Before we were married my husb and was the "clean one". Is it just my husband, or is this commonplace in the land of marriage and why?
2006-08-31 17:21:20 · 20 answers · asked by Natalie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for the same reason women develop headaches
after they get married
2006-08-31 17:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh I really want to know the answer to this one. When I first started living with my husband before we got married he would make me a good breakfast and bring it to me in bed and he would also do the dishes. He would help me clean up the house and I thought wow I am in heaven. We got married 3 years later and now we have been married for 5 and I have not had breakfast brought to me in bed for 5 years. He helps around the house very little and that is only if I get mad and tell him he needs to help. Good question but sorry I do not have the answer to this one.
2006-09-01 00:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men get lazy after they are married because they don't think they need to impress their wives anymore because they've already sealed the deal or something like that. I disagree with this mentality, I am always trying to make my wife happy by letting her pick my socks up off the floor and walking around the house naked so she will be in the mood so our sex life doesn't fizzle out. I'm the best husband in the world and I am sensitive enough to always remind my wife that I am the best she could do.
2006-09-01 00:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by royal_fryer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the P.R. for men to get attention before they marry.These so call future Hubs are very cute and lovely.After we take them to our lives then the story changed They become Count Potatoes and they are very lazy in nature. They love to eat and enjoy life in which I can compare them to cats.They eat and eat and sleep and do nothing. All Men in my opinion they can do one thing at the time and it takes them longer to think from one project to another, while the women are multitasks and they can do all at the same time. I do not understand why most of men behave that way, however I see some men help more at homes but, the women in this situation feel more submissive to them and this is my true story.
2006-09-05 00:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know, my husband got very lazy about everything.. I never did nor did I gain any weight, when I look at him sometimes, I think of his mother, and I know that if I were not around she would still be taking care of her baby, and it seems like that most men just want someone to be their moms, only with benefits.. They need that person to take care of them, I do not get it myself,Sorry..
2006-09-01 00:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is only men who do this. I think that the more comfortable people are in their relationship the more relaxed they are in keeping up with the chores. Sometimes people learn that the "clean police" are not going to raid your home if you have two dirty dishes in the sink. It is just part of growing older and having other priorities in life.
2006-09-01 00:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at it this way would you still have to do all the stuff your doing right now if you never married . yes you would , so i guess you want someone to do everthing for you . if thats the case you should have been born rich with a butler . i bet your a fat sweat hog with rolls of fat around your stomach, dimpled thighs and an *** that looks like marbles hit it . you probably tell him your to tired for sex and that "your girfriends don't give it to their husbands either" so you think that is a legit excuse to use . you are a pathetic wife asking questions like this .
2006-09-01 01:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by DAVID G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
now all men get lazy after they get married i know i didnt every man is different so u cant classify it as just men its some women too what u should have said is why do some men get lazy
2006-09-01 08:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by armyengineer296462003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you have it bad? My husband use to iron his t-shirts when we were dating and now he's developed an allergy to the wash machine. It's a good thing I have that same allergy to the lawn mower! It takes alot of compromise honey, but you'll get there.
2006-09-01 00:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typically its the norm. i've been married 12 years and have 5 kids. they just feel that you are the new mom who is here to take care of them. they need to be cared for on a full time basis. say something to him or go on strike like he does. fair is fair!
2006-09-01 00:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋