I met a nice guy and I let him know I need a friend right now. He still wants to see me and be friends. I need to be honest with him, but is this wrong to see him if I am not yet divirced? Please give only serious answers.
2006-08-31 05:00:43 · 18 answers · asked by jpet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FRIENDS ARE ALWAYS GOOD TO HAVE AROUND WHEN YOUR GOING THROUGH TOUGH TIMES, MALE OR FEMALE.
2006-08-31 05:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you living with your husband? I assume, you mean that you're separated, and going through a divorce. If so, the day you become separated is the day it's ok for you to do whatever you wish, including seeing other guys. However, don't be naive - if a guy is interested in dating you, he will not put up with a "just friend" situation for very long. Find a female friend, and date the guy.
2006-08-31 12:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason you cant have a friend.... If he knows you are married and he understands that friendship is as far as you guys can take things fine... However if this is conflicting with your husband then probably not a good idea..... If you and your husband are getting divorced then it really doesnt matter.... you are allowed to be your own person and if it is just a matter of the divorce not being finalized than its not that big of a deal......
2006-08-31 12:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should have friends both male and female. If you are seeing him as a friend there is nothing wrong with it. If you are both wanting to be more than "friends" then you just need to be honest with him. There is nothing wrong with that also. Just because your divorce is not final yet doesn't mean that you shouldn't live. Good luck to you.
2006-08-31 12:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Alaska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can still be friends with him, but just friends. If you know it's getting more serious you should stop seeing him until your divorce is final.
2006-08-31 12:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by sh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can, but only if you are 100% sure you ARE getting a divorce. Everyone needs friends and by no way does it mean that you two will hook up. I say go for it!
2006-08-31 12:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by bluegirl63065 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be friends with him right now . When the divorce is final , you can become more if that's what the two of you want.
2006-08-31 12:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by MaeMae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be friends....but i would stay away from being closer. After a divorce you should take time to yourself. I think a good rule of thump is half the years of marriage to be by yourself....Meaning not in a committed relationship
2006-08-31 12:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bettina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you guys are just friends. I wouldn't let it progress any further until your divorce is final. Be sure and let this guy know you just want a friend and that's all it will be.
2006-08-31 12:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say yes. As long as that is all their is to it. If it is more I would wait until your divorced. That would be the proper thing to do. If it is more let the man no you need to wait.
2006-08-31 12:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by letitbeyou1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok too be friends with him just let him know you are still married and this is your buisness and no one else do what makes you happy
2006-08-31 12:06:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋