IF YOU ARE ( 50 AGES) A GOOD DAD,DIVORCED A FEW YEARS AGO, NOW YOU WANT TO BE WITH A NEW WOMAN(25 AGES), WHO SO YOUNGER THAN YOU. THEREFORE YOUR DAUGHTER (17 AGES,LIVING WITH HER MOM) DONT LIKE. SHE TRIES TO STOP THIS AND WANTS YOU GET BACK TO HER MOM. BUT THAT LOVE GONE...YOU AND YOUR WIFE DONT LOVE TOGETHER ANY MORE. NOW YOU WANT TO HAVE THIS WOMAN FOR YOUR LIFE,THAT IS TRUE LOVE AND SO DEEP THAT MAYBE NOONES CAN BELIVE IT POSSIBLE. AND THIS WOMAN ALSO LOVE YOU TRUE. SO, THEN HOW WILL YOU HAVE TO DO?
P.S: I'M A YOUNG WOMAN ON THIS STORY. HIS ROSE IS RIGHT ON THE PART OF DAUGHTER BUT WE NEED EACH OTHER ALSO. I'D LIKE TO SHOW HER HOW I TREAT GOOD TO HER DAD THEN I BE HIS WIFE ALREADY. BUT NOW I NEED A CHANCE TO DO THAT. REALLY WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS HOW I SHOULD DO TO GET HIM?
2006-09-03 04:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by XXX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off don't try to become her mom but a good friend that she can confide in if she wants to. Don't try and push the situation and let her know you aren't trying to replace her mom but are in love with her dad and that he loves you. She is already 17 and wont be in the house alot longer so that will make things easier in the long run. You both just have to be patient and if he decides to stay alone for the rest of his life because his daughter wants that then she is being a bit selfish but there is no reason for you to suffer to so you might want to continue your search. Your a beautiful woman and probably can get any guy. But he has to realize it is hard on you to in this situation and he needs to do his part to try and make it work. He doesn't have to choose between you and his daughter he just has to try and make it work. I hope the best for you three.
2006-09-03 04:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every child of divorced parents have the ultimate dream that their parents will get back together. This young girl sees you as a threat to that "dream." For now, there is nothing you can do except set an example of love & caring for her father. Her father should also not let his young daughter treat you like crap either. He needs to be the one to tell her that he & her mother are NOT getting back together. He needs to reinforce to his daughter that she is loved by him, but that he loves you too. Her problem with you is that you are killing her "dream" & you're only a few years older than her. Age has no bearing to me. Love is love at any age. You hang in there. If it is meant to be, it will be. She will come around in time, if she sees that her dad is truly happy. It may not happen overnight(these things take time),but eventually, things will work out. Don't listen to anyone giving you crap about the age difference. I'm with a guy who is 10 years older than I am & my best friend is with a guy 20 years older. Who cares about age? For all of you "these guys must have money", we have & make as much as they do. I make more than my guy by a couple thou. So it's not the money! Good luck, honey!
2006-09-03 11:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad is 54 and dates a girl 22 and I am 29. As the daughter, I realized that number one that this girl was not trying to be my mother, just a friend , and my dad's girlfriend (wife whatever). Until his daughters get this through their heads you will always have this struggle. Just try to be friendly and be their friend. Either they will come around and accept this or just shut them out. The daughter is turning into a woman and needs to grow up.
2006-09-03 11:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, let you Dad live his life. If this woman makes him happy doesn't he deserve that? he and your Mom will never get back together. My daughter tried this wih me and I remarried and lived 20 years with herand I was very happy until she ws killed in a car accident.
2006-09-03 11:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're the 25 y/o woman, you already HAVE him. He loves you, you love him. What his daughter thinks is irrelevent - she'll get older and make her own choices in her own life. Once she reaches that point, she should be more understanding.
If you're the daughter, get over it. You can't run your parents lives.
2006-09-03 11:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so lost in your incomplete sentences that I'm not sure what the hell your talking about or even asking.
2006-09-03 12:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do us all a favor and proof read your question before posting it. use spell check too.
2006-09-03 11:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you retarded ? your not making sence
2006-09-03 13:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋