my boyfreind has hid this pix of him with other females in his car i have been driving his car and happend to put something in the glove box and found a pix of him with these females should i suspect hes cheating hes always saying hes gotta stay late for work but when i call him sometimes he dont answer and hes always at his freinds house should i leave him if i question him hell say its me thats cheating and i know for a fact that its not me please give ur best a nswers and help please
2006-08-31 05:21:10 · 20 answers · asked by idawilson30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl if you have to question his whereabouts, then you need to leave him. In your question there are 4 things that give you, the answer you're looking for: 1. the pictures in his car. 2. the working late. 3. not answering his phone. 4 the alibi of being at his friends house. Stop stressing over a loser, and move on. It is the best thing to do. Don't stick around to watch his lies catch up with him. This is only the beginning. If he is cheating now, then he probably will continue to cheat once he is caught. Don't give him the satisfaction of a chase. Get out now, while you are STD free. There are too many faithful guys out here to be wasting your time on a cheater!
2006-08-31 05:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that picture couldve been from before you guys even met, he might just be friends with them. or hes really dumb for leaving it around and getting busted.
He could be a real hard worker he likes to spend time with his friends and hes too busy to answer the phone, not very nice.
He could be innocent so you dont want to keep accusing him incase he's innocent because then he will go and cheat he might as well. dont stalk the guy by calling him all the time, just let him be and if hes cheating YOU know only you , no one on yahoo knows the whole story and your relationship. listen to your heart.
if he is you will find out eventually. in the mean time use condoms just incase he has something from sleeping around, there is too many stds to be that trusting.
2006-08-31 05:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by dont take it so personal damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are SOOOOOOOOO many ways to find out. I'll give you a list if you need it, but just by what you've said-you have a feeling. Instincts are usually correct. You have to decide if: A: you want to catch him in the act, and B: if/when you do, what will be your next move. Don't stay, if you don't trust. You will start to question every single move he makes. It's not worth it. Trust me. Been there. Good Luck!!
2006-08-31 05:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by dct1218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it this way, just having that doubt is enough. he will turn it around and be mad at you if you tell him you saw those pics. (as he already has) know why...??? because he is GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION...!!! there is a red flag here and you should pay attention to it. period...don't be fooled. lieing is just as bad as cheating. you don't deserve to even have to guess if he's cheating. trust is a valuable commodity in a relationship and if you even have one ounce of doubt, you're probably not going to have a successful relationship...protect yourself from harm and be careful. DON'T THINK WITH YOUR EMOTIONS, think with your heart and the facts...you have all the facts you need with those pics. they don't lie, but he will...good luck sweetie... : )
2006-08-31 06:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by dolphinman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the guilty party will try to blame the innocent victim. He will lie and tell you that he is not cheating. It is ultimately up to you whether to stay or go based on how he is treating you and if you like the circumstances.
2006-08-31 05:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy friend? He is your boyfriend not your husband. If you don't have a good feeling then you need to either except how it is or move on. There are plenty of men out there that would treat you so much better.
Your choice.
2006-08-31 05:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to turn the other direction from where he is and RUN for your life. This man will cause you endless hurt by his cheating ways. The signs are all there. Wake up, my dear.
2006-08-31 05:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually if you think someone is unfaithful there is a high % they are. Also the cheater usually lies so it's hard to know 4 sure in the end if he is you will find out.
2006-08-31 05:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way you will truely find out is to catch him in bed with them or if he tells you flat out... otherwise personally yeah i think he is banging her and i'd leave him but that is just me...the one that accuses as he does when you ask him is the one doing the crime...ever here of that ....and if he isnt doing it he would get defensive when you ask either....he would feel secure in his answer
2006-08-31 05:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by fantasia91273 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask - then he's cheating!!! Move on and get on with your life - there's more fish in the sea - NEXT
2006-08-31 05:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋