Marriage & Divorce - 31 August 2006

and what can you do if you marry someone who later loses interest in sex. I'm looking for ways to escape from feeling like I'm just unattractive and unloved. I know that some people might recommend that I meet my wife at the front door wearing something sexy, but I really doubt that I could make that work since I'm a nearly 50 year old man.
I'm making it into a joke so I won't cry, but I really am in need of help.

2006-08-31 06:17:25 · 35 answers · asked by anyone 5

Once you've been there and done that what things are you not going to put up with from the next person would you let your kids meet your date? I personally wouldn't unless I was serious but I know people who introduce their kids to everyone, can't understand that.

2006-08-31 06:15:20 · 18 answers · asked by sasha 4

My wife is wonderful. She works a full time job and helps around the house alot. However, I work full time and go to school full time at night. I try to make her feel loved and appreciated all the time. I will do anything she asks of me. Even if it is bringing her dinner at her work after I have worked all day and gone to school or whatever. Most of my days are 14-15 hours away from home (minimum), plus homework. She only works a max of 35 hours per week. I love a clean house and she has a hard time getting motivated to clean and then she bats her eyes and tells me how much she loves me so I will not get upset. But sometimes I still do. I understand she works and we have talked and she knows how I feel, but sometimes she still does not "need" it as clean as I do and does not want to work on getting it clean. What can I do?

2006-08-31 06:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by Lostlover 1

2006-08-31 05:58:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know his name, and that he was assigned to Fort Rucker, AL, performing my marriage in 1986.

2006-08-31 05:53:04 · 9 answers · asked by BowtiePasta 6

On one episode of Friends, Monica said to Chandler (While he was away working) that a new guy at work was the funniest man she ever met. Chandler told her he was flying back home. The other people told Monica that "Being Funny" was Chandler's thing and she can't think of anyone else as being better at Chandler's one thing. What is your one thing?

2006-08-31 05:47:03 · 20 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

I see so many crazy questions on this site. Is it OK to cheat if your partner knows? Is it OK to cheat if you are separated? Is it cheating if it was not penetration? Is it cheating if it is with an ex-boy.girlfriend? Is it OK to have an affair if you are not getting sex? Is it OK to cheat if you do not love your spouse.......

Marriage is a vow to GOD and to each other. We(people) can not change the vow after the fact. We can not change the rules that God has established. We may be OK with some of this stuff but do you really think GOD will be like, "That's cool...they had an agreement". I just don't get it. We all should work it out with our spouse. It is a lifelong committment. In fact, the only way out according to the bible is if one commits adultery. It seems many on this site are giving their spouse that way out.

2006-08-31 05:45:55 · 23 answers · asked by DDOT 2

just out of curiousity... what expression is on your face while having sex.. (your pumping face) ex... biting lip... scrunchin of the nose...

also...when you're hittin from behind.. where are your hands... do you use a rhythm or just straight pumps???

2006-08-31 05:42:08 · 6 answers · asked by tony 2

My wife won't let me back in and I have found a "nice" looking recovered alcoholic,she's an ex-tennis player with a "great body.She has kids and has transitioned her herself out of a full rehab recently. I showed up one nite drunk and she flipped out and said I needed help, prior to that "we" had plans.She has invited me over many times after but only after she made me "pay" be at least 7-10 days.I know she is concerned withmy recovery but shouldn't she be pulling me closer if she likes me?Also she just started a job and she NOW gets to see her kids.My wife won't let me talk to her or my kidand didn't press charges on me but I think she wants to "hurt" me in court for a few things I did ,even though I aways let her back she won't let me. I am going to AA but want "SOMETHING" THERE for me at nite forever and when ever....and ever amen.

2006-08-31 05:39:53 · 16 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2

2006-08-31 05:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Carrie M 1

The thing is, I haven't got the nerve to tell him the truth. I'm afraid he might get mad at me and leave me. But its really bothering me, I know I should have been honest with him in the first place. I know that for relationships to flourish there shouldn't be any secrets between partners. I don't know how he'd react if he finds out. Do you think 4 years is too much? And does age really matter? I really love this guy and we've been talking about getting married in the future. Will the truth affect the relationship and our plans? In our society, is it acceptable nowadays for the girl to be older? Please help!

2006-08-31 05:37:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

how young is too young to be considered for marriage?

2006-08-31 05:36:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend came over and ask me this question i didin't now much but can you guys help me out so i can speak with her. Thanks So Much For the help...

2006-08-31 05:33:49 · 7 answers · asked by SunFlower 2

My wife just made me one and it totally rocks!!!!!!!

2006-08-31 05:32:41 · 14 answers · asked by InternetPosterChild 2

2006-08-31 05:32:40 · 12 answers · asked by isaiah l 1

It seems that anything that bases the custody of children using anything other than which parent is actually the best parent would be considered sexist.

2006-08-31 05:30:06 · 9 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

My spouse filed for divorce in New York in October 2004, we've gotten nowhere. He and his lawyer have played dirty every step of the way. I moved to Texas in February of 2005 and I want to file for divorce here. Is this legal?

2006-08-31 05:25:02 · 7 answers · asked by beemyself1962 1

my boyfreind has hid this pix of him with other females in his car i have been driving his car and happend to put something in the glove box and found a pix of him with these females should i suspect hes cheating hes always saying hes gotta stay late for work but when i call him sometimes he dont answer and hes always at his freinds house should i leave him if i question him hell say its me thats cheating and i know for a fact that its not me please give ur best a nswers and help please

2006-08-31 05:21:10 · 20 answers · asked by idawilson30 1

I have been married 6 years and have 2 children.The other day my husband was really staring down this girl right in front of me and it irritated me and i told him that was disrespectful to me but he continued to do it so i got pretty upset and told him why dosent he take a picture it would last longer.He replied if i had a camera i would and you would never get me out of bathroom id whack to that all night long.That really hurt my feelings.We have been having problems for a while now and i have noticed the only time he is loving with me and wants to touch me is when hes horny and wants some.Yes i have talked with him dosent work.Any suggestions please.

2006-08-31 05:14:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-31 05:14:02 · 29 answers · asked by hot22nic 1

I got a credit card in his name. He is over 30 and never establised credit. He is in Prison now, lay low on the extra comments, and I asked him and he said ok if it will help me get out of financial bind. I'd ofcourse not screw it up like I did mine so many years ago but I'm trying to fix it and I need help. I'd keep up with the payments and wouldn't be easier for us to buy a house if he has established credit and I keep it GOOD and in good standing? Is this a bad idea?

2006-08-31 05:05:23 · 23 answers · asked by sistah2sista 1

2006-08-31 05:02:00 · 21 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1

I had obtained an interim interdict...through the scottish courts.....I have now been granted an exclusion order with the power of arrest. He has 21 days to contest the divorce part...what happens if he does not contest it...how long do i have to wait for a divorce?

2006-08-31 05:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by ~Lez~ 2

I met a nice guy and I let him know I need a friend right now. He still wants to see me and be friends. I need to be honest with him, but is this wrong to see him if I am not yet divirced? Please give only serious answers.

2006-08-31 05:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by jpet 2

How would you deal with someone who routinely ignores you, tunes you out, disregards what's important to you (because it's unimportant to him)?

I'm well-aware that all of us have much too much on on plates (and minds), and I don't expect people to hang onto my every word or deed, but it is so hurtful to me when things I say are clearly tuned out. I stop speaking mid-sentence to see if he's really listening; he has never, ever noticed.

Yes, I've tried many, many times to sensitize him by telling him how hurtful it is to me. He apologizes -- genuinely seems contrite -- but unfailingly repeats the insulting, demeaning behavior.

I'm sick of the I'm-sorries, sick from being ignored, and just don't know what to do.

2006-08-31 04:57:28 · 279 answers · asked by Anonymous

how many men out there earned/want, or are you afraid to get your red wings... wink.. if you have, how was it like for you? bi's/gays are welcome to answer also... no haters haha..

2006-08-31 04:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by tony 2

2006-08-31 04:49:48 · 34 answers · asked by krista112179 1

2006-08-31 04:49:19 · 11 answers · asked by **What??** 4

What would you do: married one year with a 3 month old baby- I have above average looks- slim size 5 36C long haired green eyed- husband rarely has "good" sex with me, yet he is very much into porn... is this normal? how can you tell when your husband is not turned on by you?

2006-08-31 04:46:11 · 26 answers · asked by Brenda 1

2006-08-31 04:42:49 · 18 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1