married the one girl that I let get away.
2006-10-01 22:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋