his classes are Tues and Thurs. from 5:45-6:30. His father and I were not married, together for 6 years. I have custody right now and allow him to see children whenever he wants while things are trying to be resolved with attorneys. Since he is of every Thurs. the boys spend the day and stay the night over his house. (We have NO agreement at this time-mediation failed-and he is not paying any child support). He has refused to take the 4 year old to his class and when I offered to pick up and drop back off just for the time of the class so he can attend he has denied me access to the children. Has anyone has any expereince with ex's and childrens activities? I am not trying to take time away from him but these are only days class is available ad I have checked with 4 schoold in our area-all offer classes same days. Does he have any obligation (other than moral) to take him to activities?
2006-08-31 13:11:34 · 3 answers · asked by CLS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at this time he doesn't- but let the kid cry because he can't go to classes and watch how fast daddy gives in. Seriously adise the kid if his dad wont take him it is ok to cry about it at his house. Poor kid is missing his fun and probably some freinds during class time.
2006-08-31 13:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Answerkeeper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at this point. Your husband is acting like a little kid. Hes going to show you he is boss and is using your son anyway he can to get to you. You may be able to make arrangements for now for your son to make up his missed classes, but other than that theres not much you can do. This is one of those stupid childish games men play when they dont get their way. All hes going to do is eventually turn his son away from him by doing this once hes old enough to fully understand this. I feel sorry for your son and you for having to put up with this and it will come to haunt him. Good luck
2006-08-31 20:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt have to do anything for them until u go to court and get a court order the judge can order this but i dont know if they will And if he tries denying u access to the children with you being the legal custodian it is considered kidnapping i believe
2006-08-31 20:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by stormyblythe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋