2006-08-31 17:19:38 · 29 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why not? I'm unmarried with no kids and I'm 34! It's the 21st century - you're allowed to not have kids and not be married if that's what you want. You have to do what makes YOU happy.
2006-08-31 17:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by ReeRee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is a good thing, Do not hurry or rush, time will tell all.. There is no certain timeframe that we find the right one, in fact that is why there are so many divorces because we jump first then we look back. If you have not found the right one, then enjoy all the time with the wrong ones, which will lead you to the right one, Best of luck, but I think that it is great, even though you may think that it sucks at times, be truly happy with yourself, and just know that there is someone else out there going through the same thing you are and eventually you will find them.
2006-08-31 17:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got plenty of time. It's better to be unmarried than to be married to a bad husband. Work on being the kind of woman who would attract the kind of man you would want for a husband. I don't mean faking who you are but practicing and building qualities like kindness, generosity, compassion, honesty, etc.
2006-08-31 17:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being 29 and not married with children. You still have plenty of time to get married and have children. Think of it this way at least you got to live out your 20's without having marriage problems or kid problems.
2006-08-31 17:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What could be bad about it? All it means is that you have not rushed into a bad relationship just to be married. A lot of women wish they had waited and not married a jerk. When you are ready to settle down the right guy will suddenly appear. You don't go out hunting him. He is provided when the time is right. And I can guarantee that the right time is not one that you can schedule for yourself. You just have to be patient.
2006-08-31 17:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the life you enjoy not everyone was meant to be married or have kids. My daughter is 33 has two kids been married twice, she loves her family but she says if she could to do it all over she would have stayed single and had a life of her own.
2006-08-31 17:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by g-day mate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother may not think so. the question is 'are you happy?' i think all people need to find a significant other---eventually. but if you are working on career, focusing on education or going through something personal, looking for a mate is a waste of time. and really, everyone needs that period of it's all on me, all about me, to have a lot of fun, being free and finding out who you are. you may be ready at 30, or 50...i think when you are ready to give and open to change, that's when willing partners emerge. the only way to answer the question is 'do you?'
2006-08-31 17:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you enjoying life?
If your happy then its fine, if you feel your missing out and want a family, then its not necessarily bad but you are missing something that is important to you.
Truly, this is a question you can only answer for yourself, society's view should not dictate to you whether you are happy and fufilled in life with or without a family.
2006-08-31 17:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by daughters_a_wookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you are who you are. Don't try to fit into any stereotype just because other people your age do. Don't rush into marriage and kids, wait until you're ready and you've met the right guy.
2006-08-31 17:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Katy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And whats wrong with that ? My husband was 29 when we got married.
2006-08-31 17:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋