I've been married for 10 yrs. I have one child. I did not cheat on my husband until recently when I found out he was seeing several women one of which is white. I always had a feeling he was cheating but never seeked proof. However a few weeks ago the proof was presented to me by a family member.
2006-08-31 12:51:43 · 21 answers · asked by mrstea0116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmmm we all dont cheat, it seems though if all you know is cheaters then your fishing in the wrong lake and or possibly with the wrong bait. as far as this white girl thing.... if the shoes was reversed you would feel very disciminated against and it should not matter to have brought that up. you cheated he cheated its a wash you both should stay married becuase it means nothing to either of you to make a promise. if my wife cheated on me, it doesnt open the flood gate for me to cheat. i am better then that not to mention i am better then cheating ever...... "really married" men and women still exist
2006-08-31 13:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me. Tiger Woods isn't black, he's mixed with Asian and white. Also not all black men leave / cheat on their black wives or marry white women. What about: 1. Barack Obama and Michelle Obama 2. Jay-Z and Beyonce Knowles 3. Denzel Washington and Pauletta Pearson 4. Kendu Issacs and Mary J. Blige 5. Jermaine Dupri and Janet Jackson 6. Daniel Gibson and Keisha Cole 7. Isaiah Washington and Jenisa Washington 8. Boris Kodjoe and Nicole Ari Parker 9. Duane Martin and Tisha Campbell 10. Lance Gross and Eva Marcille 11. Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith 12. Samuel L. Jackson and LaTanya Richardson 13. Antonio Davis and Kendra Davis 14. Dikembe Mutombo and Rose Mutombo 15. Wyclef Jean and Marie Claudinette Jean Please Google these black men and see that they all stayed faithful to their wives and never left them nor cheated on them with white women. Stop creating stereotypes and lies. White men cheat too. So grow a third leg so that you can kick your own angry behind back into the darkness.
2016-03-17 05:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do married men cheat on their wives? because the spark in the relationship is gone and married men need that rush. that excitement. As for why Black married men cheat with white woman, its just a fad. A big hype. A whole " I did a white chick" thing to brag about to the guys. If you got the proof then I wouldn't even bother to hang around, I'd make my way out of there and start fresh. Hope that helps you out
2006-08-31 14:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by deais74 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I was talking to a guy friend the other day and he told me this.
A guy's mentality is different from a girls (duh right). But he said even though they are with someone and love them and would never leave them, if they see someone they are attracted to they say to themselves, ooohh I want that.
it's all about what makes them feel good. They will do whatever they want to do in the moment because that is how they think, right now, not later. They don't think of the consequences.
As for the white girl part of it, I'm not sure, but one guy friend I have that is black told me it's because it's something different, or there is something they think about them, like they are freaks in bed or will do certain stuff, it's all stereotypes and they just want to know if it's true. Like the Black guys have big you know.. Or Black girls have a big butts.
I mean white people have the same things, trust me I'm white and have a big ol butt to rival my best friend (who is black) and my ex was very well endowed.
I'm sorry you had this happen, but it's nothing more then curiousity. It's sad that it's like that, but it's true.
2006-08-31 13:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating with several women and only one of them is white than that means that most of them are not. I don't see why this is a color issue. Is it ok if he cheats with black women, but for some reason its wrong with a white one. I gotta tell you if I found out my husband was cheating I wouldn't care if she were purple. I'd just be pissed.
2006-08-31 13:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by I love sushi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For every man that cheats there's a gal cheating with him. In this case there's more gals cheating. As for black-white, it's curiosity about each other, the novelty of it, thinking it'll be different, and it may be....
2006-08-31 13:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you didn't cheat on him until you found out he was cheating which doesn't make you a better person. Cheating
either way is wrong. As soon as you found out he was cheating just leave him and start a new life. I hope you aren't still with him.
2006-08-31 13:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes let see beyond the fact. unsatisfied at home, have some sexual fantasy he can got outside then inside. May be he is just a cheater. the truth is not only black man cheat with white men most white men do cheat with black women too. Only that black women we have secret and we respect they marriage. white women if the find out that they are men cheat with black then it is issue will run to the whole media , he cheats me with a black women, hello , women or men black or white both are human with same thing. < Well married women try to be sex, create sexual feeling , try adventurous in that way you can turn your man on and he can stay then go out and fulfill his needs outside.
2006-08-31 12:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by tangind 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Should it matter that he's cheating with a white woman? The fact is, cheating is cheating. Color is not the issue here. Find another man you can trust and will treat you with the respect you deserve.
2006-08-31 13:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Color serves no point in this question or in the answer.
Fact his he cheated and you either stay with him or move on. People cheat when they are not getting something at home. That doesnt make it right, but like the people we all we seek out our wants and needs. So whether it was sex, variety, caring, listening, or just something new he went elsewhere to find it.
I wish you all the luck in recovering from this situation.
2006-08-31 12:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋