what do I do?
2006-09-03 06:16:10 · 14 answers · asked by pebs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how you feel im in my 40s and all the men I meet seem to be married and looking for an affair it would be nice to have a proper relationship. Ive tried clubs, pubs and work no luck yet.
2006-09-03 09:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by jean m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you follow the advice of those who have written already, you will remain single. So try this: If you are heavy, loose it. If you don't have a drop dead killer smile, go to the best cosmetic dentist in your area. (Yup, it will cost you some buckos). Have your hair style redone by a top beautician. Get some help with your make-up, and buy some great looking clothes. Have some great photos taken, and if your personality needs an adjustment, get some help with that too. In other words, do yourself a make-over. Put up a great profile on Yahoo Personals, Match.com, e_Harmony etc. No one will ever know what is in the book if the cover is shabby. Use common sense when meeting men. There are lots of guys out there, trust me, who are looking for a great lady
2006-09-03 07:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone ive been divorced 2 years and totally single since then,ive joined dating agencies been on dates but the men are just after one thing and if your not prepared to give it within the first few hours of meeting you wont get a second date.Im 39 and to be honest i believe i really will never meet anyone else.
2006-09-03 06:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by nice? Where are you looking? There are many generally nice men out there BUT I see many people looking in the wrong places for themselves. Do you only look online? Do you get out in other situations or organizations? Tried speed dating? Are you open enough to just ask anyone to sit and talk?
2006-09-03 06:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start living life for yourself -- and stop worrying about men. There are many, many jerks out there. Be patient -- if it is meant to be, then you will meet a nice guy. But ... also look at the places you are going too -- if it is bars -- do you actually think "nice" guys go to bars? NO!
2006-09-03 06:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not make it a conscious effort to find a "nice man". Acknowledge in your mind that nice men exist and just go about your business. You will meet one more easily when you are not "looking" for one. You will not find one in a bar. Forget the internet. Good places to find one are church, laundromat, grocery store, flea market, minor or major league baseball game, high school basketball game, and at a run (running event).
2006-09-03 06:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by orfinlimer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out there and look at the places that you like to go or would like to be taken to. These are the places to meet the men that you think are nice.
2006-09-03 06:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. I'd just get out doing what you like to do. At least then you'll meet someone with similar interests. If not, you'll have had a good time. Good luck :)
2006-09-03 06:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by nppvk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not many of us nice men left
2006-09-03 06:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by angelo26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put up your real pic and ask that same questions. your getting hit on by a bunch of cartoons.
2006-09-03 06:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋