Marriage & Divorce - 3 September 2006

I have been married now for 8 years and I am now 29 years old. I love my husband but I just don't know if I should continue staying married to him. We have a home, 1 son, and I am pregnant with another. I really don't have a education. What I mean no degree. My husband I the one that really makes all the income. I just recently found out that my husband is addicted to porn and masturbates at least once or every other day. He has told me this and I really don't know if I can handle this. He say that he will try to get help, but some people say if they been this way they will never change. Now I new since we been married that he looked at porn every now and then. And we would get into arguement alot, but I didn't know he was as addict. I am a very attractive lady and I love having sex and pleasing my husband. I always keep myself up to look nice for him. But now I don't know if we should work this out or should I end this. Because what else could he be doing that I don't know of yet.

2006-09-03 06:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by Rochell R 1

i have been with her for 9 years
i believe her to be my soul mate
i know her verry well she told me she burried her feelings for me
i see her desires for me
too many problems to explain
apart from being emotional how do i get over that and return to myself show her i am the real deal

2006-09-03 06:51:32 · 14 answers · asked by kevin g 1

2006-09-03 06:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by mehboob_alam_uk 1

2006-09-03 06:47:19 · 31 answers · asked by hotrdcars9 1

If you and this person broke up several times, tried to work it out, and each time you tried the person was unfaithful, is it worth ? Given the situation, you might forgive the person, but your love is not the same, can you live your life secretly unfulfilled for the sake of your kids?

2006-09-03 06:41:34 · 37 answers · asked by mimi 1

At this very moment?

2006-09-03 06:21:04 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

A friend of mine separated recently and now when I see him he looks much healthier, having lost weight and being more active. A cousin of mine also broke up with her husband recently, when I saw her I could hardly recognize her, she was much better looking (last time I saw her with her husband whe was pale, out-of-shape, and badly dressed).
Do people generally lose weight and get in better shape after divorce/separation, and what does this say about the state their marriage had been in?

2006-09-03 06:16:22 · 19 answers · asked by pantocool 1

what do I do?

2006-09-03 06:16:10 · 14 answers · asked by pebs 4

Hi I am a 23 year old female, married and been dating my husband since we were teenagers. I love my husband, there is no question of that in my head. Then though I have this guy friend, we met when we were 13 and were close for a few months only, we then drifted apart since he lives 14 hours away and didnt have contact again till 6 months ago. He found my email online and we started talking. I am enthralled in him. He is amazing inside and out though I have only seen him that once when we were 13. I find myself having him on my mind and wanting to drop other things to talk to him. I know how he feels about me, he would drop his life to move here by me and be with me but I always tell him I am happily married. I am confused why am i thinking like this about another man whom i dont really know, should i meet him, should i continue to talk to him. My husband knows we talk and is ok with it. I am lost right now. Serious answers only please.

2006-09-03 06:15:55 · 6 answers · asked by war 1

i just wanna know..:( he didnt tell me that he had sex, its just that he couldnt seem to answer me straight up. he said no, but i told him do you swear on your own sons grave that you didnt? (and i NEVER ever have said that or used that before) and he said his personal life isnt my business. which is right, but the fact of the matter is he didnt answer that one.

2006-09-03 06:12:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

my name is Amol Walia. born on 19 nov 1992.

2006-09-03 06:05:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

....in the same house pending the sale of the home? After the decision is made to separate?

2006-09-03 06:01:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He does have viagra but is not even interested in taking it, claiming he is hurting to bad to have sex.

2006-09-03 05:51:19 · 4 answers · asked by Fed_up 1

What does it mean if a married man after kissing and making out with another married woman who they are common friends with as well, but the kiss and make out happened 2 years ago, then they met few times in public parties and confessed they still really like each other but cannot do any more kissing or seeing or forget sex for that matter! But when they do meet in public, they do stare in each other eyes, infact the man has a habit of observing this married woman what she says, her actions, and he loves to just look at her. i was a witness to this 3 weeks ago when the married man came down for business trip and arranged a dinner gathering with many friends, includeing the woman and her husband. they all met. at this place the woman came dressed up in a sleeveless white shirt with a camise underneath. ofcourse the married man and the woman talked a few times through some staring and soft smiling, then when it was time to go and she was facing in front of the married man, the man

2006-09-03 05:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by toralm1 1

2006-09-03 05:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your partner never had any protective instincts i.e when you're out at night with a group walking through a street, he would walk 20 steps ahead. Gets into a club, restaurant, bar - walks through without giving a damn where you are, unless another male pays you attention. Generally puts himself in front first. Would you feel uncared for?
He will always apologise if somebody picked him up on his ways, but he hasn't got that protective instinct with me, that most other males seem to have with their partners. Is this quite common?

2006-09-03 05:26:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-03 05:25:16 · 23 answers · asked by kevin g 1

my stepmom is a miserable person and i dont want her at my wedding, she would surely ruin it by pulling her usual crap (she likes to tell people my dad beats her, she likes to "commit suicide" although, she never goes through with it, she's a total dramaqueen and NO ONE likes her)
my dad will be paying for my wedding, i just dont want her to come, which i think is fine, since it is my day

(i'm not getting married soon, just want to know)

2006-09-03 05:19:35 · 28 answers · asked by Astrid Beau Bega Belda Calixte 2

Why would a married man have to spend all his time at a topless bar when he justs gets home from working out a town.Thts his first marriage,Then on the second marriage the net available spends all the night hours on porn???????????????/

2006-09-03 05:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by jessy 3

Access, as in you are able to read all the messages and contacts each of you have in your cellphones.

2006-09-03 05:06:58 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

we owe too much money cant go on any longer, house is up for sale but i have chance to rent dont want to miss out .this is my wife and i we are also parting

2006-09-03 05:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by Andrew H 1

Do you ever want to get married and just so that you can wake up to someone and work on sharing a life?

2006-09-03 05:02:36 · 17 answers · asked by Bobbi 2

I have been living with my boyfriend for 10 months, I believe he misled me to believe that he was just as amorous as I am, once I moved in he stopped wanting to have sex, claiming his illness as the reason. I did know that he was not well, but before I moved in there was no problem with sex, now we have sex maybe once or twice a month. I'm really sick of it. Would it be wrong of me to leave the man if indeed its due to illness, it makes me feel selfish for even thinking of leaving him, yes I do love him but I have needs that aren't being met, all I do is cook and clean, what ticks me off is that I told him that I didn't want to move in with anybody, that I wanted my own space but he promised things would be great between us and now all I do is cook and clean and work and go to school and provide him with a human teddy bear when sleeping. He's 57 and I'm 49yrs old. Please be gentle I'm feeling a bit emotional over this whole thing. Thanks everybody

2006-09-03 04:58:25 · 17 answers · asked by Fed_up 1

We are very much in love and we are planning to get married in one year and a half. We've been knowing each other for few months and want to get to know each other more before we take any action. But from what I get, traditions are very strong in India, and if I want to be his wife, I have to be ready to lead a house wife role. Does it have to be like that, b/c with my western education it may be kind of hard... I don't want to disapoint him, so I prefer to make sure. Plus, I'm christain and he's Hindu, will that work? Please help me, especially if you have some experience (married indian couple, inter-religious marriage, etc.)! Thanx.

2006-09-03 04:55:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

IF YOU ARE ( 50 AGES) A GOOD DAD,DIVORCED A FEW YEARS AGO, NOW YOU WANT TO BE WITH A NEW WOMAN(25 AGES), WHO SO YOUNGER THAN YOU. THEREFORE YOUR DAUGHTER (17 AGES,LIVING WITH HER MOM) DONT LIKE. SHE TRIES TO STOP THIS AND WANTS YOU GET BACK TO HER MOM. BUT THAT LOVE GONE...YOU AND YOUR WIFE DONT LOVE TOGETHER ANY MORE. NOW YOU WANT TO HAVE THIS WOMAN FOR YOUR LIFE,THAT IS TRUE LOVE AND SO DEEP THAT MAYBE NOONES CAN BELIVE IT POSSIBLE. AND THIS WOMAN ALSO LOVE YOU TRUE. SO, THEN HOW WILL YOU HAVE TO DO?

P.S: I'M A YOUNG WOMAN ON THIS STORY. HIS ROSE IS RIGHT ON THE PART OF DAUGHTER BUT WE NEED EACH OTHER ALSO. I'D LIKE TO SHOW HER HOW I TREAT GOOD TO HER DAD THEN I BE HIS WIFE ALREADY. BUT NOW I NEED A CHANCE TO DO THAT. REALLY WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS HOW I SHOULD DO TO GET HIM?

2006-09-03 04:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by XXX 1

2006-09-03 04:42:16 · 17 answers · asked by shameer 1

I have a lot of cooking spices and I need a big rack to keep them on. Any suggestions where to get decent sized spice racks?

2006-09-03 04:41:11 · 12 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-09-03 04:33:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has told me that she is in love with this other man, not only that this is her best friends soon to be husband.. her husband is 15 years older and takes care of her and is a very good father so why would she want to hurt the people that love her the most?

2006-09-03 04:33:41 · 15 answers · asked by squishie 1

Is it possible to really not want what you have been fighting for. We both want to make it work but we both feel like we are just going through the motions. Do we just divorce? Our lifestyles will drastically change. Do we suck it up and stay for the kids? ( 2 girls 3,6)

2006-09-03 04:32:44 · 11 answers · asked by lookingforanswers 2