should i have sex with him before we get married or justdo it?
2006-08-31 17:45:42 · 23 answers · asked by snowflake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The right thing to do is to wait till you're married but you should do what's right in your hart ...If you feel that you're ready and that is the person you wanna give yourself to then just do it ...
Good luck to you !!
2006-08-31 17:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ALWAYS wait until after marriage to have sex. How do you know he'll stay with you after he has sex with you? Do you know how you will support the baby? (if there is one and there's aways a high chance no matter how much protection you use) Are you ready to give up 90% of your time at the very least to take care of the baby? Besides sex is a sacred ordinance given to all mankind by God for the use of bringing new life into the world and should NEVER be abused.
2006-09-01 02:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by morman620570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married. You will thank me. If the person you are with won't take no for an answer then I would suggest rethinking your relationship. Find someone who will respect you and wait for you. If he is pressuring you into have sex then break up with him and stay away from him. You have to realize guys will say "I love you" and do anything for a virgin. Don't trust a thing they say. Wait until you are married.
2006-09-01 00:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by Elim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait
2006-09-01 00:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but only with an older man that knows how to make it pleasureable for a beautiful young flower as yourself. That way you will know the beauty and satisfaction of good sex.
2006-09-01 10:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have such a great wedding present waiting for him. There arent too many girls who have that gift to give. I know you probally both would love to now. But if you have waited this long. I just think you should wait a little longer.
2006-09-01 01:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait....wait....and wait. You will kick yourself if after you have had sex with him before marriage and he walks away without marrying you. Don't put yourself through the heart break that I went through.
2006-09-01 00:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've waited so far, then wait until you get married. I waited until I got married, and I have no regrets. I highly recommend waiting.
2006-09-01 00:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex just "to do it". When the time is right, you should have sex. The first time you should have sex it should mean something, since you only have one chance to do it.
2006-09-01 00:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by rwest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just wait. What harm could it do? None. Good luck with your decision. Just remember that if he loves you he won't pressure you into sex.
2006-09-01 00:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋