2006-08-31 19:14:46 · 37 answers · asked by happiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You ought to leave him the hell alone. All you will accomplish is making a fool of yourself and break up a marriage. Do you think that would be doing yourself or your family proud?
2006-08-31 19:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your choice, stay with him and perhaps have no real future with him, or distant your self from him and help yourself start a new love. Staying with him is a threat to his family, cause if the wife finds out then you will ruin a family. If you decide to let him be then you must not see him anymore or talk t him or call him or exchange emails with him, there is no other way than to completely cut off all communications with him, you can't be friends with him cause you will slip back into love. Walk away dear. Ask yourself if he is willing to divorce his wife and marry you, and if he does what will happen to his kidds if he has any? Is it worth it to hurt the kidds? You can leave him and start over, I am sure you can and you know that this is the best thing to do for all involved.
2006-08-31 20:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy you have a choice that you need to do.
Fly away from him as fast as you can and you can love him and his spirit far away. Do not get mad if I say you are interfere with other people lives do not urge him to leave his family and take you instead. Think big and you are single and pretty, why you want a man who has a wife already? Do not waste your time with him at all. Good luck and I wish you well.
2006-09-04 17:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ought to respect the marriage of this individual. You need to back off and find a single man. If he is fooling around with you while he is married he will fool around with someone else IF he ever chooses to leave his wife and be with you. YOU ALREADY HAVE HEARD THIS A MILLION TIMES! You knew it before you wasted your time typing this question. Don't be a homewreaker!
The man is scum if he is giving you his attention. You are seriously degrading yourself if you take it. STOP IT!
2006-08-31 19:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99 times out of a hundred, the person who is married sticks with their spouse... & you get hurt.
The longer you stick with him, the more it will hurt you if he dumps you.
He's still emotionally attached to his wife... otherwise, he would already have made sure he got his freedom from her.
Do yourself a favor & love yourself enough to get out of that relationship before it happens to you.
It can do more damage to you than you may realize right now... it can cause you to be unable to trust & believe in honestly being loved... in the future.
2006-08-31 19:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everyone involved a favor (including yourself) and leave this relationship at once. He will NEVER leave his wife for you, no matter how many times he tells you he's not happy with her. Find someone single for yourself and stop playing second fiddle.
2006-08-31 19:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look..thats a tough situation.I know its gotta hurt but you have to let him go....Even if he were to leave his wife for you,would you like to build your happiness on someone elses' misery??Unless he really really doesnt love his wife at all and would leave her in any case even if you werent in the picture....Still..its a sensitive situation any which way you look at it.Best is to let him be...Theres that saying too"If you love something,let it go..."you know how that goes...
2006-08-31 19:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont get any sympathy from a WIFE. Being tottally honest,...your a homewrecker. Run away as fast as you can. Would you want some woman tryin to take your husband away from you? Didn't think so.
2006-08-31 20:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
scene 1 : If he can fall for you after he chose his wife, TRUST ME, he can fall for others soon after you.
scene 2 : he dont love you at all....... just a game. Why waste time on this kind of game ?
scene 3 : both of you get together........ but causing alot of hurt to others
From what I gather above, FIND ANOTHER GUY !!!
2006-08-31 19:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so selfish.how would u feel,if something like this was to happen to u?trust,commitment and understanding plays a very imp role in all relations.do not rely on him.he is now literally cheating is beloved wife.u falling for him is going to ruin the lives of many.so learn let go.
2006-08-31 19:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋