Marriage & Divorce - 31 August 2006

2006-08-31 14:22:29 · 16 answers · asked by beegones2012 1

husband thinks that it wasn't a big deal because he said it was a joke. I know the girl, it was someone who he used to work with and she is very trashy anf the kind of girl who wouldn't be joking about something like that. Am I right that having and affair with someone is not something you joke about and is it okay that I want to beat the crap out og her? They no longer work tohether or see each other but occasionally we end up at parties together is okay that I don't want him talking to her and I deleted her number from his phone? And it isn't that I don't trust him I just think he's a little naive and doesn't realize how evil and manipulative girls can be and I don't trust this girl one bit.

2006-08-31 14:18:56 · 6 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2

Go ahead mjpitty and report me again

2006-08-31 14:17:35 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Bestfreind have been married for 10 years i think and have 3 Kids. Last 4 years ago he had an affair and the girl confronted tot he wife hoping that the wife would divorced him and he would married her but it did not turn out that way as i was there witnessing it, He loves her so much that he would not leave her. So, they talk and did not leave each other but their relationship gets better. Recently the wife confronted him about saying that why din she revengeg on what he had did to her before as revenge is sweet. She said in a way that there is a guy is flirting with her and dont mind that she is married too just wanted a non-realtionship as both is married. What would you do from here? Look for the men? Leave her?

2006-08-31 14:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by jack81sg 1

I need help i need to learn to let things go and i dont know how to do it if my wife or anybody does something that i dont agree with it just eats me up inside until i get mad i have to learn to forget things that bother me also i have a jealosy issue my wife spends more time with a guy friend then she does with me i dont see her much with work seperate shifts and this guy works with her he spends every break with her and even comes over to the house about once a week she swears they are just friends i want to believe her but it just keeps racking my mind i need help getting it out of my mind someone help please

2006-08-31 14:08:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was depolyed and will be returning very soon. He says the first thing he wants to do is have sex and this is where the issue arises. We barely had sex before his deployment and I literally had to beg for it because he was "stressed" crap I didnt believe then and dont believe now.

I told him that there would come a day when he'd want sex and I wouldnt be interested. And that day has come. I dont want to have sex with him as soon as he gets here. I guess in a way I want him to feel how I felt so he can just understand where I was coming from. I know "getting even" doesnt solve anything, but I feel it can get my point across.

I have told him I dont want sex right away because we have to fix what was broken before he left. He says he is no longer "stressed"(how convenient) and isnt taking me seriously.

How can I make him understand where I am coming from without being this mean wife upon his return?

2006-08-31 13:50:23 · 46 answers · asked by lalala 4

My boyfriend constantly wants me to tell him I love him. He likes to hear how I feel about him and enjoys compliments.

I wrote him a letter telling him all these things and said how excited I am that we are together. He wrote a letter back with only 1 line in it about how he feels about me.

Is this normal? It's come up before so I think it's just the way he is.

2006-08-31 13:50:16 · 6 answers · asked by torn 3

sexually, he has a hernia that he needs to be operated on, he won't go to the doctor and does not have insurance, I want us to get married so he can be on mine but he won't do that until he buys me a ring, Which I don't care about at all I just want him to be okay and healthy, it is ruining our sex life and I am worried that he is going to go to the hospital one day and won't come out. Is there anything that I can do to get him help or something that you have done to get someone you love to the hospital, when they are so stubborn?? Please help me out , I appreciate any suggestions.

2006-08-31 13:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3

Your husband buys these 2 tickets for a 4 day vacation. Everything paid off. Then he tells you I don't want you to come. it's better if I go on my own. Would you ride along with him?
TO help answer this question- we are thinking about getting a divorce.

2006-08-31 13:41:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will that inter fear with my schoolwork???Please help me feel not o-so-sad.Can you please tell me a joke or something??

2006-08-31 13:40:56 · 43 answers · asked by Anna 3

2006-08-31 13:35:08 · 24 answers · asked by pritchettb@sbcglobal.net 2

My daughter is 4 years old and calls my husband Poppy and her real dad Daddy. Her real dad is more or less a weekend dad while my husband has raised her with me since she was 6 months old. We are now expecting our first baby together and he wants his baby to call him daddy and my daughter to continue to call him Poppy. I asked him what if my daughter wants to call him daddy especially if the new baby is calling him that and he said that he doesn't want her to call him daddy because she already has a daddy and if she doesn't like it, she will just have to deal with it. I am shocked to say the least and hurt that he feels this way. He says he loves her as if she was his own daughter but she can't call him daddy? I feel like this will only make my daughter feel left out but I can't seem to make him understand that. What can I do to make him undertand? Am I out of line?

2006-08-31 13:33:14 · 25 answers · asked by caligirl0677 1

My husband was depolyed and will be returning very soon. He says the first thing he wants to do is have sex and this is where the issue arises. We barely had sex before his deployment and I literally had to beg for it because he was "stressed" crap I didnt believe then and dont believe now.

I told him that there would come a day when he'd want sex and I wouldnt be interested. And that day has come. I dont want to have sex with him as soon as he gets here. I guess in a way I want him to feel how I felt so he can just understand where I was coming from. I know "getting even" doesnt solve anything, but I feel it can get my point across.

I have told him I dont want sex right away because we have to fix what was broken before he left. He says he is no longer "stressed"(how convenient) and isnt taking me seriously.

How can I make him understand where I am coming from without being this mean wife upon his return?

2006-08-31 13:13:57 · 23 answers · asked by lalala 4

his classes are Tues and Thurs. from 5:45-6:30. His father and I were not married, together for 6 years. I have custody right now and allow him to see children whenever he wants while things are trying to be resolved with attorneys. Since he is of every Thurs. the boys spend the day and stay the night over his house. (We have NO agreement at this time-mediation failed-and he is not paying any child support). He has refused to take the 4 year old to his class and when I offered to pick up and drop back off just for the time of the class so he can attend he has denied me access to the children. Has anyone has any expereince with ex's and childrens activities? I am not trying to take time away from him but these are only days class is available ad I have checked with 4 schoold in our area-all offer classes same days. Does he have any obligation (other than moral) to take him to activities?

2006-08-31 13:11:34 · 3 answers · asked by CLS 1

Would the winnings be split as soon as one or the other spouse files or would it be split up to the point when the Divorce is final ??

2006-08-31 13:07:22 · 15 answers · asked by outdoors101 2

2006-08-31 13:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by boywonder 1

I've been married for 10 yrs. I have one child. I did not cheat on my husband until recently when I found out he was seeing several women one of which is white. I always had a feeling he was cheating but never seeked proof. However a few weeks ago the proof was presented to me by a family member.

2006-08-31 12:51:43 · 21 answers · asked by mrstea0116 1

If you had to pick between a Mexican male born and raised in Mexico and a Mexican-American for a mate, who would you chose and why? Let's assume that social-economic factors as well as education level is similiar.

2006-08-31 12:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes? No? would you ever like to see it lived out but dont have the nerve to talk about it. What are some thoughts?

2006-08-31 12:26:35 · 22 answers · asked by dramaqueen22801 1

I was in love with a women and was very happy in that relationship .Being an Indian and considering the after effects of this relationship in an Indian community, i decided to go ahead with a marriage. with this guy who is naive but loves his parents and sister more than himself.I cant find any happiness in this relationship,he is not good at sexual relation and we are just living like room mates. My love is today 6000miles away from me.I miss her day& night. I hinted about her to my husband, but couldnt tell him that we had physical relationship with each other.I am a professional, i do value culture,but love just happened so unexpected and that too with her. She is also preparing to get married. I know i cant live without her.But i am married and my husband didnt want to go for a divorce as my proposal was the only one which worked out for him. I become weak when i think about my parents(they've high reputation in the society).I talk to her often,can we be ever together?Please advice

2006-08-31 11:59:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going thru a divorce, and now, my ex doesn't want to pay the amount of child support he agreed to. He wants to see the 2 children more so he doesn't have to pay. He has even gone so far as to work less hours at his jobs, just so he doens't have the "income". Can he do this? He has always been too busy for the girls, working all the time, and I was the one who stayed home with them. He has been paying me, but an amount that is less than what he is supposed to. How can I get him to realize that no matter what, he's just being a jerk off about the whole thing.

2006-08-31 11:54:49 · 16 answers · asked by arizonakellie 2

one psychic: he felt things were more intense than he expected and he was not emotionally ready for serious relationship so he left but he knows that if at all he will want to have a relationship it has to be you.

another: he is in relationship but has lust for another..but love is deep and binding heart..he will walk away but will never be able to forget you.

both of them could see thru my problem without help at all.thru visions. i was amazed but the conclusion leaves me confused.

does this mean he was in lust with me or love? what was going on?how can u be in lust and never forget someone? or emotionally ready?

who has analytical brain here?

2006-08-31 11:54:25 · 10 answers · asked by dsnmstis 1

You are married. You have three children with your spouse. Two of which are bilogically not yours. You love them all the same. At one point your spouse sleeps with the ex. You forgive your spouse and TRY and move on and honor your Vows. Six months later the person whom your spouse slept with is in the hospital going through a routine operation that suddenly turns serious. Life and death serious. Now your spouse is naturally worried. Two of the three kids you are raising belong to this person. And they might or might not lose a parent. The last 4 days your spouse has been spending alot of time at the hospital. You are not insecure. But are concerned with the amount of time your spouse is spending there. You are still building your trust for your spouse. Your spouse asks u 2 be understanding. Is it wrong to be angry at this? Considering this is the same person your spouse slept with six months b4. Is it wrong to feel nothing for this person whose life is hanging in the balance?

2006-08-31 11:54:06 · 18 answers · asked by Divine_Gesture 2

Help. My husband is a compulsive liar. He'll lie about anything. I have no more trust in him. Especially after I found out he'd been smoking pot for 3 years.
We've seen a counselor once at our church, but he's not willing to go further with it.
I don't even want to be intimate anymore. Any advice?
Do you think we can overcome this?

2006-08-31 11:48:19 · 18 answers · asked by geskuh 2

She's short and fat with bad breath and acne. I'd sooner marry the family doberman, at least it's slim and takes exercise once in a while.

2006-08-31 11:45:55 · 26 answers · asked by pakistani_spack 1

I let a good friend and her daughter stay w/us. during the time they my husband and her got close alot, doing more stuff w/her than me. paying more attendion w/her daughter than his own kids. she told me that she knew about the last girl my husband cheated on during our marriage. I told that was in the past, but she said once a cheater always a cheater. then 3 months ago I found out that he was cheating on w/her. but now he saids that hes not cheating on me ,but they are just friends. but still don't belive him. what should i do?

2006-08-31 11:43:31 · 30 answers · asked by slayer2snider 1

2006-08-31 11:38:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

While you are so outraged at the sexual language of a question that kids are reading..they are also reading some very careless answers people leave. Be concerned on both ends of the question..amen?

2006-08-31 11:34:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just a 36 year old country boy with real manners,I like to hunt, ride around in the woods ,cook,and drink a few beers .What do you think of that?

2006-08-31 11:30:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was it at a bar? Through a friend? If it's another place, please list the place. Thanks for your help!!!!

2006-08-31 11:25:56 · 24 answers · asked by cee cee 3