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Will that inter fear with my schoolwork???Please help me feel not o-so-sad.Can you please tell me a joke or something??

2006-08-31 13:40:56 · 43 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

43 answers

Oh sweetie. I understand how u feel. I went thru the same thing when I was ur age.
I pray that God gives u the strength to get thru this time. Just know that both ur parents love u.
I wish I did know a joke to tell u but the only thing I do is say hang in there because like all things....This 2 shall pass.

2006-08-31 13:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't have any jokes for you, but I do have some advice and answers.

Your parents' divorce will only affect your schoolwork if you let it. What's going with them should stay between them. What I mean is, don't let your mother or your father speak badly against the other parent in front of you. My father did that with my brother and sisters and me when we were young and they were getting a divorce. It worked on them, but not me, only because I knew what kind of person my mother was, and I knew that my father was telling lies about her to get me to hate her like he did.

You are allowed to feel sad, angry and depressed that your parents are splitting up, and that's ok. Cry if you have to, yell, scream, throw things, do whatever will make you feel better. Call a friend or a school counselor and have a talk. Make sure that what is said between you will stay between you.

After a while, they may still get a divorce, but you'll feel better about it, and your parents will be impressed that you handled it so well. Good luck!

2006-09-08 10:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0 0

Honey that is grown up stuff, your mom and dad will always be your mom and dad ok?

I'm sure they know how stressed you may be over this and are trying to minimize this, usually parents find a way, talk to them if you have to and ask them how it will affect your studies. tell them honestly how you feel and most of all this is the most important part. It is NOT your fault ok?

I hope they can work things out but its ok if they don't too, tell them you understand and that you love them both and that you still are a family, its really rough being a kid in that sort of situation I wish I could give you a hug and tell you everything is going to be alright, because it will honey, be strong you'll see.

2006-08-31 14:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0 0

Keep your head up kid. Yes it will interfere with school and it is going to be hard. Remember your mom and dad both love you more than you can ever imagine. Its just hard sometimes when we get older. You think you get smarter as you grow, you just don't use it all the time. Please try to talk to one of them, tell them how you feel. Ask questions if there is something you want to know. They aren't telling you things right now because they want to protect you, and they aren't sure either. Its gonna be hard for a little while, but it gets better. Be a kid, go play, smile. You want to help? Your smile to your parents is medicine, be strong and be happy. Remember to talk, whenever you have a question. Whenever!

2006-08-31 13:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by kmusic212 1 · 0 0

Sorry to note that your parents are going through divorce. These are some of the hard times one has to face and i feel sad that you have to face this so early. Talk to your school counselor or seek help.
You are really a strong girl, you surely know how to cope,look you appraoched for help, keep it up!

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his congregation: "I have good news and bad news. The good news is, we
have enough money to pay for our new building program. The bad news is,
it's still out there in your pockets."
Hope you liked the joke

2006-09-08 09:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0 0

Just remember you are not the reason why your parents are getting a devorse. Some times couples do not get along married but become good friends after they break up. Remember they both love you .
Ok here is a joke not a good one but here it goes.

Two flies on a tolet set and one gets pissed off.

2006-09-07 15:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

My daughter feels like the divorce was the best thing that ever happened. She gets to spend time with both of us without the anger, crying and fighting.

She is a senior in high school right now. We divorced when she was 3. She will graduate as Valedictorian of her class.

The important thing for your parents to remember is that the only person who does not deserve to be hurt in this is the child.

Sweetie you will make it through this.

2006-09-08 03:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by joanne_happygirl 2 · 0 0

Hang in there and focus on your school work. Know that your Mom and Dad love you the most. I know it does not seem that way right now, but it is not your fault. Your parents just have some issues that they can not fix. GOOD LUCK

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2006-09-07 07:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by n3rdluvr2001 2 · 0 0

Are you sure you are The 4th grade and I am sorry that you have to hear the sad story from them. It will interfere with your school work because, you will hear the argument and fight and custody and court hearing. Whatever happens it will happen.You do not allow it impact on you,and you need to go to school and move on your life. Try to support your parent s who are in troubles and You know what to do just watch the Sim-son for a change and I am so honor to answer your question and I am speechless.

2006-09-04 16:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0 0

I am very sorry to hear about your mom and dad. I wish that more moms and dads would think seriously about how their fights are affecting their children. Unfortunately, many times people don't think. They get self-centered. But please try not to let problems between your mom and dad interfere with your school work. Carry on as if nothing has happened. Keep a stiff upper lip and show your mom and dad who the real adult is in your family. Be strong, Okay?

2006-08-31 13:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by pepper 6 · 0 0

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