Marriage & Divorce - 31 August 2006

2006-08-31 20:40:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you been through a divorce before?

How many divorces have you been through?

2006-08-31 20:29:04 · 14 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4

2006-08-31 20:26:36 · 19 answers · asked by ramana 1

2006-08-31 20:16:28 · 14 answers · asked by Y 2

This is a hypothical question. No offence intended.

These days marriages and divorces are very commonplace. Sometimes it is no longer possible for one partner to bear with the nonsense of the other.

However, will you consider divorce if you have 20 or 30 kids to care for? Will you still feel like starting anew with your life? Or will you your best to resolve any outstanding issues?

2006-08-31 20:16:13 · 9 answers · asked by Wonder 2

Can't Wait, But Can! Does That Make Sense!

2006-08-31 20:12:03 · 25 answers · asked by flix_ef 1

2006-08-31 19:14:46 · 37 answers · asked by happiness 2

I do. For me, It means commitment to our marriage, let people know I'm married and that hey have to respect that. What do you do if your spouse doesn't care if he/she doesn't care if he/she forgets to wear his/her wedding ring?

2006-08-31 19:09:46 · 40 answers · asked by Soul Sis 3

I've been married to my wife for about 16 years now and she's really a great mother to my two boys (6 & 9). She's not only a great mother but a good wife. No real major issues - just not as in love with her as much anymore. I was recently contacted by my former HS sweetheart, Jenny. Our relationship ended 25 years ago because I had already committed to the military before we met - If not for the commitment I would have probably stayed with Jenny and who knows what would have become of us. Anyway, we met to just to catch up on old times and it felt like the spark was re-lit once again for the both of us. Jenny is also married with two kids, both HS. It's been a few weeks since Jenny and I had our reunion and I just can't get her off my mind. I've always wondered what whould have happened if we stayed together. What should I do, I really think Jenny is the one - but I don't want to hurt my wife and especially my two boys - yet, I want to be happy myself. Any advice from anyone?

2006-08-31 19:06:18 · 18 answers · asked by Tim W 1

He's my boyfriend for 10yrs.We got married 3wks ago.We have a kid.2months ago I found him cheating/flirting (courting somebody else-my bf and I have a long distance relationship for the latest 3yrs of our relationship to present).They're coworkers.Lately I'm just crying my self to sleep.Now,my former suitor is back.He's knows I'm married now and my husband's cheating.I was attracted to him before but I have a bf (now my husband).I'm now feeling much better I guess because of him.Former suitor tells me that he still loves me.By the way,I'm far from both my husband and suitor...former suitor is also in the same location as my husband.I don't know what to do/fee/think?Any advice?

2006-08-31 19:04:22 · 30 answers · asked by matty 1

2006-08-31 18:54:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

She always complained that im not spending much time communicating.
And Im simply just tired

2006-08-31 18:44:08 · 23 answers · asked by nude chef 3

2006-08-31 18:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by vijay 1

weve been togther for almost 4 years. he has grown children and grandchildren. he would loose alot $ but after 2 failed marriages im comfortable the way things are. He says they are not romantically involved for a long time. 6 years he said she says it hurts and that her libido has gone. Is she also having a affair? Is she gay or does she just not love him?

2006-08-31 18:30:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a daughter from a previous marriage and I got involved with a sex offender. I have never left him alone with her and never will. We are no longer dating but my x inlaws are trying to take her from me sayin that we live in the same house (not true) and that i leave her alone with the sex offender (also not true). I knew the risks of being with him so i have protected her in every way possible. I'm currently 9 months pregnant with his child and he will be apart of his sons life. Do you think im a bad person for forgiving someone of there past, and do you think my x inlaws should be allowed to take my daughter from me? I have done nothing wrong i dont think. He was convicted of molesting 2 young girls, but after getting to know him i dont think he would ever do anything like that. Please help me. I want to kill myself because of all this ****.

2006-08-31 18:19:49 · 28 answers · asked by carebear27 1

2006-08-31 18:14:09 · 19 answers · asked by jjhendy 1

2006-08-31 18:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by goodguy7 2

long story. I'm 40, he is 46. He wants a family, so do I, but he keeps on behaving like he did in his last marriage. I have two daughters, he has one. He claims for family but he acts in a irresponsible way. If he goes out with friends, he never tells me about it, or where he is. If I call him, he gets angry, and says that is something he won't change. That is not what I want as a family, not knowing what he is doing. I'm not a kid any more, I'm not jealous, but I feel that if a man of his age wants a real family, he must be a real partner. am I wrong?

2006-08-31 17:55:45 · 24 answers · asked by Lilly A 1

I caught hubby having an affair with one of our close friend. We knew her hubby too... Its so hard to forget the issue. I am trying very very hard but i suspect almost everything he does now....
what can I DO ? I just want our normal life back to where it was. We have a lovely 5 yrs old boy. I feel that he is only staying back for our son's sake. It makes me so sad. If this goes on any longer, I think I will get depression soon.

2006-08-31 17:49:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you're in a relationship, and things get a little boring in the bedroom, what do you do to make it more exciting?

2006-08-31 17:47:21 · 25 answers · asked by LadyLindsay 5

should i have sex with him before we get married or justdo it?

2006-08-31 17:45:42 · 23 answers · asked by snowflake 1

1. SUPERFICIAL CHARM -- the tendency to be smooth, engaging, charming, and slick. Not in the least shy, self-conscious, or afraid to say anything. He never gets tongue-tied and has freed himself from the social conventions about taking turns in talking, for example.


2. GRANDIOSE SELF-WORTH -- a grossly inflated view of one's abilities and self-worth, self-assured, opinionated, cocky, a braggart. An arrogant guy who believes he is a superior human being.


3. NEED FOR STIMULATION (PRONENESS TO BOREDOM) -- an excessive need for novel, thrilling, and exciting stimulation; taking chances and doing things that are risky. Often has low self-discipline in carrying tasks through to completion because he gets bored easily.


4. PATHOLOGICAL LYING -- can be moderate or high; in moderate form, and will be shrewd, crafty, cunning, sly, and clever (in extreme form, he will be deceptive, deceitful, underhanded, unscrupulous, manipulative, and dishonest).


5. CONNING AND MANIPULATIVENESS -- the use of deceit and deception to cheat, con, or defraud others for personal gain; distinguished from Item #4 in the degree to which exploitation and callous ruthlessness is present, as reflected in a lack of concern for the feelings and suffering of one's victims.


6. LACK OF REMORSE OR GUILT -- a lack of feelings or concern for the losses, pain, and suffering of victims; a tendency to be unconcerned, dispassionate, coldhearted, and unempathic. This item is usually demonstrated by a disdain for one's victims.


7. SHALLOW AFFECT -- emotional poverty or a limited range or depth of feelings; interpersonal coldness in spite of signs of open gregariousness.


8. CALLOUSNESS and LACK OF EMPATHY -- a lack of feelings toward people in general; cold, contemptuous, inconsiderate, and tactless.


9. PARASITIC LIFESTYLE -- an intentional, manipulative, selfish, and exploitative financial dependence on others as reflected in a lack of motivation, low self-discipline, and inability to begin or complete responsibilities.


10. POOR BEHAVIORAL CONTROLS -- expressions of irritability, annoyance, impatience, threats, aggression, and verbal abuse; inadequate control of anger and temper; acting hastily.


11. PROMISCUOUS SEXUAL BEHAVIOR -- a variety of brief, superficial relations, numerous affairs, and an indiscriminate selection of sexual partners; the maintenance of several relationships at the same time; a history of attempts to sexually coerce others into sexual activity or taking great pride at discussing sexual exploits or conquests.


12. LACK OF REALISTIC, LONG-TERM GOALS -- an inability or persistent failure to develop and execute long-term plans and goals; a nomadic existence, aimless, lacking direction in life.


13. IMPULSIVITY -- the occurrence of behaviors that are unpremeditated and lack reflection or planning; inability to resist temptation, frustrations, and urges; a lack of deliberation without considering the consequences; foolhardy, rash, unpredictable, erratic, and reckless.


14. IRRESPONSIBILITY -- repeated failure to fulfill or honor obligations and commitments; such as not paying bills, defaulting on loans, performing sloppy work, being absent or late to work, failing to honor contractual agreements.


15. FAILURE TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR OWN ACTIONS -- a failure to accept responsibility for one's actions reflected in low conscientiousness, an absence of dutifulness, antagonistic manipulation, denial of responsibility, and an effort to manipulate others through this denial.


16. MANY SHORT-TERM RELATIONSHIPS -- a lack of commitment to a long-term relationship reflected in inconsistent, undependable, and unreliable commitments in life, including marital.


17. JUVENILE DELINQUENCY -- behavior problems between the ages of 13-18; mostly behaviors that are crimes or clearly involve aspects of antagonism, exploitation, aggression, manipulation, or a callous, ruthless tough-mindedness.


18. CRIMINAL VERSATILITY -- A diversity of types of criminal offenses (regardless if the person has been arrested or convicted for them); taking great pride at getting away with crimes.

2006-08-31 17:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by poobear 3

You're wife betrays you with another, not sexually, and says the marriage is not working. In the meantime there is a woman from work that has constantly been coming on to you for well over a year, asking for whatever you're willing to give her. You still live with your wife and children, do you now give into this woman?

2006-08-31 17:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

2006-08-31 17:31:19 · 23 answers · asked by Verdi 1

**** the men they just lie,cheat and abuse women they are fake sons of bitches who just look for a tail and once they had enough go on to find a new one.Men suck and drain all the life force energy out of women.they are the mortal enemies of our self esteem and self worth.

2006-08-31 17:27:55 · 20 answers · asked by ? 1

Before we were married my husb and was the "clean one". Is it just my husband, or is this commonplace in the land of marriage and why?

2006-08-31 17:21:20 · 20 answers · asked by Natalie T 1

2006-08-31 17:19:38 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3

when your man doesn't believe a word you say when you've never lied to him... and he's going to leave you over something some one else said

2006-08-31 17:17:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-31 17:00:21 · 20 answers · asked by angel 3

A couple of days ago i came on here and asked women what was wrong with the ones who were married and falling for another man.. i wasnt to specific with my questions and some ppl were really rude...but on the flip side them being rude made me realize that i was only infatuated with other cuz my marriage was lacking i talked to my hubby about it and we actually had a good conversation he understood y i felt the way i did and even tho its only been 2 days it seems like we r working well together to make r family work!!!!ty yahoo for this vert usefull Q&A!!!!!!! and thanks to all u readers and responders!!!!

2006-08-31 16:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by Always Asking 2