What does it mean if a married man after kissing and making out with another married woman who they are common friends with as well, but the kiss and make out happened 2 years ago, then they met few times in public parties and confessed they still really like each other but cannot do any more kissing or seeing or forget sex for that matter! But when they do meet in public, they do stare in each other eyes, infact the man has a habit of observing this married woman what she says, her actions, and he loves to just look at her. i was a witness to this 3 weeks ago when the married man came down for business trip and arranged a dinner gathering with many friends, includeing the woman and her husband. they all met. at this place the woman came dressed up in a sleeveless white shirt with a camise underneath. ofcourse the married man and the woman talked a few times through some staring and soft smiling, then when it was time to go and she was facing in front of the married man, the man
2006-09-03 05:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he looked at her eyes and face, then he gaxed down her shirt and looked her down and then back up to her face. she just looked at him and then tried to act busy talking to others. then she stared in his eyes and him in hers. this is my brother who is married and why is it that even after 3 years, he still stares in her eyes, observes her, and still finds a few tiems to flirt here and there? I have been told by my sis in law that the woman writes him emails and he replies back to all of them, he just never initiates them. well then does he still like her, have attraction towards her if he stares at her...looks in her eyes? why a man will do that?
2006-09-03 05:42:03 · update #1
Well are you close to the man or women or either spouse, if not then it isn't your problem, but if you are friends with one of them then go to the "cheater" and let them know that you know and that they will need to stop it, give them time to end it and if not let the other spouse know.
2006-09-03 05:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he may well be in love with this woman, usually when people who are attracted to each other to that extent will look into each other's eyes like that. I think what 'canyon' said was right. I think they both want more and pehaps are having an affair, or they are not but want more. They are obviously lusting for each other as well! Who knows they may both get a divorce and marry each other, who knows what the future holds. However this seems to catch your attention quite a bit, but they are both adults let them be, or perhaps you are the other woman that's what you want to know whether this man still loves you or not? Well i think he certainly is in love with this woman.
2006-09-03 07:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's attraction in a sexual nature. It's forbidden and that is why it is all the more stronger than norm. I'm not saying it is right, just what is happening. Maybe they are not aware that it is so obvious to others. I'd tell him to end it, stop any and all correspondence with this woman but chances are he'll deny any attraction other than an old friendship, or he could very well tell you to mind your own business. If you mention it to him at least he will know others are aware of the attraction and he may end this on his own.
2006-09-03 06:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toralm,sorry but its not your business,you should leave it to be honest.You seem to know a lot more than you should,seem to be a lot more "observant" in a lot of details than you really need to be,why is this-have you got issues going on far beyond what you are telling us?Well,no matter,if they want to cheat,they will,you aren't around to stop them-just get on with your own life,your life is for you-not their life,that is for them-no matter how hurt you are at seeing all this going on-best just leave well enough alone.
2006-09-03 06:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is obvious that he wants something further with this woman...Who knows? Maybe something is going on that you don't know about...It seems that married men usually want something that is totally unattainable to them. Perhaps that is part of the charm why your brother acts the way he does with this woman.
2006-09-03 06:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men like a challenge its the thrill of getting cought thats fun. either that or its lust and thats it. think about it, he invitied the other man too. acting like nothings happening to this other man face,
2006-09-03 06:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by waysexy26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is clear, that the man is still loving that woman.
2006-09-03 05:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there is a deeper attraction there between them. sometimes the chemistry is just right. it could be because nothing else did happen. sometimes when it does the imaginantion is lost
2006-09-03 06:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, my. He is IN LOVE soooo deep!!!! She is in LOVE sooo deep!!! He looks at her to try to remember what she tastes like and how her lips feel on his skin. They look into each others eye because they see love and life there. They see their life in each others eyes. They long to be together. they miss each other.
What they have will GO ON FOREVER !!!
2006-09-03 05:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lust is a normal thing. They messed up once, and they're smart enough not to do it again.
2006-09-03 17:34:41 · answer #10 · answered by david w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋