You're wife betrays you with another, not sexually, and says the marriage is not working. In the meantime there is a woman from work that has constantly been coming on to you for well over a year, asking for whatever you're willing to give her. You still live with your wife and children, do you now give into this woman?
2006-08-31 17:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I give your guy allot of credit. He and you need to make some serious efforts in either saving your relationship or to end it.
2006-09-01 07:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if the wife wants to work things out and is willing to work on the marriage.
Also the kids have to be considered and of course need to come first.
2006-09-01 01:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....its not so simple!! A commitment of marriage and then to add to it children means you are answerable to an extent even if you leave your wife and start having an affair to satisfy yourself. And instead of trying to leave it all to time and going out with this work colleague, i'd suggest this man should give more time n effort to save his family!!! Thats my opinion. There must be reaosns why it is not working, well eradicate those reasons. Work on them, and find a solution.
2006-09-01 00:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mani Srivastava 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, playing devil advocate here, id have to ask exactly how you betrayed him, the marriage may not be working, but if its decided that the marriage is over, then i might begin laying the ground work to be with the other woman.....but like i said, it depends on what you did and if its in agreement that the marriage is beyond saving
2006-09-01 00:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by heavyhand002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when men are upset,angry,with stress because the wife betrays,logic and men natural reaction is cross the line with one or more women. answer could be yes.Problem is, that children get the pain some times.
2006-09-01 01:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to counseling and give your marriage another try. you have children and you need to find the love you once had with your wife. You have taken that vow.
2006-09-01 02:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if my wife betrays me, no matter what kind of betrayal it is i toss her to the curb, i have no room for traitors on my ship.
if the other girl was coming on to me i would check it out since there may be a possibility for a happy life
2006-09-01 00:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldnt want to stoop to her level. I wont cheat
Good Luck and God Bless
2006-09-01 00:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NOT UNTILL YOU HAVE MOVED OUT AND KNOW FOR SURE THAT IT IS OVER
2006-09-01 00:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by rickherr10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you either seperate or divorce.
2006-09-01 00:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋