i just wanna know..:( he didnt tell me that he had sex, its just that he couldnt seem to answer me straight up. he said no, but i told him do you swear on your own sons grave that you didnt? (and i NEVER ever have said that or used that before) and he said his personal life isnt my business. which is right, but the fact of the matter is he didnt answer that one.
2006-09-03 06:12:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You answered your own question my dear.
You asked him and he told you that his personal life is none of your business.
If yall are a couple, in a committed relationship then his personal life IS your business.
If you are having intimate relations with this guy then who he is having sex with IS your business.
This guy needs to be dumped and quickly. Then I would take my little butt down and get tested for STD"s and/or Aids right away.
And do not let him sweet talk his way back into your pants again. Don't believe his BS any more.
He made is decision and what he wants very clear when he told you that his personal life is none of your business.
And I just wish more people would take Judge Mabaline's (divorce court) advice, this woman got it right when she said LOOK DEEP BEFORE YOU LEAP.
2006-09-08 16:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Him hesitating to answer your question should hint you that he definitely cheated before. You don't want be with someone you cannot trust and especially with someone who doesn't love you. From how you describe his actions, it doesn't seem that he is all that into you. If both of you are together why would he say that it isn't your business? Wrong! It is your business. Better start looking for other men.
2006-09-03 06:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by VivianKnows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you say, seems to me,that he really cheating you (I know,I am a man).But is up to you if you want to forgive him.The problem here is:when he say:is not,your business;that tell you very clear that he will cheat you, any time he want,and you can not do nothing about it.Observe,watch him very close and you will discover more about it.Try as possible you can to fix the problem.If nothing change(his behaviour),is over,because you do not deserve to live with a cheater.Good luck.
2006-09-03 06:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he responded his personal life isn't your business, you should of told him he's your man and you're making it your business, now answer the question. If he has had sex with other women while being with me, he's history and I would forgive him but that's as far as it goes.
2006-09-03 06:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. A man can change you cannot change him. But you wont listen eventually he will make the decision for you when he meets the person he feels right for him. you be left holding whats left of your life. he will return with I am sorry the pattern goes full circle. Keep you eyes open you never know when lightning will strike for you until then use him.
2006-09-03 06:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by froggerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a doormat with no self respect, I'd forgive him and believe every single word he says. Also, if you want to raise a boy who will have the same crappy behavior, stand by your "man."
2006-09-09 04:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have prove before you can accuse him. Just going by his body actions dosen't prove a thing. You need to set the trap. If it does come to light that he has cheated then you need to let that loser go. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-09-03 06:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm...your in a relationship with this man, and his personal life, in which he's engaging in sexual relations with other women, and exposing you to God only know's what, is NONE of your business....? I'd rethink all of that.
And No...to answer the original question. I would not, forgive him for it.
2006-09-03 12:01:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, first off his persnal life is your business! If he is your man and is intimately involved with you-- you have a right to know personal details. Especially if you suspect he is sleeping with other people!!! If I were you I would leave him and go get tested for STD's/HIV/AIDS. Good Luck!
2006-09-03 06:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf told me that he had sex with someone before. but that's before we've met and became lovers. i told him just not to do it again until we're together..
but if i'm in your case, i'd try to talk to him nicely and in a humble way so that he can't resist to answer wat he actually did before or actually doing until now.. if he said that he's doing it even now, then ask him why. why is he still doing it even if your already together.. and if i wer u, i'll let him go if that's the case.
2006-09-09 00:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by asker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋