This is a hypothical question. No offence intended.
These days marriages and divorces are very commonplace. Sometimes it is no longer possible for one partner to bear with the nonsense of the other.
However, will you consider divorce if you have 20 or 30 kids to care for? Will you still feel like starting anew with your life? Or will you your best to resolve any outstanding issues?
2006-08-31 20:16:13 · 9 answers · asked by Wonder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
20 or 30 kids, hey… I’m glad you said ‘hypothetical’!!!
Should the number of kids really make any difference?
I’d suggest that even one child is sufficient grounds to try to make the marriage work.
A point that perhaps needs to be considered, is that even though a marriage may be over… the responsibility for the child/children still remains with both parents.
Speaking ‘hypothetically’ as we are, I would look at how my relationship with my partner was affecting the kids. If there wasn’t any detrimental effect on the children, then I would be inclined to stick with the marriage. If, on the other hand, the children were being detrimentally effected, I would perhaps have to consider getting a divorce, in the best interest of the children!!!
2006-08-31 21:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with you. But if you are talking about 20 to 30 kids, i think my wife will leave me before she can bear me so many kids. Basically, every couples should tried to resolve all matters calmly and see if there is any solution to resolve it and not settle it by divorcing. In this world everyone is different, if there is any problem the couples shou;d settle together rather than breaking up coz by breaking up the problems is never solved and it could arise in their next relationship.
2006-09-01 07:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I would do my best to resolve any issues, outstanding or otherwise, to save my marriage but the effort has to be mutual. If my partner is unwilling to work with me, then I have no choice but to leave. It doesn't matter if I have 50 children although hypothetically, having that many children will be a problem all on it's own. lol!
2006-09-01 04:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you got married in the first place. Did you get married because you fell in love, or did you get married to have someone help you financially or just to have a partner in life? If there are children involved, then decide what would be best for the children.
2006-09-01 03:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Vic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why suffer? leave and redeem yourself. it may be difficult at first but you can still move on and start a new life. Which do you think is best for the kids? being in a family living like hell or being with one parent in peace? both you & the children will benefit from the separation.
2006-09-01 03:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by lette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that having 20 to 30 kids would be an issue all in its own, and after that, you would not have time to even worry about your spouse and their problems...
2006-09-01 03:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u xio ar?? where got peoples give birth to 20-30 kids ??? u think woman is PIG ar??
2006-09-03 00:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by Far A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES I would
2006-09-02 03:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by JK76 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what she said
2006-09-01 03:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋