i admit i have done it with my husband mainly for him but sometomes i enjoy it.i just wanted to know other womens opion on it. do you enjoy it or hate it?how can do it doesnt hurt so bad all the time??for thoses who do enjoy it,how do you do it do it doesnt hurt
2006-08-31 14:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have tried it, mainly to give my husband what he wants but it hurts like hell and he knows it so he doesn't ask for it very often. I know that having alcohol before it lessens the pain but the KY is a better alternative.
2006-08-31 15:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, like it.. it is an alternative to doing it during your monthly.
There are ways to make it not hurt as much. NUMBER ONE "DEAL": you MUST rule the action! When you say go, stop, slowly, wait a few minutes... all must be obeyed! Next, start with a thin butt*plug. It will loosen/relax you a lot. The sphinter muscle is INvolentary so that's where the pain is. That's why you must be in control. It's not like normal sex for you. YOU must be able to control it. That's why everyone elses answer is that they tolerate the pain. Once you safely get passed that muscle w/o pain (anymore).. it's just like having sex.. can go as fast as he wants. Oh, and the more lube the better, and do not do in dark (don't want to create problems with holes, do it in dim light but not dark). Can't think of anything else. If he doesn't like it b/c he's loosing his rod... or it's too slow.. tell him that it's your new way or nothing. HE doesn't feel your pain. Best of luck.
2006-08-31 15:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Valeria 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some women enjoy it some don't. I enjoyed it with my ex husband. Now i don't like it with my new husband "thou he still tries"The new hubby is A LOT bigger then the ex hubby it just sucks now we've never successfully went all the way with it lol.
2006-08-31 15:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by mandie_darkness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy it..but don't do it alot because it can be uncomfortable. The best way to get it where it won't hurt so much or barley at all is to use KY. And make sure there is some on both him and you. :)
2006-08-31 15:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've actually started enjoying it recently. We use a lot of lubrication and we start with a condom and fingers. Usually I'm on top, but sometimes he get to be on top and wither way its really great.
2006-08-31 15:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have done it and it hurts like hell some say have a drink to relax first i really dont like it so we dont do it anymore youcan use anal ease to help with the pressure of the pain
2006-08-31 15:17:36 · answer #6 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tried once, hated it.. bled everywhere and couldnt poop without pain for a few days. Sorry,, for me.. its EXIT ONLY.
2006-08-31 15:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do it only for his enjoyment and rarely. I don't find it disgusting or morally wrong, it's just not an errogenous zone for me.
2006-08-31 15:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by puresatin03 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ky and patience on his part. Its all in the approach and I love it every time.
2006-08-31 15:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by ushouldnoidontplay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u do anything do it 4 yourself not 2 please some one else
2006-09-04 14:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋