Access, as in you are able to read all the messages and contacts each of you have in your cellphones.
2006-09-03 05:06:58 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We do. We even have each others email passwords, bank account info, etc. When you get married you are supposed to be a unit. I feel like if you cannot share these simple little things with your spouse then why bother being married. I am not saying this is necessary but if i wanted to check on him which has happened few times I am happy I have access to his voicemail, cell phone, email, bank accounts, etc. Trust is important and if i were not able to do this I would feel like he is hiding something from me. But hey every relationship is different.
2006-09-03 05:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by akiras mommy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is a fine line between trust, openness, and privacy. where does privacy start and where does it not. some things are obvious and some are not. can he listen in on your phone calls? can he watch you wipe your ***? can he answer every question that is directed towards you, can he give the answer you would? do you have to know where the person is every minute of the day? can you just have alone time without having to invade his space, even though you are in the same room?
these are undefined issues you need to resolve in a one on one conversation. you both need to be open to explain to each other why the need for privacy and why the need for openness. is it insecurity or is it jealousy, do they need to keep secrets? talk to your partner not us.
2006-09-03 05:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do. We do this because we have nothing to hide and not only that in case of an emergency or something they can access last call, etc. You never know. If you don't allow your spouse to access these things it makes them feel like you are hiding something and/or not being true to them. It allows insecurity to step in and sometimes stuff much more worst.
2006-09-03 05:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by DeZigns By Monique 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. We leave our phones lying around the house and switch off occasionally if one battery is dead etc. He and I know each other's passwords. I even know the password for his company phone since he sometimes asks me to call in for his messages when we are traveling. We have no secrets from each other - so why not?
2006-09-03 05:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have access to my wife's computer, but its necessary as she is still learning how to use it. There is no reason to suspect her of anything, its just that I need to have access to show her what to do. Once she knows what she is doing, she can change her passwords, etc., and I won't worry about it, but she'd probably provide me with her passwords anyway in the event of a problem. We're a bit behind on the cell phones - we don't have any yet! She doesn't use my computer, but if she wants to take a look she is welcome to it.
2006-09-03 05:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by Paul H 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah she has access to all my stuff, i hear people talking all that privacy stuff. it's not about that with ur spouse, it's about sharing and communication. if i can give & trust my spouse with access to my money which is now ours, don't see what's wrong with email and cellphones. i even gave her my work voice mail password.
2006-09-03 05:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We sure do and we also have access to each other's email and other accounts. Nothing to hide here.
2006-09-03 05:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, when you are married both people should be open books. Someone would only have a problem with this if they had something to hide.
2006-09-03 05:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by NickyO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am very sure reading this question will make everybody smile. Many will say they do, but it is done under their supervision in general. That is, before giving the mobile to your partner, you will clear all things that should not be known to him/her!
2006-09-03 05:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally we keep our phones on us while we're apart, but when we're home we use the same charger and tend to leave our phones lying around, and sometimes use one another's phones to make calls.
It all boils down to a matter of trust ~ we trust one another 100% when it comes to the sanctity of our relationship and have no reason to feel otherwise.
(She doesn't trust me much when it comes to cooking because I love hot sauce & seafood while she loathes the stuff, but that's another issue entirely...)
2006-09-03 05:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋