Marriage & Divorce - 31 August 2006

2006-08-31 16:56:57 · 10 answers · asked by SemperLeader 2

I have left my husband several times due to the fact that he is verbally abusive to me and he doesn't take care of us(me and 3 kids) financially.He isolates me and won't let me improve myself in college or provide me with transportation to get a job so that I can have my own money.He owns his own business and does quite well but wont buy me a stove,a washer or dryer,a car,make up ,clothes,and denies me freinds. I never get to go anywhere execpt to the store to go grociery shopping and this I have to fight for. I take as much as I can and then i will kick him out or leave him. I struggle on my own but at least I have a lot more than he has ever given me and so do the kids.When I am away from him I get my own car and home,Job, or college,ect.Then he comes begging me back get a nice home for us makes all kinds of promises but it never lasts.He never puts up a fuss when I leave him and I can tell that he doesnt love me.I dont think that he ever has.But why does he always do this to me?

2006-08-31 16:53:04 · 28 answers · asked by poobear 3

iam only 22 and my bf is 21 we've been together for 6 years and have 1 child I've often thought about settling down and so has he but we end up just letting it go what do you think?

2006-08-31 16:53:01 · 9 answers · asked by whitetigereyes8485 2

Would you rather be 100% in love with the person you are with OR have them be 100% in love with you?

2006-08-31 16:50:40 · 13 answers · asked by TheTotalStud_StudTotal 4

My husband has a drinking problem that he attempts to control by not drinking. However, he does occasionally have a drink at the house. Then he becomes very rude and snappy with the kids and myself.

I enjoy having a drink sometimes and would like to feel like I can do it in my home without my husband turning into "the mean guy" every time I pop a cork.

Is there any way to work this out with out going completely dry myself?

2006-08-31 16:34:19 · 43 answers · asked by soblue2day 1

2006-08-31 16:28:00 · 26 answers · asked by the_wire_monkey 2

I have a severe insecurity complex in my marriage. I have been married 10 years and just started to be insecure. I have no reason to be like this. When my hubby goes out after work with the guys, I paint an ugly picture in my head of things he could be doing behind my back. He's never cheated on me, I know he loves me. He dont go out too much. But when he does, I carry on like he's leaving me. Its gotten quite bad and serious and I can't explain why I started to think like this. I think I may even need marriage counseling for myself. I think some of it may be that I resent the fact that he has a social life and I am at home all the time. He never tells me I cant join him, I am always invited, but I go with him, and its just the guys and I am bored to death, so I often choose to stay home. Does anyone have any advice as to why this sudden insecurity has happened to me and ways I can get over it?

2006-08-31 16:25:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for about 6 months to a man, I knew very little about when we got married. Things were bad, so one day I just packed my stuff and took off. That was several years ago. I heard last week that his life went down hill really badly after I left. And he wants to hear from me. He belives my leaving ruined his life. I have been happily re-married for over 5 years. And I don't want to put my marriage in jeperody. Would you contact him? I know I did not ruin his life. But I would like to find out why he believes this.
Thank You

2006-08-31 16:19:10 · 37 answers · asked by Cristina A 2

I am married and my wife prefers to stay at the house and only eat at the same restaurants. I always want to do things, but she says we have too much to do. I have a friend at work that I have recently became closer with. She is married too. She likes to go to the same restaurants as me and try new places. My friend and I both work in the evenings a lot, so our days are free. My wife is always telling me to do stuff with my friends. I want to tell/ask her that I want to go to lunch with my friend, but I am not sure how she will take it. I know she eats dinner with people from her work, when I am at work, but I know she will say that its different. When I have asked her how in the past she would say "I know what I am going to do..." Also, I don't think I should have to ask her permision. What should I do?

2006-08-31 16:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

When people say sb is a smooth talker/ sweet talker usually that means the person says more than the action, just wondering any this kind of marriage will last? or the smooth talker will change to action taker after the marriage. Please share your good/bad experiences.

2006-08-31 15:59:19 · 16 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2

Your spouse or significant other has ever done for you?

2006-08-31 15:55:16 · 2 answers · asked by sleeplessinsc 1

my parents are going through a divorce right now, and no one has told me what my rights are! so if you could help me out, thanks

2006-08-31 15:36:04 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley T. 2

Do you ever feel that due to things like your spouses job, you feel like your alone in your marriage and raising your famliy? Even when the spouse is home they have their own agenda and it dosen't seem to mesh with yours. Does anyone else feel this way?

2006-08-31 15:32:20 · 30 answers · asked by Yvonne D 3

My wife always wants to make love after work.... I work a hard job and I have no feelings after work ........I'm a early morning lover.....and she wants it in the evening
and i refuse until 6 a.m the next morning......any help ?

2006-08-31 15:25:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-31 15:24:56 · 67 answers · asked by puresatin 5

What if my husband goes back to court to have child support refigured because he has made $10,000 less per year, every year since their divorce three years ago. We have always paid the support on time even though it breaks us financially every month. we have kept searching and hoping he would find a job that would make the child support more feasible. His ex is the type that would try and retaliate by telling the courts she only wants him see to his son every other weekend. This will devastate him and even though we cant afford the support we pay now he doesnt want to contest it because he is used to being with his son 3 to 4 days a week. Can she really do that to him even though he has never done anything wrong except for be a good father and provide the best he can for his son?

2006-08-31 15:15:30 · 11 answers · asked by cali13 2

Was wondering if you ever loved someone but it went to waste? and did you regret loving that person? I heard a song today that mentioned love being a waste and it's sad.. because so often it's true.

"When you love someone but it goes to waste" from the song Fix You by Coldplay

2006-08-31 15:12:56 · 18 answers · asked by Tah Dah 3

2006-08-31 15:11:53 · 2 answers · asked by puresatin03 2

1900's either Oklahoma or Kansas their last names were Salazar and Olage

2006-08-31 15:07:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i admit i have done it with my husband mainly for him but sometomes i enjoy it.i just wanted to know other womens opion on it. do you enjoy it or hate it?how can do it doesnt hurt so bad all the time??for thoses who do enjoy it,how do you do it do it doesnt hurt

2006-08-31 14:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-31 14:47:52 · 5 answers · asked by beegones2012 1

My husband has a four year old son and he has been paying $400 a month for three years (since the time of the divorce). His income has went down substancially since then and we have never done anything about adjusting the support. We have his boy 2 days during the week and every single weekend. We have recently run into a very upsetting situation becuse the boys mom has started sending him to a preschool of her choice and says if we dont pay half then she will take us to court so we will get the ohio standard visitation which is only every other weekend. We want the best for the boy but really cant afford it.. and on top of that she is already getting a low income single parent discount and the school is only 150 a month for 3 whole days a week. Should we just give into her and pay or do we get the support adjusted so that she can see first hand that we are doing are very best to provide for his son. Please help do so that he can still be with his son and things be fair for everyone

2006-08-31 14:45:25 · 31 answers · asked by cali13 2

Did you guys think Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt were the cutest couple?? man stupid Jolie had to break it up!! UGH.....it sucks! they were the perfect couple!

2006-08-31 14:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Cecy 2

2006-08-31 14:36:04 · 20 answers · asked by I love sushi 4

2006-08-31 14:35:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am happily married, mother of 4 children. Our sex life is intense and so incredible. I love knowing that men are watching me, excites me to know they are attracted to me. I have never cheated on my husband.... Just love the thought of another man desiring me. Would love to have husband and another guy...he says< "no way" and laughs at the idea. :) Thanks!

2006-08-31 14:35:06 · 18 answers · asked by beth 3

I'm 26, my wife is 25, we'll be married for 2 years in Oct. We share the same group of friends (all couples) except for some of my old high school friends I still hang out w/ (She hangs out with them occasionally also). ANYWAYS I get off work at 10:30pm and every thursday they go out until about 1 or 2. I tell her I'm going to meet them out at the local BAR AND GRILL (NOT A CLUB) for some beers, and EVERY TIME she gets a big attitude. Her defense is "Is it wrong for me to want my husband to be home with me".....Am I in the wrong? It drives me crazy every time. I have given her no reason to have an attitude. (I also invite her everytime, but she has to wake up early)

2006-08-31 14:32:47 · 16 answers · asked by mase3600 1

My ex husband is encouraging our 3 1/2 yr old daughter to call his newest girlfriend "mama" and this is making me furious. what can i do? He takes her to her house every time he has our daughter. He lost another job and when i asked him if he had gotten one, he just smiles (no). But he can afford his booze (alcoholic)..one huge reason i divorced him.. Lawyer says i have to catch him doing something "really bad". He doesn't answer any calls. he really doesn't care about our daughter, he is just using her against me as much as he can get away with. and no, for the record, i have no boyfriend since before i married the guy almost 6 yrs ago (divorced in feb 2006), because he makes me so furious that i can't stand the thought of another relationship ever! i am 45 he is 48, of course his gf is younger, i expected that, i just hate for him to use our daughter like that. my family has to stop me from going over to his place and confront him. And he loves the fact that i am struggling $ wise.

2006-08-31 14:31:00 · 5 answers · asked by nowisthetime 2

I have custody of the kids. He hasn't seen them in 18 months plus.

2006-08-31 14:29:01 · 7 answers · asked by paulaerin 1

2006-08-31 14:27:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous