husband thinks that it wasn't a big deal because he said it was a joke. I know the girl, it was someone who he used to work with and she is very trashy anf the kind of girl who wouldn't be joking about something like that. Am I right that having and affair with someone is not something you joke about and is it okay that I want to beat the crap out og her? They no longer work tohether or see each other but occasionally we end up at parties together is okay that I don't want him talking to her and I deleted her number from his phone? And it isn't that I don't trust him I just think he's a little naive and doesn't realize how evil and manipulative girls can be and I don't trust this girl one bit.
2006-08-31 14:18:56 · 6 answers · asked by hideemosquito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yup,get rid of her..asap
2006-08-31 14:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by odoiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You spend way too much time obsessing about other people.
You deleted a number from his phone and you think girls are "evil and manipulative" so you can't possibly allow your husband to think for himself.
The road to divorce is paved with actions like that.
He's a grown man, not a little boy. Soon he will be with a woman who treats him like a man instead of a boy.
2006-08-31 21:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just dun attend any party that she might b attending. Tell yr hubby u just cant stand the sight of her face.
Yes, u r right, affair is something tat u never take out to joke! Either she is so immature or she is trying to "work" something w her hubby!
2006-08-31 21:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, especially if they don't work together and tell your husband that you trust him because he has given you no reason to not trust him thus far. If you can avoid the parties she goes to then do so.
2006-08-31 21:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first dont touch her if they didnt do anything dont put your hands on her you dont want to end up in jail next yes keep him away from her and continue to tell him she will try to get with him if she has the chance so he needs to be on his p's and q's and watch her but dont keep pressing the issue just keep your own eyes and ears open
2006-08-31 21:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her either
2006-08-31 21:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by kelticgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋